What do you do about flatmates?
I'm sure some of you have flatmates, right? What do you do about them?!?
Do you tell them you're a camgirl?
I just moved and I don't know my flatmate very well. But right now, she has two people over and they are having a conversation outside of my room. So it's so awkward for me. I logged off cam just now because I didn't want them to hear anything.
The one time, I was on cam, and my flatmate knocked on my door to get me to set up the Internet. I had to log off and change and put away my toys so fast!! Just to set up the stupid Internet.
Also in this place we don't have locks on our bedroom door so she technically could just come in. Which freaks me out!
Anyway, so I can't just be yelling "fuck me! harder!" when my roommate is just outside my door. And then come out looking all normal.
I only have two months left here before I'm going to be getting a bachelor apartment of my own. But still - what do I do for the next couple of months?!? My previous place had locks and it just seemed less "close" than here. I don't know if my roommates ever figured it out but no one said anything.
I guess it doesn't technically matter if they find out but I don't want them to. I don't mix real life with camming. I just don't.
Anyway, this is a bit of a "venting" thread. But what do you do to deal with it? Let me know :)
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Ummmmm Yea ...... Smh .... Do you really think u can hide that ? lol ....they probably already know!...
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I never told my roommates because it's not their business of knowing. If they hear me, I don't care because everyone masturbates (some louder than others). Plus the fact that these people might secretly dislike me and blast what I do to all of their friends is something I'd rather not happen. Girls can be catty bitches and I've had my share of bad roommates. I'd rather not give them any reasons to dislike me (if not more) when we're just supposed to be living together and sharing rent. Honestly, it just depends on the type of roommates you have. If they are open to that sort of thing.... And you have to answer the questions, if you were in their place how would you react and feel around that person?
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You dont have to tell them where to find u or what your stage name is .....but they know your doing something abnormal in there lol..... i'd just be like im camming with guys on yahoo.....they believe shit like that lol.
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Also, I'd invest in locks or a do not disturb sign on the door. I just grab a towel or pull on some sweats and go to the door. I don't hide anything because I don't allow anyone in my room other than my friends. You said you don't know your roommate very well which means she doesnt know you. She's more likely to judge you if you just told her. You don't know the type of person she is and how she would react.
In my case, I cammed with roommates outside my door before and as I said I don't care what they THINK; just as long as they don't KNOW and start making assumptions. What I do in my room is my problem not theirs.
I play music a little loud and moan at a lower volume (if I can). Cause what am I thinking? I need to make this money. And no roommate is going to stop me or scare me out of making my rent, or car payments, or food money, or debt money, or any other bills I might have.
Plus you're probably not going to see this person again after you move out, so why tell this person your secret?
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MzStar
You dont have to tell them where to find u or what your stage name is .....but they know your doing something abnormal in there lol..... i'd just be like im camming with guys on yahoo.....they believe shit like that lol.
As I said, it really depends on the roommate. If she is a glamour model then she'd be more understanding, but say she's this conservative goody-two-shoes, then she might shun you and snare at you making your living experience there uncomfortable.
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I don't really know what my roommate does. We've probably spoken like three times? She is only here a couple days during the week but I'm never sure which days!
I guess if she asks I'll just saying I'm talking to my boyfriend
lol
:p
September 1st is when I will finally get out!!!!!!
:)
Oh I can't put a lock because it's such an old house that no locks will go on the door. Kinda messed up, yeah. And I can't put a latch thing on the door because I can't put holes in the wall/door (rules). I can however put my huge sewing machine in front of the door so it makes it pretty impossible to get in. I'm going to keep doing that :)
I still kinda wonder what she thinks ... but whatever ... I have to get over it!!!! :P
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I've been camming while my roomie is at work. I know his schedule pretty well by now, so I have a general idea of "safe times" to work. He's not really nosy, but he does think that I shouldn't have to lower myself to do this kind of work. He always speaks poorly of strippers, at least.
But I already have a cover story... if he says anything about hearing voices, I'm going to tell him that I'm an ASL tutor on Skype. I know sign, and I use Skype. Close enough.
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Aw, that sucks. I was going to tell you to go buy your own doorknob with a lock on it like I had to do for my room. But I guess you can't... :( When I didn't have a lock, I used a doorstop in front of my door. If you're not that close with your roomie though, I think just telling her to always knock and wait for you to answer would suffice. My roommates were good friends who were insanely nosy - no sense of privacy whatsoever. I can't imagine that virtual stranger would just up and open your door... If you don't want her disturbing you at certain times, tell her that you work from home and make a do not disturb sign for when she is not to bother you. If it's an emergency, ask her to text you and you'll come out when you have a moment.
Maybe you could just not use sound for the next 2 months? I know, your money might suffer a little, but tell all the guys that you'll have it back in a couple months and you'll make it worth their while in the meantime... or something... lol
If you don't want to/can't do any of that, just don't worry about it... she can draw her own assumptions all she wants but I doubt that no matter what she hears, she'll bring it up to you. I can hear one of my roommates having sex in the room next to me all the time but I've never brought it up to him lol There are sounds that most people just do not admit to hearing. She'll probably think you're skyping with a bf or something. I'd honestly be more embarrassed having them know what I was doing... because then we can't just all pretend it didn't happen... lol
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I don't even know if my roommate works or goes to school. Lol.
Good point, I doubt she will ask. I'm always super worried that she will though. Or that my door will be open and my toys and clothes and stuff will be out.
I can't let my sales suffer in any way if I want to get out of here. Lol. I need as much money as possible so I can move into my own place without roommates! If I don't earn enough in the next month then I will have to live with roommates again (yikes!).
And of course she has to have the room right next to mine :p
Two more months ... :p
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innes
I doubt she will ask. I'm always super worried that she will though. Or that my door will be open and my toys and clothes and stuff will be out.
Eh, just be that weird roommate that makes a ton of sexual noise in her room then just walks to the kitchen to wash off her dildo, gives a little head nod and nonchalantly goes "sup?" }:D