Yes they are! I just got my Paxum payment.
And I will get the Lush once I paid off my debts and have cash to spare
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Yes they are! I just got my Paxum payment.
And I will get the Lush once I paid off my debts and have cash to spare
ugh has anyone else had an issue with blocked users still being able to send messages?
i had tech support block a user from both my chat and my messages which i confirmed in my block list last week. he was checked off on both. yet today in my Messenger (not the classic inbox) he sent me $10 gold and apologized for getting blocked. and it wasn't a new account, because his old messages he had sent before I blocked him were also there.
>_<
^All the time, I emailed Liz recently and she didn't really have an answer as to why they can still write me through messenger. Archiving doesn't seem to work, cuz whenever they message again the convo resurfaces. I just try to ignore and hope they'll give up
lots of user connection issues today
I always make sure to clean my cache & reboot my hotspot/phone if I'm using that for streaming bc sometimes it gets bogged & causes my streams to freeze. I will always ask the guys how my stream is. Most will tell you & wait for you to go excl until you fix it.
wow this site is SLOW AF today :(
I rarely have issues when accessing the cam site but it gave me gateway errors
A bunch of comments just showed up on my profile. Yay!!
Is the site a complete mess for everyone else? Not only am I on page four, but I’ve seen a bunch of people on multiple pages.
Good luck on getting a response. (I’m not being snarky. I mean it’d be nice to have some clarity!) I don’t think a corporation is going to give performers written permission to use the N word-even just for race play during this time period.
You can e-mail Liz, but if you aren’t getting in trouble then I’d keep doing what your doing. That’s pretty much how the adult industry works. Do whatever you can get away with then apologize like hell if you get in trouble. Especially if it’s only a few loyal customers I doubt you’ll get tagged. I hope you get a response. It’d be nice to get some clarity, but due to the sensitive nature of the topic and everything with visa/MasterCard. I doubt they’ll give a green light to do race play especially permission to use the N word-even if it’s scripted.
The diaper thing? Is he a little? As long as he not talking or acting like a little boy I’m sure it’s fine.
I don’t understand the psychology behind it, but I do know sex work can be a form of psychodrama- psychology treatment. In terms of its therapeutic benefits, I personally am okay with whatever my client is okay with. I’m not responsible for my clients mental health. If it comes from trauma then it’s their responsibility to get help-most won’t. You’d be surprised about the therapeutic benefits of sex work.
I asked my sex worker therapist about taboo because I would hate to retraumatize myself
or my client. My therapist said even the mother-son taboo stuff isn’t necessarily bad. It doesn’t mean they were molested or will abuse children. They can get off because it’s taboo.
You can always have client agree to go to therapy if you think it’s from trauma.
If it gives you a bad vibe don’t do it. I personally of the opinion what two consenting adults do is none of my business. Sex work is so misunderstood that we have to navigate this shit without a compass.
Sorry for the lengthy response, but I actually did a lot of research to make sure what I was doing was ethical. I couldn’t do my work if it thought it was harmful to myself or society. Just wanted to share my knowledge :)
i literally agree with everything you are saying. but we have to respect what the site wants and the cardproceessor wants. and im fine with that.
i just cant take any risks with getting my account blocked. like you i am a rule follower.
the client just wants me to sit in an adult diaper and talk to him. but i need to be careful. i wont take his shows until i have a reply.
i just wish i knew EXACTLY what the exact rules were for each fetish and i would be 100% fine with that. i just want to feel safe with my account and secure.
i say no to a lot of shows and report people daily.
i blocked someone during a show yesterday that mention if i wanted to "meet up" INSTANT block. no matter what.
today i did take a raceplay show in a block but i had to make certain limits , and i hope that was what streamate wanted.
its hard to know
but the major point that I took out of her post, was that someone who works for the site will not give you or anyone that info. Especially if they know it is in a public forum. I really appreciate when they take the time to respond or update us but I myself don’t really want to have a back and forth with anyone from sm on a forum.
I like the Lush inside me, seems to store up my wetness (juices and lube) I am not sure however if this is healthy but I do remove it at least once per hour if not more - so probably not a problem.
Do wish the SM system would indicate 'Gold for tip toy/vibe' when being tipped, all I see is the blue button on the dashboard indicating the toy is connected but sometimes it is not. I always thank for Gold and now do a little squirm just in case.
OMFG, this week has been such a struggle. Hours upon hours of eating shit...but I just slipped into the top 900. Thank you LOA!!!
Has anyone mastered how to take a photo- Honestly i hate it daily, I can never get it right, I look demented half the time.
I take the same pose every time. It's within the frame and looks good, but it's the same every time. I don't mind it being the same pose as feet are my selling point. I just position myself in the frame so my whole body is there with feet right up front.
It's difficult to do it tho as the timer is short and the button is a bit far from me when I take it, but I lay in position, reach as far as I can for the button, then take the shot.
It isn't easy and a lot of models have the same issue.