a person knows when they are trolling , its a evil feeling so anyone knows when they are watching for all the wrong reasons.
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So I got over my anxiety and have been doing a lot more Gold Shows! It is definitely bring in traffic when your room is so quiet. I love when guys take me pvt/exclusive afterward!!!
Guys guys I don't mean to change the subject... But I finally got approved over on SM. I'm going to start work today but I'm going through first time camming jitters. I'll be honest I've shown my stuff off on a cam before but only to an ex boyfriend. I also have no qualms about being naked in front of people. Up until this point I've felt mentally prepared. My only concern... What if no one likes me and what I'm offering to the table. I mean I feel like I bring a unique fantasy to people, bringing the "cute little raver girl" aspect of it. (I would assume this would be a fetish?) I also have multple outfits outside the raver girl, and super sexy and cute lingerie I've worked in sales and hospitality for years now I know how to act to customers, fend off rudeness and like many of you have used the internet since they can remember. Thanks to my own family I am hardened for trolls. I have physically prepared for this, if you know what I mean ;) and have good hardware, not top of the line like some girls do(but its definitely a goal now :D ) My sister who totally supports my new career choice even bought me new speakers, a tripod and a logitech 920 cam. I've calibrated it and everything, tested it out and set up my room for perfect lighting and optimum sound. My dad(WHO DOES NOT KNOW) gave me a new ethernet cable... he called it an echo 6 and its apparently all types of bad assery for ethernet cables. He guarantees its completely stable and won't choke my internet out. I haven't had issues yet. I have lurked on other girls on just more the SM EVERY DAY FOR TWO WEEKS STRAIGHT! I am prepared for the hustle. I even have a notebook ready to gather info on clientele. Have a business plan and everything... AHhhhh! My head is going to explode... D: I want to do this and I am more then willing to put the work needed to be very successful at it. I am even conceded and like seeing myself look sexy and stuff on cam.I am confident in my own abilities.........BUT STILL.....what if no ones likes me.... D:
*BREEEEAAATHE* Deep down I feel I'll be fine, but I am seriously having some pre anxiety issues here XD Thank god for these forums to be able to let loose... and sorry if I posted this in the wrong thread. I just figured since I'm on SM it'd be okay to do it here, but I wasn't entirely sure.
I've pretty much sworn off Gold Shows because it seems like they bring out the worst in me. Everytime I try to do one and no one pledges I get discouraged and pissed off and it ruins my mood and my game :( I think I'm just going to stop doing them all together. I hate cheap guys anyway.
I love when I tell a custie I will forever ban him from my show if he kept popping in and out of my GS countdown without pledging and he ended up being the highest contributor!
Its normal to have pre-cam jitters and to question whether they will like you or not.BUT,if you go in with that attitude,theres a good chance that it will become a self fulfilling prophecy. You said you're conceited - well then work that to your advantage.KNOW youre the baddest bitch on SM (at at the very least,the baddest one in your room lol) and just go for it.Confidence is absolutely the most important part of being successful as a camgirl,atleast I believe it to be.
Worry/anxiety/tension comes across very easily on cam - remember that humans (and animals) only use words as what,like, 5% of communication I believe? The rest is entirely conveyed through body language.We read each others bodies and see the truth no matter what is coming out of the mouth.
Theyll love you,they always do.
My two cents - I started out with a notebook as well,quickly chunked it and started using the notes system on SM to track client likes/dislikes/sessions etc.Its easier,you can get to it in a millisecond and they wont even know youre "consulting" anything about their show,theyll just think you remember them and the session(s) youve previously had with them.
* Ive had to have posted almost this same exact response atleast a dozen times lately.They are all titled differently,but Id def go searching for some "first time on SM" "new to SM" "pre-cam anxiety/jitters" etc threads - theres wonderful advice in all of them.
Loveshooks I will be sending u an email...time for me to join verified so I can discuss SM and other things without prying eyes.
Also, it will put to rest those rumors I am a SM operative. lmaoooooo seriously
I really enjoy being a part of SW. Thank you all. :)
I love it when this happens :)
Once I had a guy who sat in my freechat for WEEKS.... finally I told him he better talk to me or I would ban him. He immediately said something and then bought a 30 min block session.
He probably is one of those guys who needs to know they're being paid attention to before they give money(and not one of the cheapo $1 gs guys lol)...hopefully one of the ones that will keep on giving too :)
Anyone having trouble kicking and banning guys? I clicked kick/ban several times and nothing happened! I have guys just sat in my room for like 30 without tipping or say anything.
It could be a glitch. It happens sometimes where they're not actually in your room at all, but their screen name is sort of "stuck" on your guest list.
Yep, you gotta stop/start stream. It's a glitch. It's been happening to me occasionally. The "unbannable" guys are actually kickable. What I mean is that someone who is "unbannable" can be kicked out of your room by clicking "ban" but then he won't show up on your list. If you click "ban" and the guy is on your list, you'll know it was just a glitch.
I wanted to say thanks for your support gals. :) my night is going pretty well. : D
I don't even log in when I perv the girls. hehe.. I'm just a guest. I found this female couple that are friggin awesome. I love to watch their show. They're like bright, shiny things and I get distracted by them so easily. ;)
I just signed up to SM. I have a profile, but how do I link up a cam? What cam proviuder do I use?
Cam provider ??
Hi, looks like u are a foreigner, u sure u know what camming is all about, pc/cam setup, so on? Cam provider? Maybe cam brand? You supposed to have a camera already before starting work and have some basic knowledge of how u need to operate pc in order to cam?! Or like Missy said u are a customer on SM actually?!