Okay thanks guys! Now as far as pm on streamate? I didnt know this was available? I thought it was just email?
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Okay thanks guys! Now as far as pm on streamate? I didnt know this was available? I thought it was just email?
I definitely wouldn't advise this. SM have a policy against exchanging contact details (email address, actual home addresses etc) - there was one model here who said she got into trouble because a guy sent her his contact information, and SHE was punished for not typing that that was against site rules. I think that was the gist of it anyway. So even if you have THEIR contact details, that's just as bad as the other way around in SM's eyes.
I think the best thing to do would be to send them digitally via the messaging system SM have (no email, just SM messages). Is a real shame that SM are so uptight about this :( Its like the underwear-selling thing: Awesome idea, and both we and SM could profit off of selling things like over there. Nevertheless, there are still top girls breaking the rules and seemingly never getting any punishment / suspension for selling underwear, videos, etc.
I don't even know if I'm a "top girl" (guys tell me my front page placement but I still can never see myself online!), so know if I am liable to just get away with this shiz or not, but regardless of how top or bottom I ever am, I'd rather not risk my job.
If you go onto your SM profile, you'll see these options:
""I'm offline, but let's stay connected!"
- Send Me A message
- Add Me To Your Favorites
- Get Notified When I'm Online"
If you go onto any live SM model right now, you'll see the private messaging option beneath her stream. :)
does this mean that if I start today I won't be paid for 3 weeks? From SM's FAQ's: Payments are sent weekly. However, payments are on a three week delay due to the processors schedule. For example in week 4 of your account being approved you will receive a check for week 1's earnings.
Thanks for responding. I wondered if I would get in trouble for that or not. Don't wanna risk my job either.
I just had a guy last night in private who kept trying to get me to fly to Philly to fulfill his fantasy of having sex with a cam girl in real life. Then he proceeded to give me his number and also asked my real name. Of course I told him it was against the rules (like I'd do it if it wasn't)but he asked "how would they find out?" and "I won't tell if you won't".
This happens a lot, and I always say it's against the rules. I didn't know that by just ignoring them SM could still close your account though.
Unfortunately yes.
I freaked out the first week I worked SM and found this out. I emailed SM and they changed it so I am on a ONE week delay. Since then I am always on a one week delay - much more bearable.
Being on this one week delay means that if I finish work my week's shift this Friday night / Saturday morn, my payment will be sent the NEXT Friday.
Being as I get my money wired to my bank, I will wait from that Friday (17th), to Monday, to allow for the processing time. So essentially once I finish my weeks' shift, I wait 10 days to see my money in my bank.
so with this schedule I would essentially be getting checks every 3 weeks that would include 3 weeks worth of earnings? Its not just held 3 weeks for your first check? That sucks! I guess I will start SM at the end of August then to better fit in with my finances.
Thanks for your help, but Im not seeing the private message option. I see the option to send an email. Previously I thought you were speaking of a feature where guys could send you realtime messages that were sent in a private instant message. Like on MFC. I have some videos that I want to send out but not sure how to go about it. I asked twice in an email to streamate about this but I never got a response. So I suppose its a tricky situation. Its a case by case basis?
You should definitely have the ability to exchange messages through Streamate.
Does your interface not look like this?
Oh wow what no delays AT ALL (not even a one week delay)?Quote:
Originally Posted by GracieBlue
If so I wonder why. It would be very interesting...
Their FAQ is still saying about the three week delay, but perhaps just as in if not for SW, I still would have had NO idea that it would be possible for SM to change mine to just a ONE week delay, (or further increase my rates for that matter - among other things they for some reason want to keep quiet about), they're updating their system whilst not telling us a thing about it.
Does anyone know how long after a show a guy has to rate you? Is it instant or is there a time limit on when he can come back and rate you. Im having a hard time getting guys to rate me and even email me for pics and stuff. Of course the fuckers that dont pay anything want to send you pics of their cocks, but really who wants to see that!
Is traffic extremely slow for anyone else or is it just me? Yesterday and today I've had 0-5 people in my free chat when I normally have 10-20... I'm not doing anything different and my placement is the same. I've looked around at other models and it doesn't seem particularly slow all across the board... I really don't get it. I feel like ripping my fucking hair out.
Traffic was bad for me last night in terms of paying traffic. But I'm thinking it was problems at my end ~ I've been down-beat, I'm ill, I have no energy, it's insanely hot in my room, and I'm mega stressed due to the fact that I am moving house next week. -_-
I found it hard to make my usual gold show target of $120ish with buy-ins of 5 to 10. That usually works well for me, or at least better than it did last night.. At one point it took me 4 tries.
I don't like this. I've never been like this when it comes to my work. I just want to feel okay so I can just go in and do what I usually do. Ugh.
Do you do gold shows? If you have them enabled, I'd suggest you try one because even if you don't make your goal, you are likely to rake in much more traffic than otherwise, and more likely to get more privates.
^^ Haha, I'm in the same boat as you. I'm moving in a couple weeks and I'm stressed out as fuck. I try to smile & keep up the cheerful act but maybe my stress is showing through too much. My room is also really hot since I don't have air conditioning.
I do gold shows and USUALLY do really well with them, but yesterday when I tried I could barely keep 10 people in my room. During a gold show. I guess I should try them more often, but I get really pissed off if they don't go well, and I hate wasting all that time. It discourages me and makes me want to sign off. so I usually just wait around for privates.
My regulars are also nowhere to be found... which is odd. Usually on slow days I get saved by my regs, but they're not around, sooo...
^^^ SAME BUT I HAVE SEMI OLD REGS..I see in my earnings where my whales are crushing their wallets and Im like ummm ok.....lolzzzzzzzzz IS IT BC SHE IS YOUNGER? hahaha I feel cheated on! Thats cool bc the step mom role play I'm getting use to :)
Little late on this but yes you are. When I'm logged in you've been showing up 2nd row for the last month. Then a few days back SM placement seemed to get all messed up in the UK because I jumped up to top row and under that placement you're #1/#2 on the site!
Congrats chica! :D
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I can't even!
Thank you for alerting me to this mah dear!