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Jesus F.C., 4 hours and 6$, barely anyone enters my room. And yeah, who dares to chat, no hi, no nothing, just point blank rude. or, just had one now asking me how is my Christmas. hey dude, is still a week to go still to Christams, left straightaway. Jesus F*** C*** lol.
Oh, am so glad this forum exist, messing my head.. the same, even 20 minutes without any in. Am going to start drinking Gin and tonic and come back online, trying to STFO for hours now, charity time... dunno how bad it will effect the placement, but I do not care anymore.
I've gotten busy tonight on other sites. Completely dead on Streamate.
Really think there are tech issues or some other problem because if it were the holidays or people out of work or more hosts working I wouldn't be making money elsewhere!
2 regulars have hit me up on onlyfans and snapchat bc sm keeps fucking up.
They know I dont do offsite cam but ANYWAY bc the problems are so bad
when i take regulars offsite they like to go into the friend zone or more. oh wow she did a 1 on 1 and took time for me.
one popped up on sm saying I left you a message, of course I saw it. my go to is "i never check messages" he said to me ... yeah if you did you could make real money when I come in town and I act totally stupid to seeing emails. BARF..UNSEE WHAT HE SAID.. HE IS GOOD MONEY.. UNSEE THAT NOW...LOOK AT THE CEILING...TOTALLY IGNORE .. go walk the dog act like i logged off lol I cant deal with creepy. I just cant.
and if one more stupid goddamn motherfucker hits me asking do you have a onlyfans.or what is your name on onlyfans ,, these are regulars that know what my gd name is. wtf I cant deal with stupid. i cantttt lol
Ive hit a few limits this week
I've had four shows on CMD this week and thats huge for me. With a fifth maybe happening before I go to bed later. I missed his request walking the damn dogs for their night time potty and now I'm all crying like pleaseeeeeeeee come back cause now he said he is doing something and cant sneak away. Damn it! But yah, usually I only get one or two a month on there so its just SM for me that is dead as dead, I've never seen it this dead ever. Ugh! I've worked almost 17 hours and only made $91 bucks.
Hello!
I am new on SM (I've been streaming here for 2 months). I have to tell, that this forum helps me to keep my motivation!
The first month was really good for me, I did a great amount of money (for me great amount). This month is my second, and I have noticed only a small decrease in the money UNTIL THIS WEEK. OMG what is happening? :(
I am experiencing randomly bad bitrate and RTT, and it ruins my stream. I used to be on the bottom of the first page and on the top of the second, but today I am on the third page. :( I have some regulars in pvt, but I cannot find new customers, and the money is pretty bad these days. My room is almost dead.
The "My favorites" part didnt fresh for a ~2 weeks period. My statistics are horrible.
I am afraid, I cannot reach the first page again with these terrible stats.
I can see that you have the same problems...I'm streaming right now, and I'm just sad, because of these things I mentioned.. :(
Well, is the 2nd time i had a severe panic attack after not being able to sleep for 3 days, in 3 days and 3 nights i was able to fall asleep very late after taking a double dose of Anxiar (similar to Xanax, i had it in the house) and slept only for approx 2 hrs each time.
Friday morning i panicked i'll go nuts cause of not sleeping all nite and asked my son to take me to the psychiatric hospital where i was hospitalized the 1st time and we went to the emergency room, i was in a bad state, lethargic, not really responsive to stimulus and extremely tired, they put me back on medication for depression, anxiety and sleep.
I was off medication (with doctor allowance) since summer after being treated for the same issue for 1 and a half years.
Both episodes were triggered by this work, it started with feeling depressed and anxious then i lost sleep then severe panic attacks.
Feeling better now and was finally able to get on cam on wednesday and made some small change in about 4 hrs on cam, last night i made $4.8 in tips from a single guy. I logged off after 2.5 hrs cause it was useless to stay on, it was absolutely dead, in and outs here and there, people asking for free stuff, rtt and bit rate jumping from green to yellow and back.
Something is definitely UP with SM lately/ this week.
I have an account on stripchat but my camscore dropped after the 2 weeks promotion time and i am not getting traffic there anymore cause well, i am not wiling to do what most people do there, hardcore shows in free.
We shall see, i also started therapy together with medication to learn to handle this job better cause the lack of business is killing me and is affecting my self esteem a lot.
Reading ur posts in here make me feel better that i am not alone in this and its not all on me cause i always tend to blame myself for not being pretty enough, slim enough, smart enough, so on.
Thank you for reading, i wanted to share my experience and tell u ladies to have good care of ur mental sanity and if u feel things start to aggravate to seek assistance (for the ones who suffer with anxiety/ depression or other issues).
By the way, does depression and/or anxiety can be cured for good or we live with it forever?!
Do i need to be on meds all my life?! I was thinking the treatment cured me but the stress over work triggered a new episode :(
The therapist said i'll be able to handle myself better when i'll be off meds but i read on the internet that after the 2nd episode the treatment will be even longer like years, i will ask my psychiatrist about this when she will see me in January, she was fully booked and could not see me but sent me a prescription by email so i can continue the treatment given at hospital.
All the best everyone and Happy Holidays!
I have GAD, which is basically chronic anxiety and unfortunately, there is no cure for it. You can remove the triggers and have cognitive therapy, but that’s most. Medication does help, usually SRRI.
Beware of benzos (Anxiar, Xanax and so on). They cause addiction pretty fast and unfortunately they only help on the short time. Basically, they help “lower” your anxiety stimulus in the brain, but they do it so good, that your brain has a hard time coming back from that. Plus, with time, they require bigger doses. Thankfully, I’ve never been a fan on Xanax, it gives me depersonalization, like I’m starring at myself from the top.
Right now I take Coaxil, is a mild antidepressant, Rivotril for anxiety, trittico before sleep and zolpidem for sleep, at the hospital they gave me a stronger antidepressant that I took over weekend and made me all dizzy, they did not hospitalized me cause there are covid cases in the hospital and they hospitalize only the severe cases. I contacted my psihiatrist on Monday and she said to me over the phone that the antidepressant given at hospital is too strong and too much for me (2 pills at once per day) and sent me the prescription with Coaxil which I take now. Anxiar I took only in hospital when I had my first episode in 2019 and at home only when needed and just a half pill but I took more when I was not able to sleep again last week. Now I don't take anxiar, just what I wrote above, the meds put me back on my feet but I have attention issues, I have moments when I feel I can't focus on what I do or have to do. I can't sleep without the meds, mind won't switch off simply, it runs thoughts continuously.
I feel Soo disabled ...
Ty for ur message xxx
Disclaimer: I am not a doctor- I think with depression and anxiety issues that it depends on the situation and other variables in the mix. Do I think we can overcome it- (speaking from personal experience) yes. But there are so many factors involved- genetics, lifestyle, environment, etc. etc..
What has helped me was when I needed medication I took it and learning the tools to manage stress, depression and anxiety- such as CBT, anger management, learning a healthy way of processing emotions and allowing myself to feel, and having a good support network. Support groups were a good starting place for me.
Everyone is different, and everyone's situation is different. I will say this NEVER stop taking your medication cold turkey because it can screw up your system and talk to your doctor if you are experiencing negative side effects.
It's tough that I know, and I feel for you. Wishing you the best!
It must be so hard. It has been a brutal year on cam. I am finding this week torture and I don't have anxiety to contend with. For what its worth I do think there is something very wrong on SM I have worked hours all week for very little but my other sites are busier than they have been. x
Thank you for input, i started CBT yesterday, i was told is the best therapy, i went for another kind of therapy last year "person centered" type that did not help at all, the therapist was not good for me and the method was not what i needed, i quit after 5 session cause when leaving her office i was feeling worse than when i arrived there ... the new therapist knows what she is doing and understood immediately what i am dealing with, it was a good session, i'll go there once a week for how long is needed and i can afford it, parents and my son will help too with money for therapy.
I just need to make enough on SM to live decently and pay bills but the site is soo screwed lately/ this week.
Hugs, all the best to u too xxx :-*
how is the 30% a bonus when there is 0 traffic and nothing but bot traffic and earnings are down by 50+ % for most of us ? no way on gods green earth are these members human. i'm not the only cammer who notices the user names all being similar. sorry but bob111 , bobbobbob , bobtitlover all logged in at once and leaving at the same time are NOT human and neither is the rest of the traffic
I noticed this to. I'm just broken. Not only did I get diddly on the 30% bonus that I was so excited about orginally but I'm with BM models to for daily pay and couldnt even get one min in paid chat to qualify for their bonus. I'm showing two days at 0 even though I was signed on to SM for HOURS.
I did not pay attention to similar names but my problem is: members that spent on me ( pvt, excl or tips ) don't say a word. They don't answer to my "Hello... how are you today?" They just enter, stay a bit then leave, some come back another 2-3 times. So weird...
it's because they can't stay connected or see us. like clockwork every contest/bonus week it's as if they flip a switch and turn off traffic/earnings for a large majority. it seems like a numbers game. their bottom line are the cammers they get the biggest % from which would make sense why the same few place in top contests prize spots or make mad $ during bonus weeks. too many patterns of the same thing every last time. it's super predicatable at this point. 30% bonus on top of earnings that get SLASHED by more than 50+ % is a slap in the face especially because it's just money we would've made on a non sham contest/bonus week
Streamate has been terrible this whole week :/ I’m starting to focus more on building up room traffic on chaturbate
I'm both glad it's not just me but also sad for everyone that it's affecting most of us this way. I feel pretty stupid for actually getting excited about this bonus. It's like getting excited about having my pay cut by more than half.
Still going to work the next couple days but not marathoning like I was planning before.
Dang I was bothered since I'mnot sure how many more shifts I'm going to get in this year, havent been able to do the bonus week sounds like I'm not missing much. I always ban the peepers, maybe thats bad since keeping them bumps up your room count ? IDK
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