Has anyone ever found out about what you do for a living against your will?
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Has anyone ever found out about what you do for a living against your will?
No, thank god, and hopefully I never am.
I've had some realllllly close calls... so far, the fewer people I piss off/get emotionally involved with me, the safer I've been. My friends all know, though, and it falls right in with my personality, so none of them care.
nooo
god i dont want my family to EVER know, but i know it ll come to light eventually if i begin to like camming more and more...
i did have a close call though
my bro heard me speaking to guys in free chat
mom asked my younger bro where i was,
he told her i was in my room on the phone with a friend speaking professionally LOL..
just hope he doesnt try to listen in while im in prvt!!
oops..
Oh damnit all. Nevermind. This is camming connection--I'm so sorry!
Sure have. More and more seem to be finding out even though I block my area. Unfortunately it's the internet :-/
I've never been recognised on cam, but if I ever was it wouldn't bother me one little bit.
The only person I have to worry about finding out at all is my dad, but he's apparently one of those guys who only looks at porn (different mediums, though, he REALLY needs to seperate his porn DVD's from his videogames) when he's not a relationship, and he just got SRS with his girlfriend.
He keeps asking what I do, and I keep telling him I can't tell him because of a non-disclosure agreement. The only real problem is when I'm about to get on cam and he messages me (we are dorks, we communicate almost exclusively via internets) and it's impossible to get away.
Very few select friends/family members know what I do...and even with them knowing they dont know where to find me. Even my ex..Ive told him a million times what my web address is, plus he has unlimited free access to my rude account. He still forgets what it is...*doh!*
I only dont want it to get out because I have a daughter at home with me, and really dont want/need anyone blackmailing me in any kind of way, which I can see happening. But, once she is out of school, I really could care less one way or another. Not like im going to advertise it and start telling everyone, but I simply will not care if someone knows, no one will have anything to hold against me.
Escorting..thats a different matter entirely..but that wasnt the question :D
I told my parents about my modeling and showed them my portfolio when I first started doing nudes, commercial and editorial work. For some stupid reason I thought they'd be proud. Huge, stupid oversight on my part, don't know how I didn't see it coming but I told them right off so I've never had to hide. They were ripshit pissed off at first, but they got over it.
The thing that made them get over it was an ex of mine who was steadily going insane. He threatened me with blackmail. "Go out with me again or I'll tell your parents what you do." He was in the middle of some media coverage at the time for something that he was later convicted of so he threatened to tell the media. Clearly, I wasn't about to go back to him. I don't know what he was thinking, he knew that my parents already knew.
So he let it slip to the media that maybe I was also involved in his crime and I was a "porn star" and then he sent my parents pictures. So the media went screaming up to my parents' doorstep and asked about it all. Whereupon my parents became momma and daddy bears and said -in so many words- "This is our baby and she is not involved [I wasn't] and we support her decision to do whatever she wants with her life so you can just fuck off."
I've told the people I'm closest to about my adult industry work. One of my exes did find out about what I did by going in my computer and emails when I wasn't home. He tried to make me quit and even told my day job. Smh he's out of my life now though.
No. Thank gosh!
not yet...since i am still fairly new to the camming world. but i know my shit will be blasted all over the net eventually and at least i will look damn good doing it, so no shame here, lol. fuck em, at least i am happy w/myself and will be making tons of money being an internet whore.