Re: Camming isnt working??
Get rid of them. I don't believe in keeping people who don't support my ambitions around.
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^^^exactly!!! he is an asshole for that and any guy that tries to make you feel like shit, isn't worth being with you. he is just jealous that he has to work hard with less pay and more hours, while your job appears easy and you make a shit load more. any guy who is nothing but negative and nonsupporting is a total waste of time.
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Well, I've made more per hour camming than any other job I've ever had, including highly skilled positions and also supervisory positions which were a royal pain.
He is disrespectful and demeaning to say that to you. I'd consider cutting him loose and moving on.
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You're right about him being jealous. He thinks I should be keeping care of the home because I'm here more often and I dont work as many hours but unless he's paying all the rent and bills then I dont think keeping house should be my "job" I'd like to see him try our work for even a day so he could see what it's really like.
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if you are paying most of the bills then he needs to do most of the house work. it isn't right for you to be paying most of the bills and have to all the house work and him bitching and being negative on top of it. in time he will make your life miserable if things don't change now.
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bubblegumbitch
if you are paying most of the bills then he needs to do most of the house work. it isn't right for you to be paying most of the bills and have to all the house work and him bitching and being negative on top of it. in time he will make your life miserable if things don't change now.
we split everything 50/50 so luckily he doesnt live off me but when he makes ass face comments that make it sound like camming isnt working it makes me feel like I'm being judgedand none of us should ever have to defend what we do. I should fly to Tibet and live with the celibate monks. Spend all my time meditating lol
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LilMissNaughty
I'd like to see him try our work for even a day so he could see what it's really like.
Next time he feels the urge to make a stupid comment, challenge him to it! Tell him to get in shape, pretty himself up, get on camera and start showing off the goods to strange guys. "No, honey, you can't do it? Then stfu about it."
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awsum for the 50/50 split, then he shouldn't have shit to say about your job if you are paying your own way. it all comes down to the jealousy thing, tell him to get on webcam and start doing the acts that random dudes tell him to do and see how well he handles it....even then he will prolly still be an ass. if he makes you unhappy then you need to do whats best for you, it's hard enough to deal with ridicule from the general public about your job but you shouldn't have to feel like defending yourself in your own home. that is a place where you should be able to let your hair down at w/o any judgments.
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Spinnerette
Get rid of them. I don't believe in keeping people who don't support my ambitions around.
Well put, Spinnerette!