what to do when a guy is in love with you?
what do i do with this guy, hes kind of doing my head in now, he sends me an email every hour, and if i dont respond quick enough he sends me loads until i do asking whats wrong and if hes upset me n stuff! hes sent me loads of money which is great i make my daily goal each day by just what he sends me, its win loose situation here! lucky its on one of the sites where you cant pass on info, so its all happening on one website and he cant follow me elsewhere! not sure what to do with him, he sends me weird stories and poems, its sweet but super stalkerish at the same time, i swear he talks in rhyme all the time! how do i deal with him? anyone had simular thing happen to them?
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There was a thread similar to yours posted a few days ago. Hopefully this should help:
http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=156568
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I would try and explain that just because you don't reply to his emails doesn't mean you are upset with him, you are just busy with daily life and your job, which is why you are online in the first place lol. Tell him his poems are sweet and you enjoy reading them but you can't reply every hour. If he is that much of a bother you have to make a decision, creepiness or money.
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yeah i usually wake up and have about 5 messages from him, he thinks im awake 24/7 and dont sleep lol i enjoy the peace in the morning when he sleeps, but im like *oh no not him* when i see a message pop up!
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Stacie85
yeah i usually wake up and have about 5 messages from him, he thinks im awake 24/7 and dont sleep lol i enjoy the peace in the morning when he sleeps, but im like *oh no not him* when i see a message pop up!
How long has this been going on? Maybe once the newness wears off he won't email so much.
FYI, you may get more replies to your thread if you post in Camming Connection:
http://forum.stripperweb.com/forumdisplay.php?f=198
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lol I've had that. Or when people come in to my room i'm like god no. But it is what it is I guess.
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since the beginning of the month everyday even when he went on holiday, he was messaging me on the plane :o i could put up with it at first but hes soooo lovey dovey its sick, i feel bad for him a bit, ive even told him im married and he dont care, god this guy is nutts, seriously, a rhyming fruitloop
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Stacie85
what do i do with this guy, hes kind of doing my head in now, he sends me an email every hour, and if i dont respond quick enough he sends me loads until i do asking whats wrong and if hes upset me n stuff! hes sent me loads of money which is great i make my daily goal each day by just what he sends me, its win loose situation here! lucky its on one of the sites where you cant pass on info, so its all happening on one website and he cant follow me elsewhere! not sure what to do with him, he sends me weird stories and poems, its sweet but super stalkerish at the same time, i swear he talks in rhyme all the time! how do i deal with him? anyone had simular thing happen to them?
Pass him onto me }:D
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Pass him onto me }:D
lol dont want to get rid of him just need to controll the creeper fucker haha im suprised i aint getting doves sent to me thru my letter box lol since this thread ive had 3 messages off him, and you have to reply to them to get the money lol so i have no choice but to reply to him aghhhh its like a tonic circle! nothing chills this dude out
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talks in rhyme........... all the time!
Ha ! Found this to be ironic......sorry!!
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lol damn its rubbing off on me haha
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Clearly he lacks boundaries of what is acceptable behavior.
Be careful.
Tell him how much you like your time on cam with him,but can NOT devote 24/7 to being available to his every need, concern or insecurity.
The reason we cam is because, our job is when we log onto a cam site and ends when we log off. All other time is ours and none of their business.
How him being so pocessive and needy is a bit of a turn off.
No matter what you do he will only keep upping his behavior. Either he will demand a real life relationship or move onto the next infatuation.
Good Luck,
Sam
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Bottom line sounds like the guy no longer wants to be a paying customer. Age old 'I love you' crap. How dumb do they think we are? The way he is bombarding you, are you really meant to be impressed by this?
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Just remember to keep your income steady and dont get lazy because you have him, so when he becomes too creepy you can get away from him easier. Can you report him to site admins?