Re: How many girls on here have told their family about them camming?
I absolutely HATE lying to everyone.. but my mom has been through A LOT and has heart problems so I don't wanna stress her out even more then she already is. And my in-laws, although I reallyy love them, are kinda snotty people who would act all "OMG! YOU ARE GOING TO BE FOUND AND THEN OUR FAMILY NAME IS GOING TO BE TAINTED!" I actually had a situation with my in-laws where my mother in law's sister was going to pose nude pics and sell them online (I've been wanting to know where she was going to sell them!) and my mother in law freaked out and talked her out of it.. then she asked my advice for what I would do in that situation if my sister wanted to do that. Talk about an awkward conversation. I had to pretend to be all "OMG! Why would she do that?!" when really I was thinking "She's super hot, work it girl make that MONEY!" hahaha. So in short: No, they don't know. I am a pussy and don't want to break my moms heart.
Re: How many girls on here have told their family about them camming?
My mom is going to be 65 this year and she wants nothing more then for me to be happy BUT if she found out I was doing this it would break her heart. And I know she wouldnt understand and she'd be dissapointed. She would also be pissed that my boyfriend "lets" me do it because of her being old fashioned she would think that he should get 3 jobs to support us if it meant keeping me from camming. I dont like to lie to her but honestly in my situation it would do way more harm then good and I dont want to hurt her feelings. I've already decided that if she comes across a video of mine I'll say I did it years ago when I was having a tough time financially lol
Re: How many girls on here have told their family about them camming?
I'm pretty sure my family wouldn't be too miffed if they found out, sure their jaws might drop for a while, but they're open minded (apart from my brother in law, who ironically is the only one who does seek out camgirls...) - still, I'm not going to tell them for a simple reason: they would immediately know I'm doing it because I'm going through a harsh financial situation and would insist I quit and accept their help. I know they wouldn't even give me a choice, they'd just drop whatever they could in my account. Well I can't stand the thought of taking cash help from my parents when I know their budget's tight as it is.
As for my husband's family, hell, I almost wish they WOULD find out, give their judgmental pea brains something to be shocked about for a few decades. Lets just say they refuse to "let their children around me" or acknowledge my presence because... wait for it... I moved in with my husband before we were legally married. But since I'm not talking to them, there's little chance they'll find out unless they stumble across any of my content. I'm such a slut for making sure me and my husband clicked before we got married O.o
Re: How many girls on here have told their family about them camming?
no I don't tell my fam because I don't like drama :) I hope this profession becomes more accepting in the future but I doubt it..
Re: How many girls on here have told their family about them camming?
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SybilVain
Lets just say they refuse to "let their children around me" or acknowledge my presence because... wait for it... I moved in with my husband before we were legally married. But since I'm not talking to them, there's little chance they'll find out unless they stumble across any of my content. I'm such a slut for making sure me and my husband clicked before we got married O.o
LOL geez, my family are all religious nuts too but I WISH I had lived with or at least had sex with my (now ex) Pastor husband before we got married-he made sex a duty and didn't even like to use that little 4 inch cock of his. My parents/family would totally disown me if they found out I am a phone sex operator and had been a real time dominatrix for 5 years. They were more than happy to stand by and watch me be kicked out of our church because after 15 loveless years I was divorcing "the pastor"-he wasn't pastor of our church, but within our denomination-etc. I can only imagine if they found out my "phone job" isn't a counseling hotline lol, it is in a sense but yea.....
Re: How many girls on here have told their family about them camming?
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Fridays
Mine know
my mom, dad, brother....
And they do not approve of it.
And I dont blame them.. I would not want my kid doing this...
As much as we models can argue that THIS is an OK job, most of the society disproves of it.. and as much as we got used to it and think its OK, we still have to obey certain society rules and morals.......
:(
Honestly, I wouldn't mind if I had kids that decided to do this or something else similar when they grow up. I know there is a social stigma against it, but that is rapidly changing.
How does camming hurt anyone? It doesn't, and actually I make far more money doing this than a lot of girls I went to school with who already have college degrees under their belt.
This and stripping paid for my house that I own outright, is paying for college as we speak, my vehicle, and all of my other possessions--and I have done this all without incurring any debt whatsoever.
The way I see it, if my kids can find a safe way to make money when they come of age, and better their lives, I'd be really proud of them. Most importantly, I don't see the legal facets of the sex industry bad at all.
Just like when I do my hustle, I have to deal with weirdos, but, hey, that's the case in any job, not just camming. If you work in an office building and make say, $25/hour. No matter how much shit you put up with, your are still only taking home $25 for that hour of work.
With camming, sure, I have to pretend that the perv on the other end of the screen is turning me on, and I throw up a little in my mouth when they say something to me, but I put on a good show, and fake my enjoyment sometimes--but when I hear that little chime on my laptop, and I see that same perv just gave me $300 for me giving myself an orgasm, it's all worth while. ;D
Re: How many girls on here have told their family about them camming?
they know but its not something they need to know i live my life for me
Re: How many girls on here have told their family about them camming?
[Hey all, I'm new! I figured I'd join after reading countless threads about camming that are so helpful!]
My mom knows, as well as my husband, and my stepmom. I have a few close friends who know because they are here all the time. They're all really supportive!
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sammii
Hm, actually I think you're right. If they found out on their own, it wouldn't be devestating, but for now, what they don't know can't hurt them. When I was younger, my mom told me that she knows that me and my boyfriend are having sex, and when I was like 12 my dad and I had the sex talk, so we don't talk about sex a whole lot in my family. I'm just thankful that I don't have a family that would disown me if they found out.
Anyway, you kind of shed some light on the subject for me. I'll just keep it to myself. :)
Oh my goodness, I know what you mean! It would be very nerve wrecking to know that camming could cause me to be disowned. It's good that your family wouldn't blow up on you though.. that makes it easier on you to be able to work comfortably. :)
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No family knows and no friends. sucks.
Re: How many girls on here have told their family about them camming?
My parents have been wondering how I have been surviving and paying rent at my new place since I just graduated from college. My lease here is just about up and I'm looking for a new place and they are trying to convince me to move back with them (I think that's partly because my younger sister is going off to university this year and they are going to be lonely lol) and I can't move back with them for many reasons.
1. I can't cam / do porn there.
2. They live in the middle of no where and I don't have a car (it takes an hour via car to get near any transit)
3. It also takes an hour and a half (via car) to get to my boyfriend and longer to get to my "life" (friends, etc.).
Yes, because it is soooo much more logical to live with them.
Anyway so I was like, I have a part time job, I'm doing some really boring data entry stuff but it's an under the table job. Then they thought I was dealing drugs! I was like WHAT?!? I have not revealed the camming but my mom finally settled with "as long as it's legal and moral then it's okay" and then "as long as you can tell your grandma what you do, that's okay". Yeah ... I will gladly tell me grandparents that I do this! Urg!
All in all... definitely not telling them ... it's getting hard though. I'm trying to find a part time job, even at like a fast food place or something, so I can at least say I have a job! That at least pays rent. Then this could be extra.
As for friends ... they are really open minded (all of the ones I hang out with regularly though). I tell them I do data entry/sales as well. Seems to work okay, no one has asked too in depth about it :P :)
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innes
My parents have been wondering how I have been surviving and paying rent at my new place since I just graduated from college. My lease here is just about up and I'm looking for a new place and they are trying to convince me to move back with them (I think that's partly because my younger sister is going off to university this year and they are going to be lonely lol) and I can't move back with them for many reasons.
1. I can't cam / do porn there.
2. They live in the middle of no where and I don't have a car (it takes an hour via car to get near any transit)
3. It also takes an hour and a half (via car) to get to my boyfriend and longer to get to my "life" (friends, etc.).
Yes, because it is soooo much more logical to live with them.
Anyway so I was like, I have a part time job, I'm doing some really boring data entry stuff but it's an under the table job. Then they thought I was dealing drugs! I was like WHAT?!? I have not revealed the camming but my mom finally settled with "as long as it's legal and moral then it's okay" and then "as long as you can tell your grandma what you do, that's okay". Yeah ... I will gladly tell me grandparents that I do this! Urg!
All in all... definitely not telling them ... it's getting hard though. I'm trying to find a part time job, even at like a fast food place or something, so I can at least say I have a job! That at least pays rent. Then this could be extra.
As for friends ... they are really open minded (all of the ones I hang out with regularly though). I tell them I do data entry/sales as well. Seems to work okay, no one has asked too in depth about it :P :)
You could also tell them that you have an online job, or you could also buy some merchandise and tell them that you are selling them online and you are doing pretty good. That way you dont have to get another job :P
Re: How many girls on here have told their family about them camming?
I've told the family that are involved in my life what I do, but not specifics. I mean, come on, it's just a job. If I was doing data entry they wouldn't want to know how I layout spreadsheets, and if I was still a cashier they wouldn't really want to hear me bitching about lame-ass loser customers anyway.
The only exception is my dad, because we have a 'lying because that's what you would want' clause in our relationship. He might have an IDEA, but I just told him I can't really talk about it.