What do you girls say and do you in your privates?
I found the thread about what to do in hour shows very interesting, so i searchred and searched for more threads but couldnt find any so i figured id just ask :) What do you girls say and do on cam in private?
I have been not so enthused to work lately so i havent cammed for over three months! Luckily I still have my job lol Ive been trying really hard to get back on cam but just cant. It always gives me inspiration, to think about going to work when i read interesting threads about other girls going to work lol. I thought this could be a good topic for some nice reading material :) I really loved the format that Velevt Rose used on her post in the "What to do in an hour show" thread so i wanted to stick with that.
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I am interested in hearing what you guys do! I am fairly new to camming so I never thought of taking my time to tease before getting down to business. I usually just get naked right off the bat and get right into it. I've been worried that guys might end the show or try and get their money back if I don't get naked right away.
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Record a video of yourself and see what you normally do in a show. Watch it a couple days later (long enough that you can't quite remember all of what you did) and see what you could have spent more time on. ie if you're naked by 0:13 of the video, you should improve on that...
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honestly, I would just experiment and see what works for you - there is very little point in worrying about what other people are doing because ultimately, if you then try to replicate it, you will be overly prescriptive on yourself. Just take it as it comes and don't worry! :)
The length of time it takes me to get naked varies massively from show to show. If there are five people in my private(SM) or group show then I'm normally topless within the first minute and naked within 3 mins but if there is only one guy then it depends on the guy - but usually it's a little bit longer than that before I'm naked.
I don't ask too many questions though. Basically just say hi and ask what they want :) If it's a one-on-one show I'll ask name etc too. You get a feel for those guys who want to chat and the ones who just want to get on with it.
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gettin naked ryt away n gettin down to business as u call it is not always a gud thing blv me i learned tht the hard way, some guys jus wana talk.wen i 1st started cammin i thot pvts were all bout gettin naked but sum guys take offence in tht.now wen a guy wnts pvt i always ask them to tell me wat they wnt in FC/PM me so i know wats expected of me but theres sum guys who jus come straight to pvt so i jus take my chances wit them n ask. if they dnt like tht m askin wat they wana c,(sum guys consider this as wastin time) then they can leave its ok.sum come in n tell me to do wat i like i sit n type then they get mad,well i love chattin n its not my fault tht m sittin n tryna chat i mean u asked me to do wat i like n this is it *rollin eyes* bng a camgirl doesnt mean tht i love stickin toys in me every chance i get.u can never tell wit these guys, thts jus me tho.we all do wat works 4 us:)
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I always ask my guy what he wants to do first, and if he's shy, I'll just ask him if he'd like to watch me fuck myself.
Role play seems to be my forte though, I get the most bizarre requests, but I ado most of them... whatever keeps them interested ;)
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In an effort to answer the question of what I do in pvt, I shall supply my answer...
I masturbate...And I love it!
Sorry for being a smartass but I find humor in the ridiculousness of life...feel free to slap me :)
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I always feel weird in pvts, like I don't wanna be bad at it.
I usually say heyy and ask em what they want me to do for them.
They usually respond well to it.
I don't just instantly get naked anymore, bc I've had alot of guys wanna "talk" and thats it.
They actually thk they have a chance to meet me... but w/e I'll take those pvts anyday
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I'm new to camming but I ALWAYS ask what they want/how are they doing..... especially to stall and get more time hehe. I don't masturbate/penetration though
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I have a set show, sexy slow strip tease, at least 2 minutes before I'm naked, then I try to make them feel as if they are actually in the room with me by telling and showing them what 'we' could do. Close ups of fingers/hands and toys, so they can imagine that its their hands on me, their hands using the toys etc;)
My show is appx 10 mins long, those who can will see it through and usually stay and chat afterwards, but, sometimes I think I am just too good as they will say, 'wow baby I've just shot everywhere' and I haven't even got to my toys lol.
I also use this show in grp, no sound or cam2cam in grp thats why it's slightly cheaper than my pvt. and of course if they start requesting stuff like smoking, well sorry but thats a special request for pvt only.
Of course if they tell me they want something else, I stop and talk about it and so long as it's not something I don't do, then I'll go along with it. Oh I've also recorded my set show and added to my movie sales.
I also use this show in grp, no sound or cam2cam in grp thats why it's slightly cheaper than my pvt. and of course if they start requesting stuff like smoking, well sorry but thats a special request for pvt only.
This won't work for everyone and as has already been said, it takes time to find out what does work, I think it was almost a year before I went down this route.
As for hour long shows :O I would get bored lol but if a guy wants to stay, I'll go for it ;D One of my regulars loves telling erotic stories, no talking (he gets turned on by the sound of me typing) no nudity, no toys, he just tells stories and I join in, pr-empting where he is going, I can usually go for an hour with this one but I only see him once or twice a month.
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good thread! i was wondering this too :)
i've only cammed two days. i had about 2 privates and 10 group shows so i dont know what to do either lol.
basically i ripped off all my clothes and shoved a toy in a kitty they guys seemed to like it. i had shows that lasted min 5 minutes. then i decided to just tease a bit first and the guy left within 30 seconds :O
so i went back to ripping my clothes off straight away.
i tried asking them what they wanted but they never replied. not until after about 5 minutes when they start typing 'say my name' or some random weird stuff ::)
so yeah i could do with advice too!
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Lady Xplicit18
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I'm new to camming but I ALWAYS ask what they want/how are they doing..... especially to stall and get more time hehe. I don't masturbate/penetration though
So what do you do?
Anywho what I do is I try to get as much information before accepting a private now. Before I found that guys would take me to private without even telling me what they want. I then decided to alter my profile stating what I won't do. In private I do a sexy short dance while taking my clothes off! I then do whatever they ask. There isn't much to it.
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Nice thread. I'm interested, too. I do groupcams with other girls sometimes but it's awkward. Not natural or something.
I do fetish stuff mostly so a lot of it is like, well, phone sex with a face. I think the guys want to know there is a hot lady there who is guiding them through their fantasy/horribly verbally abusing them.
If I get naked I take a gooooood looooong time as much as I can help. The tease is part of it for a lot of the clients I get. Like I'll cover my hands over my chest or pull a sexy blanket over them and ask them to guess the size, say pretty please, etc. I do a lot of small talk too--I find that makes me get more regulars instead of 2-pump-chumps. If they fall for me a little bit, if we mesh on something--even as small as both being of say, Italian heritage or both like to hike, it can lead to a completely awesome non-nude/non-sexual chat. Which is nice for me.
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You have to really get a feel for the guy. I know a lot of girls think if you don't strip right away it's going to look like you are stalling for time to make more cash and they are gonna leave but i've found getting naked can backfire right away. Cam is much more mental than porn is; if they just wanted visuals they wouldn't be paying for an interactive medium. I find talking to them exchanging names and playfully asking what they want to do tonight first works best and gives you an idea of what kind of pace they want. I have some regulars who last over 20 minutes; if I didn't give them a good tease first and easy into things I'd probably be worn out halfway thru and they'd get bored right away. The teasing and foreplay isn't just to take up time it should be there to make the experience more enjoyable for you and the guys.
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Rileiy
So what do you do?
I mostly strip tease & talk. I do get naked... ONLY in exclusives though ($4.99) and it actually seems to work for me. I've had guys go out of pvt to exclusive just by me saying that.
I still think like a stripper hehe (The champagne room is always better ;))
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I tend to do a LOT of roleplay, so a lot of what I do is talking. And I will always ask the guy what he is in the mood for (unless he has told me ahead of time), so if I get specific requests (feet, roleplay, etc) I have a different show.
I try to average out a show at ten minutes, and because on SM you don't get paid for the first 30 secs, I will never even get a boob out until I have counted past that. (And the guys that I find are desperate for you to be naked right away are the ones that are trying to cheap out!) I treat it a little like I used to treat lap dances - start with a little wiggling around, peel off top, turn around, take off bra, tease with ass, turn around, close up boobs to cam, lick nipples, turn around again, focus on ass, spank a couple times, then finally reveal pussy...once I'm actually naked, I'll get them to choose a toy, and usually do a whole bit of fellating the dildo - licking and getting super close to the camera and gazing up into it...then I'll play with myself with fingers, then finally start with the toy....
Basically, I'll work up to each stage only after I've spent a while focusing on the part before (boobs, ass, pussy, toys, finger masturbation, external masturbation, penetration...) and I TALK all the way through it - dirty talk is definitely my forte!
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^^^^
That is such a good idea to go through stages! Smart girl! :)
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^^^ Thanks! Its a habit I got into when I was stripping - not only wastes time, but it also helps me figure out their preferences, so I can tailor what I am doing to what turns them on...
So if they seem really impatient when I'm doing boobs, but go nuts when I am doing ass, I know that they are an ass man and I should focus on that, do spanking and doggie style...I like to think that it makes them think that I am the perfect girl and just instinctively know what they want...
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The "Hi, how are you? Where from?" convo can be cool, because it's brief getting to know each other friendly convo, and it prolongs the session a little bit. You could do it while you flirtatiously suck on your finger and/or stroke your body with your hands. That will at least get you through SM's free 30-second period...or ImLive's free 20-second period. :P