Excessive Masturbation - Bad?
As camgirls we masturbate ALOT, obviously. But I wonder what the long term side effects from this can be. Have done a bit of researching on it and it seems there are some, desensitization, hormone changes, chemical changes.
I was wondering if anyone else has had side effects? Pain? Anything different really.
Dildo'ing for hours can definitely cause alot of friction lol, glass dildo's help alot but there's still discomfort after a long cam session.
Sorry if it's a bit TMI lol
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And that's why I fake it at least half the time. Angles are your friend. I was reading in Psychology Today that too few or too many orgasms can have negative long term effect(it's said 3-4 a week was the happy medium). I'll see if I can find the article online.
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hmm
if ur lubing properly i dont see where the friction would come from?
for a cam girl, def get gyno check ups often! lol
other than that..u gotta do whatcha gotta do to cam and get good cash money, right?
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sweetheather
And that's why I fake it at least half the time. Angles are your friend. I was reading in Psychology Today that too few or too many orgasms can have negative long term effect(it's said 3-4 a week was the happy medium). I'll see if I can find the article online.
I want to know how to fake penetration! I keep hearing about it but can't see a way to do it lol. Especially with zoom in's etc.
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My toy is silicone so it bends really easy. Super easy if you're 'riding' it, you just let it bend back out of view. It's really hard to fake on closeups though, so just lube up.
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Switch to organic coconut oil, use plenty of it, and I bet you won't have soreness. I can play all day, no problem. (I don't usually rub my clit tho, too sensitive. I only rub around it.
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sweetheather
And that's why I fake it at least half the time. Angles are your friend. I was reading in Psychology Today that too few or too many orgasms can have negative long term effect(it's said 3-4 a week was the happy medium). I'll see if I can find the article online.
Seriously, why orgasm on cam at all?
(If I did they probably couldn't even tell anyway since I'm not a squirter and I'm quiet and concentrating on my own pleasure when I really orgasm. If I didn't fake it my viewers would be bored out of their skull).
I don't fake penetration though, seems like that would be too difficult. My coconut oil keeps me from any soreness.
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I've found it to be pretty easy for those times when I'm just not that into it. It honestly depends on the toy.
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laurielegs
Seriously, why orgasm on cam at all?
(If I did they probably couldn't even tell anyway since I'm not a squirter and I'm quiet and concentrating on my own pleasure when I really orgasm. If I didn't fake it my viewers would be bored out of their skull).
Aha I love it! I have not had many "real" orgasms on cam. I don't squirt either. Once someone asked "did you cum?" and I was like "uhh yes" ... maybe that was a bad fake LOL. I have only had to fake a couple though. Like they aren't full on orgasms all the time aha ... can you even have partial orgasms? That's what it's like.
Anyway. I hope nothing bad happens to use from excessive masturbation.
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3-4 a week?! Oh man, am I in trouble..Thats me per DAY. But I dont masturbate on cam..still though, I'd be interested to know. I have way more than that lol
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possible tmi...
when i have sex i am VERY multiorgasmic...like in the double digits (unless it's very awful sex), and i usually have 3-4 a day from masturbating for pleasure, not for work. (it's not compulsive, i can go very long stretches without sex or masturbation.) so i guess that i'm in for some srs longterm issues, lol ;) although i've been multiorgasmic for years and everything still functions pretty well. even though i probably use my hitachi more than i should for my clitoris's sake.
anyway, work-wise, i actually do orgasm on cam sometimes but not nearly as often - i don't try to (i'm good at faking if i don't actually orgasm) but it usually just happens a couple times a shift. sometimes more. i use a glass dildo with a lot of coconut oil 99% of the time and sometimes i have a little bit of soreness if a customer's asked me to do something particularly acrobatic (or to go really hard) but i don't use huge toys or anything and usually soreness isn't a problem. i also wash my dildo with hot water and dr. bronner's soap in between every show when i use it, instead of waiting til the end of the shift...i got sick from a toy with pthalates once, and it was REALLY fucking painful, and ever since i've been super paranoid about toy materials and infections and stuff like that. i've never faked vaginal penetration on cam. i have faked anal, but i usually do it for real - i refuse to do anal with toys, though.
anyway, i've been camming for a year and having a ton of orgasms for at least a decade and everything still works pretty well :)
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laurielegs
Switch to organic coconut oil, use plenty of it, and I bet you won't have soreness. I can play all day, no problem. (I don't usually rub my clit tho, too sensitive. I only rub around it.
I like the idea of this coconut oil, where do you get it from? Supermarket? Definitely going to give it a shot! And yeah my clit is getting super sensitive, going to cancel that out and fake alot more haha.
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PurpleSkye
I like the idea of this coconut oil, where do you get it from? Supermarket? Definitely going to give it a shot! And yeah my clit is getting super sensitive, going to cancel that out and fake alot more haha.
you can find it at most natural/health foods stores, coops, etc. it comes in a jar because it's more of a solid, butter-like consistency at room temperature (so not like olive or vegetable oil).
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tinydancer23
you can find it at most natural/health foods stores, coops, etc. it comes in a jar because it's more of a solid, butter-like consistency at room temperature (so not like olive or vegetable oil).
yep. I like Garden Of Life brand. It's kinda of expensive but it lasts and lasts
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I have bought organic Coconut Oil and I AM IN LOVE! It smells amazing, tastes good, and it can be used FOR SO MUCH MORE. One day we were out of oil while I was making dinner, and I used the coconut oil since that was all I had on hand and it was delicious! Although, my fiance and I couldn't stop laughing that we were eating my lube. Plus, I can leave it out in my kitchen while friends/family are over and no one will say anything about it whereas if I left out a bottle of lube people might be like.. "Umm.. okay.." haha. My vagina is not sore at all from using it, and I feel like I can cam so much longer by using it. Highly recommend it! Thanks Laurie for recommending it in another thread, you have saved my vagina! lol
I found a huge tub of mine at the local health food market by me. Be sure to get Extra Virgin Organic Coconut Oil. I love using all natural products, and am so glad my pussy finally gets the same treatment as the rest of my body.
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^ yes this! i use mine for cooking, as a hair and body moisturizer, as a massage oil...it has pretty much replaced like a ton of beauty products for me :) plus it's awesome for both lube AND oil shows. way easier to take care of between shows than using baby oil or almond oil. AND it's scent-free/nontoxic so if you or loved ones are scent-allergic or have mcs it is safe for most folks.
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I have Amazon Prime so I am so getting some today! Thanks for the input ladies! Anything to keep the junk moist.
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I agree to avoid orgasming on cam - and laurielegs great idea about rubbing around it
For the first few weeks of (vanilla) camming I had no idea how to not have an orgasm it was ridiculous. Touching myself sexually turned me on so Id orgasm multiple times a session - so much so I could never complete a block of time ...my regulars loved me for it but it was too disruptive and exhausting Teaching yourself the fine line of performing sexual arousal without becoming sexually aroused is tricky. Like laurielegs said - coconut oil is a godsend
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I've been meaning to buy some coconut oil for months now but I keep forgetting!
I used to cum rarely on webcam but lately I'm doing it a lot more. I've been feeling a lot hornier than normal lately (pregnancy hormones I think) so if I find myself in a long private with a lot of dildo-ing I figure I might as well try to bring myself to orgasm for real. At least it gives me something to do to pass the time!
Unfortunately my real orgasms are fairly quiet and uninspiring, so I always have to "spice them up" with some acting anyway.
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I have Coconut Oil and I use it for moisturizing. I have never thought to use it as lube. I am really sensitive and get UTI's from bubblebath, etc. Has anyone had problems with UTIs and Coconut Oil?
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LAChloe
I have Coconut Oil and I use it for moisturizing. I have never thought to use it as lube. I am really sensitive and get UTI's from bubblebath, etc. Has anyone had problems with UTIs and Coconut Oil?
Organic coconut oil has natural antibacterial qualities. If anything you would tend to get less infections, not more.
The organic oil is very different than the cheap refined stuff though. I tried a cheap brand once trying to save some money and ended up throwing it out, was a greasy mess and didn't smell nice like the more expensive organic stuff, and it didn't absorb or feel good on my skin.
(Just be sure you aren't allergic, but if you can rub it on your lips without problem your puss should be fine). I've never heard anyone being allergic to it though, and my skin is super sensitive.
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awesome- im going to try this tonight!!! :)
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laurielegs
Organic coconut oil has natural antibacterial qualities. If anything you would tend to get less infections, not more.
The organic oil is very different than the cheap refined stuff though. I tried a cheap brand once trying to save some money and ended up throwing it out, was a greasy mess and didn't smell nice like the more expensive organic stuff, and it didn't absorb or feel good on my skin.
(Just be sure you aren't allergic, but if you can rub it on your lips without problem your puss should be fine). I've never heard anyone being allergic to it though, and my skin is super sensitive.
Thank you so much for this. I tried coconut oil for the first time today. 3 hours on cam and no soreness at all. Thank you, thank you;)