Here's a general question not related to stripping but is female related? How common is it for a girlfriend to be a tattletale and rat out the man to his SO?
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Here's a general question not related to stripping but is female related? How common is it for a girlfriend to be a tattletale and rat out the man to his SO?
I'm personally not a mistress but why would this happen? :O Wouldn't she just be ruining her own income since he will assuredly stop being a paying customer once his SO finds out?
Replaced mistress with GF
If she's helping you cheat on your s.o. then why would you even think for a minute she is a trustworthy person?
My guess is it would be pretty common for that type of person to rat you out, especially if she had something to gain or even if she just enjoys creating drama.
Excellent response. I suspect creating drama to be the main motivation assuming the man did nothing else to hurt her beyond trying to end things.
Ok well that's a different story - I thought you were talking like a dominatrix type mistress that you pay for sex work - I got you now.
Well, if you tried to end things with her - there's your reason. She's upset and "if she can't have you, no one can." She feels the best way to get back at you for breaking her heart is to rat you out and ruin your marriage. As far as she's concerned, since you're already gone, she has nothing to lose by hurting you.
Agreed. Unfortunately, there aren't that many "other women" out there who will truly behave with class and dignity in that situation. Frankly, her situation in itself is rather classless and undignified, so why would you assume she'd take the breakup calmly and rationally?
Any man who's cheating on his wife deserves to have the mistress rat him out. These men are complete scum and deserve it.
If you no longer do or give them what they want or they get super emotional they will out you in a minute because they think it'll make your s.o. leave you. If they're just angry they want you to be in trouble because they aren't getting what they want anymore. They figure they'll ruin what you have as a parting shot. Emotional types want to accelerate the end of your relationship with you s.o. because they think it'll drive you straight into their loving arms. It's a chance you take when you dance with infidelity. Try not to pick a crazy or a user and these things tend to work out better. Keep the lying to a minimum because when men lie to women to get what they want and the truth comes out we are NOT nice and all bets are off.
Seriously where do guys like you come from? Planet clueless? You are trying to dump her after she's slept with you and waited patiently hoping you would leave your wife for her and you can't understand why she is pissed at you and trying to ruin your life?
Seriously, put your penis away before you hurt yourself...
Well....this is all hypothetical. I guess the bottom line is that she can never be trusted again after such behavior,
People should learn about game theory....
I dont think it has anything to do with the fact she is a mistress. Whether or not she would rat you out has to do with her personality. If she is a psycho then she probably will. If she is a rational person that knows she'll never have you and you'll never leave your GF, wife or family then she probably would never do anything. I know a mistress who had a child with the guy and never ever told the wife. She didnt want to break up his family. Ya its fucked up but just because a woman makes a mistake of being with someone who is taken doesnt mean shes vengeful or evil. Mistresses are women too. Im not condoning their behaviour, just saying Im sure there are lots who have died with their secret.
Omg, somebody who helped you cheat in your marriage turned out not to be trustworthy!
No fucking way! Next thing you know she'll start recycling her cans or volunteering in a soup kitchen.
Tony Soprano's mistress (Annabella Sciorra) just threatened to call his wife and rat him out on today's episode. He told her he'd have her killed if she did. Just a thought.
All kidding aside, you're not going to get much sympathy anywhere for behaving like that.
I would have to say it's pretty common because those types of rules don't normally apply to most women. Mostly men are the ones that keep secrecy and good ol' boy behavior dear within their circle of friends.
It's not woman code to keep quiet and not sleep with another friends SO. Usually it's just a common courtesy that some people adhere to.
A good example are the girlfriends of Jesse James, Tiger Woods and the chick that outed Anthony Wiener.
Also not saying that some men don't deviate from spilling their guts and banging their best friends girl. It's just seems less common and may be an issue of do as I say and not as I do.
Guys what do you call a man that can't keep secrets and poaches your women?