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Guy just recorded me on his phone!
So i was doing a show with this guy who was kind of a jerkoff in free chat. Well then he does cam 2 cam in the middle of the show and he has his cell phone pointing at his screen. And I was like what are you doing and he just ended the show. His screen name is Dodgeistall and he's a younger white guy. Luckily I wasn't fully nude, really mostly it's just my face but still. I'm so angry right now
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he did that to get a reaction.....otherwise why turn the cam on at all?
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I think he definitely recorded me. Some guys don't care if you see them recording you.
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That's so messed up. What site was this on?
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streamate... I know that member name. Comes into my room too. He's a regular customer of mine and for the most part is respectful.
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that's horrible :/ well...... who is he going to show it to?
Even if he showed it to his friends it would be pretty embarrassing admitting he goes on webcam sites and can't get real life pussy ::)
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Yea it is streammate. I dunno, he came into the room like, what am I getting for my money's worth with your show. bla bla bla. And I tried asking him what he's into. Told him to look at my profile and finally I said, look, I'm not playing this game with you and he went straight to pvt. I found it kind of odd that he wanted to do c2c so late in the show but didn't think much of it. I do get nervous because a lot of guys on sm seem to be jersey/philly/ny, so who knows, he might know me and send it to my friends. I'm sure I can get over it but it still makes me angry.
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Wow, I don't take that shit in private and neither should you. I don't think any camgirl should, no matter how slow it is. If a guy asks me what he's getting for his money worth, he's got another thing coming. I can't tell you how many times I have to tell the guy to rephrase what he just said and "ask nicely." It's worth it, because it's not fair to let guys treat you like shit.
I don't lose much money from this either, because only a small amount leave private after I tell them to lose the attitude. The ones that leave are insecure assholes who are mad because they're rejected so often in the real world.
I don't mean this to be offensive; I just don't think you deserve the treatment it sounds like this guy was giving you.
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^ this is true. The other day was my second time ending a pvt show because the guy was just rude. It's important that we feel powerful and in control to stay strong in our jobs so we can't let crap like excessive rudeness and filming us WITHOUT our permission slide. Even if he's not going to show it to anyone he was out of line by recording her in the first place.
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I ended 2 privates today because of rudeness.
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Well whatever video he gets from recording a computer screen with his cell phone is going to be vitrually unwatchable. The quality will be so incredibly poor that a person most likely won't even be able to see anything beyond colored blobs. Taking a pic of a LCD or CRT screen never turns out well.
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That would creep me out too but Isobel is right about the video quality on a phone...
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Dont be so sure of that...not to freak anyone out but, out of curiosity, I just recorded my laptop screen with my phone of a YouTube video, and the pic quality is actually very good.... :/
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Smart phones do HD now... so yeah.
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This is why it is SO important to try your best, within your comfort zone, to disguise your looks on cam. For years I have worked with different colors/hair style full wigs.. maybe you should try the same.. yes it gets uncomfortable, yes it gets messy and u need to buy new ones even few months, but it offers u a bit of peace of mind knowing u can say " it wasn't me"
There is a top model on cams.com her name is Leilani, she 99 % of the time does not show her face in free chat. She does have an amazing body and she is american, so people take her private regardless. she has a profile pic with her face but thats about it..... Now when people go private , thats different.. if u can, try to adjust your cam so that your image is just a bit blurred out, keep the camera on your face from a certain angle ONLY ( 90% of the time I only show my right side of face)......
You can also draw a mole on your face somewhere and do that every day some people think its real.. something like cindy crawford maybe.. or anything...( I love moles near my eyebrows, dunno why ,but I do)..
You can wear glasses in free chat and private, buy a glass only pair... or u could wear the frame only for that matter.. u dont get the shinny light reflection and it still disguises your features somewhat...
Im sorry this has happened to you...
Get creative with your looks so things like these will not bother u again.
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^^^
Totally agree! I didn't want to show my face on cam at first for that exact fear so instead I contour my nose(it looks suuper pointy now!) and wear colored contacts! I want to start working with different wigs but the contoured nose DEFINITELY throws off my "normal" look.
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@Lady, can u post a pic with ur real nose and the contoured one?Im curious lol
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I honestly think he was doing it just for a reaction.. I had some guy come into my private chat wanting to do cam2cam so badly and told me not to tell anyone who he was.. and he said he was a comedian and starred in movies.. some guy with a jew-fro came on claiming to be seth rogan and wasnt interested in doing anything. just wanted to show his face and when I didn't jump up and down in excitement he left. Asked him to whip his dick out (not caring about who he was at all) and he left.
Guys like reactions. Or some guys will come into my chat and say something super mean and wait for 3 minutes to see if I respond or block them and then just leave.
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I'm sorry that this happened to you, DottieMay. :( I'm actually not that surprised though. There are a lot of low-class guys on SM (on all cam sites, actually). I know a lot of ladies love that site for its traffic, but lately I feel like I'm losing my faith in the site. And I definitely am not a fan of the way SM treats their models.
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Originally Posted by
BrownFox
I'm sorry that this happened to you, DottieMay. :( I'm actually not that surprised though. There are a lot of low-class guys on SM (on all cam sites, actually). I know a lot of ladies love that site for its traffic, but lately I feel like I'm losing my faith in the site. And I definitely am not a fan of the way SM treats their models.
^^^^
wow u had to get a new username/:O
what did u do? ha
SW banned u? or ur log in info changed?:-[
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Originally Posted by
luxi_kitty
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wow u had to get a new username/:O
what did u do? ha
SW banned u? or ur log in info changed?:-[
Hey, kitty. I don't know what the hell the deal is, but I tried posting on here and got this message saying that I don't have "permission" to access this area of the forum. It wouldn't even let me READ any of the threads on here. I was like WTF?! I contacted SW about it and am still waiting on a response. But no, I wasn't banned. I've restarted my computer, deleted browsing history and cookies, and still had the same problem.
It's pretty fucked up that I had to go make a new account and start all over again as a newbie. I'm a veteran member of this forum, so I hope they can resolve this issue soon.
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Thanks guys for all replies. He wasn't rude in pvt, only in free chat. I didn't even expect him to take me to pvt. But once in he was nice. It wasn't until the end of the show that he pulled this shit. Luckily it was only a bj show. So mostly just my tits and face. I have no shame in my game, so I don't really care that people find me and recognize me as much as I care that this prick could possibly be making money off of me! I hate when people fuck with my money. Anyway. I am also losing faith in SM. My sales have dropped dramatically. They let anyone (customers&girls) do anything they want. They are rude. They simply don't give a shit about anything but their money and I can't wait until I don't have to depend on them as much for traffic.
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Well like I said he is a regular customer of mine. Not a good regular (stays only for 3-5 mins in PTV), but still a regular. He is boarderline rude in my free chat. I think next time I see him I will wave my ban wand!
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You know about geo-restrictions, right? You can block a city, country, or state. Also, when you do this, people who are not logged in can no longer access your page. People within the restricted area can only access your page by a certain way (won't list it here) but most won't figure that out. And they won't use you in ads anymore. So I just picked a random city to get rid of the ads. Also, when I move I'm going to block that state b/c I'm going to try to get another kind of job there and I don't want people finding out about me.
Not to be a pessimist, but people are recording you on that site all the time. I've taken screen shots of models to report them for doing sex in free chat. Sorry ladies if you do that, but it fucks up everyone and it's not fair. I can get really good video on my iPhone. it looks almost like regular streaming video. Also, they can leave your show and a pic stays up at the end, so some of those guys who jump in and out of private real fast, that's what they're doing.
I try not to let it bother me because there's nothing I can do about it. (It does bother me anyway). But if you actually SAW him do it, you can e-mail them and tell them he's stealing content. You ladies are right... SM doesn't give a FUCK about their models. But if you mention THEIR wallet, their earnings, they might respond. They're probably not going to be happy about some guy flaunting the fact that he's stealing content.
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I'm so sorry that happened to you, that would freak me the hell out! But ... I hope you know that SM records ALL privates, even some public chat, uses the footage for promotion, sells privates on SM without giving you a cut, and puts them on tube sites for free. It's one of the reasons I refuse to work there. So while it's understandable to get upset about one guy recording you with his phone, realize that SM is selling/giving them away themselves. I would show less of my face, wear a wig, and attempt to disguise my features, if you're worried about being found out.