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It's weird how they want to see you when you are not ready
so I normally like to take 2 days off a week. Just to balance work vs. life and not drive myself up the wall with camming. Because there are times when I feel like losing it on these guys and telling them all off. I get sick of the beggars, whiners and assholes that come into my room and say "you're____ (insert fat, ugly, mean, bitchy, gross, whatever other nasty things a person can say to try and bring another person down)". Fuck I was in the room of a well known porn star the other day and some guy came in and said "you have the worst tit job ever". So I know trolls happen to all of us.
Anyhow with my two days off I have been working out at the gym, cleaning my house, getting cable services installed and broadband internet (I had fibre optic before and it just was not giving my a good upload speed), fixing my HD encoder and setting up my webcam.
I have been logging on to SM for a few mins here and there to test my HD. I am not "ready" nor am I wearing my make-up, nice clothes or have my toys out. BUT guys keep on coming into my room telling me I am beautiful and going private. Like WTF? Seriously I was 'on' Tuesday night with my make-up on, wearing nice clothes and my toys laid all out and made a whopping $60 in 8 hrs. Now that I am "off" and looking like a homely maid these guys want to buy privates back to back? What's with that?
Yesterday I was testing my HD and had been logged on for less then 5 mins when a guy went straight to private with me for 15 minutes and busted his nut telling me I was the best looking girl on the website! Less then a minute after he left (not even time for me to log off) another dude comes by and gets a 12 minute show. During that 12 mins 3 other dudes come in and all stay more then the 30 seconds but no longer then 2 mins. As soon as that all ended I logged out and called it a day.
I swear I have made $80 or so these past two days just by logging in and looking like a homely jeans and t-shirt bitch. Like a girl that rolls out of bed and puts whatever she sees on her floor on. Or a lazy housewife that does not tend to her looks.
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well goddamn. And I am out here taking 45 mins just to put on my face, let alone do my hair, stage my room into "bordello" and finish checking my email and horoscope lol
I should try this, maybe its a new thing, real life woman instead of the spackled, primped and circus that most girls do9myself included :)
Congrats Jenni, don't question what works, roll with it
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I think that's awesome! I've been tempted to try going on cam without makeup lately. A lot less work, that's for sure;D
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Different time of day?
Guys love when chicks wear clothes on camsites. You look like someone they could have passed on the street and this excites them even more. Odd how it works, but it does.
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I agree! I dress up most of the time, but always have a day or two a week I just go on SANS makeup and in my PJ's. It makes them think you are REAL, and makes it much easier on me on those days that I am in a rush.
I am considering changing up my cam routine a bit too. Certain days more of a VOYEUR theme "peeking on me in my real life" This way, it will train my guys to still PAY for my time even when I am not giving them MINE 100%. LOL I know that sounds so wrong, but so right to me!
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I always find i make more money when i'm wearing clothes, lately its been hot so i've been wearing little sundresses/ beach cover ups and cute panties, maybe some lip gloss or mascara.
If its working for you go stick with it ;p
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Agreed, tight jeans and a black fitted dress shirt buttoned at bust is a winning combo for me. But jean mini is WAY easier to work in.
I think the idea of normalcy make it all the more enticing, a la pin up girls all american wholesomeness but still exciting.
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Ya I havnt worn a stripper type outgit in ages. I'm all tank tops, sweat short shorts and sundresses these days.
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that's awesome and def something to think about to try...like they always say variety is the spice of life! i always wear little boy shorts a bra and a tank (very bright colors) and my make up and hair are always done up, but i guess it is also good to try to dress down here and there, cuz i do agree that it could possibly be that, that shows how much of a real person you are....that's why guys luv the amatuers so much.
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I was talking to a friend of mine who is a bit of a cam fanboy, and apparently guys really like the idea that you are a "real" girl - that they could actually be hanging out with you and/or dating/sleeping with you in "real life"...I've been experimenting with my outfits lately, and I'm finding that the girl-next-door stuff goes down well, while my old stripper outfits don't.
I think its time to start pushing the envelope...going on in sweats just to see what happens!
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Oh my god my first show of the day I still had my sweats on! Brown velour man sweats three sizes too big over my red short shorts (in that sweat pants gym shorts material) and a peach tank top. hahaha. He was like, "oh my god you're stunning" ( I dress half assed then do killer makeup and hair). We are so onto something ladies. My look lately is to dress like the girl next door, but with a face made up like a model. So you're like the "untouchable" girl next door.
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I guess customers like to see a real, attainable women too. It stands out from all the very-done-up 'stripper' types of models, and makes them think that they REALLY have a chance with you.
I've gone onto MFC's from time to time as a customer, and for some reason I'm drawn to the really 'normal' seeming ones. Like "Oh hey, that chick looks like she literally just set up a camera in her bedroom to make a few extra bucks. She seems chill.".
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Now that its summer, I think I'll log on next time in my little shorts (sweatpant material ones - y'know, the really short but super comfy and soft and almost shapeless) and a tank top and see what happens...
One night I was running late, so rather than deal with my dirty hair, I just yanked it back into a poytail, and some guy tipped me $150...lol
If this is the case, and guys love it, all I can say is: I am THRILLED!
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ManyRoses
Now that its summer, I think I'll log on next time in my little shorts (sweatpant material ones - y'know, the really short but super comfy and soft and almost shapeless) and a tank top and see what happens...
One night I was running late, so rather than deal with my dirty hair, I just yanked it back into a poytail, and some guy tipped me $150...lol
If this is the case, and guys love it, all I can say is: I am THRILLED!
HELLZ YEAH!!! that is awesome girl, damn. well even when i don't feel like getting super made up, i will do that for sure now:)
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Arialandre
Oh my god my first show of the day I still had my sweats on! Brown velour man sweats three sizes too big over my red short shorts (in that sweat pants gym shorts material) and a peach tank top. hahaha. He was like, "oh my god you're stunning" ( I dress half assed then do killer makeup and hair). We are so onto something ladies. My look lately is to dress like the girl next door, but with a face made up like a model. So you're like the "untouchable" girl next door.
Yes!! Dressing down doesnt mean you have to look like a SLOB!
Think of that really cute pj set you have, JEANS with sexy holes cut out, ugg boots, off the shoulder tops, daisy dukes, jean skirts, bikkini top n short short combo, stuff like this!!! Go for the victorias secret model image: casual, but PUT TOGETHER! Granted I have done the sweats experiment as well, and none of my regulars have ever complained. They like knowing they are a part of my "after hours" time or that I just logged on "cause I was lonely" LOL
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busygirl
ok, girls, you tell me now, after i bought 200 pairs of sexy lingerie?!!!!!!!!! :d lol
lmao:D
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Since i am new to camming and recently lost my job, i just spent on cute matching bra/panty sets then wear normal clothes overtop. Its going swimmingly. I probably wont ever buy lingerie. I do usually focus alot on my makeup, but some of my best days were fresh outta the shower with minimal work.
Now, if im told i look like emma stone one more time im dying my hair and cutting my bangs. Then i will change my cam name and be a faux actress.... lol! Think it would make me some money?
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Yup, you don't have to look like you've stepped out of a Frederick's of Hollywood (or Victoria's Secret) catalog to get these guys hard and horny. ;D
The only makeup I wear is Carmex chapstick and mascara (SOMETIMES I'll wear plum eyeshadow), and I love how much sexier I look when I've applied a few strokes of black mascara to my lashes.
Ever go in a model's room and see her wearing bright-ass red or pink lipstick? :-\ Maybe some guys actually find that sexy, I don't know...but I think most would rather see a more natural look.
But yeah, that's pretty cool, OJenni, that you're making money even when you're not trying to...enjoy it! 8)
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Well I got ready and went on cam last night. Put on my make up, got dressed and was looking sexy. Only had 2 privates! Grrrr..
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I'm still trying to figure out which outfits looks better. Usually I will wear some sexy lingerie and guys will be telling me to wear less and then I will be wearing just a bra and panty set and someone will be telling me to wear more and it's like ahhhh everyone wants something different. I may to like a bra and panty set with some shorts or a skirt next time.
Also different sites like different things I have found. I'm just on two sites but they are very different and I know they like different things so I dress differently for each site. I am fine for the one site - I do bra and panty sets sometimes, sexy lingerie other times, and like a sundress other times.