I am a tad confused on what you are asking, but from what I have gathered here is my two cents.
1. Raise your rates, for the love of camming please raise your rates. "
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ates-Challenge! " You can ask SM to raise your rates beyond what you currently have available, up to $19.99 a min.
2. Not sure what your are asking here , "obviously they're not going to pay more for exc if they don't have to?".....is your exclusive rate the same as private? You can make it higher, lower or the same. The diff is in exclusive there is only one guy. A lot of times performers will put exl rate a few bucks higher to offset not having multiples customers. In private, as many as they want can come in. Some girls prefer to make their private higher than exclusive for several reasons.
3. "I'm worried now about changing my rules as I don't want to piss off a few regulars." ---- you have to do what is best for you and your business. Regs cum, cum, cum, cum some more and eventually they go...never ending cycle. You will inevitably piss someone off and you will inevitably make someone happy, but who counts the most in the happy--you! My regs love ME and they will adapt or leave and I will get new ones--- I am not attached to them. I have found raising my rates attracted better regs, but that is my experience.
What you choose to do in private vs what you choose to in exclusive is completely up to you. The only real diff is some guys will pay more to be in exclusive to be one on one with just you or they have a fetish, etc. Other guys actually like private because they like the thought of having other guys around (among many many other reasons). There are a few things I chose not to do in private and insist the requests go exclusive or they purchase a block session if they want that request fulfilled. Other than that I do "bare all" in private. It seems I get more requests in exclusive to not get naked. I look at it this way for the most part---- if I am in "private" I feel like I am at a bachelor or frat party....in exclusive I feel like I am on a kinky date.
Best of luck,
Jack