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Granted its been 14 years since I had my baby, so things may have changed but...
When it comes to preserving how the body looks, vaginally is best since a C-section leaves a very large noticeable scar on the stomach. I know some women have opted for c-section because they are scared of the pain, but then they really dont care about the scars...or already have one from a previous child anyway. But if the Dr. recommends c-section, its for a reason, for the babies health and yours too...so cam be damned...if they say its necessary, do it.
At one time they used to give an episiotomy as a preventative measure, but that was donkey years ago...by the time I had my daughter, they only did it if necessary. Trust me, when that heals, no one can see or tell you had one done...certainly, definitely not from cam. A guy can be up close and eyeball to it and not be able to tell... Again, better to have it done than not if they say you need it. Getting ripped would be crazy painful and the healing time is way longer.
For stretchmarks...Ive heard a lot of stuff over the years, and honestly, the one thing that will save or ruin you more than anything is genetics. Your mom is the best key to figuring out how your body is going to behave. If she has little to no stretchmarks, you will be better off than if she has really bad ones. You can minimize them by keeping your stomach moisturized with cocoa butter and vitamin E oil....and then continue with that after birth. Miderma has also been a good way to further help treat them. Also, there are laser treatments that can help minimize how bad the stretchmarks look, if done fairly soon after, but only on paler skin...dark skin is kind of out of luck.
in my experience stretch marks don't show up super noticeable on cam (i'm lightskinned and have a lot of stretch marks and a few scars, but not c-section scar - that would be noticeable definitely). but even when guys do notice them they don't mind at all. i think there was another thread about this recently where someone who did have a c-section scar said it wasn't an issue. they like us slightly imperfect, hehe :)
Definitely keep your body moisturized. I went 9 months of my pregnancy with no stretch marks and the last month I stopped my regimen and got stretch marks on my belly. I started scratching and bam :-[ stretch marks. But they are light and unnoticeable. Some people are prone to get them more, blame genetics. My mother doesn't have any, so I really wasn't worried. Actually my brother has more than me and my mom from gaining and losing weight lol! I only have a few but I wish they weren't there. They don't do C-Sections like the used to. They used to cut your stomach straight up and down. Now they cut the bikini line and it's really unnoticeable. It's a really small scar and your panties and bikini covers it. Most guys aren't focused on your stretch marks anyway. They just want to see ass, tits, and pussy. It doesn't matter if you have stretch marks or tire marks on them lol. Show tire mark tits bb:P! mmmmmmm! lmfao!
:D:D Soo true...too damned true :D:D
I wrote in another thread how being on cam has given me such an ego, I swear, cause these guys are so happy to see anything...it can really get to a girls head...
They genuinely are not nearly as concerned with imperfections as we are...
I did a vaginal birth...naturally with no pain killers. I did tear a little, so I needed an episiotomy right after. I'd rather have a vaginal birth than c-section, but in some cases c-section is what's best for the woman and baby.
My son is now 8 years old, so I'm pretty sure my stretch marks are here to stay. :P I have stretch marks on my tits and ass. They're definitely noticeable on my ass, but most guys on cam sites don't even comment on the stretch marks. They love my ass...especially when I've rubbed baby oil all over it.
I think maybe if I had used that Palmer's cocoa butter stretch mark cream years ago, it probably would've taken care of the stretch marks. But oh well...I've learned to live with my stretch marks.
Guys on cam sites don't complain about my stretch marks though. Some of them bitch about my saggish titties, but they can just fuck right off and click 'next model'. ;D
Giving birth is a beautiful thing. Any man who would talk shit to a woman who has stretch marks or saggy tits, etc. due to motherhood.....is a douchebag anyway.
I had a natural vaginal delivery with no drugs, and I tore quite a bit and had to get stitches.
Honestly, my vagina looks awesome (3.5 years later). I would never, ever get a C section unless it was medically necessary. Why turn a natural experience into a sterile, surgical procedure? We're women, we're supposed to give birth out of our vaginas, it's not going to destroy them.. Plus with C sections it takes much longer to recover and you'll have scars.
I got stretch marks on my ass (for some reason) and a little bit on my boobs. But then again, I didn't use any cream or lotion at all.
Oddly enough, I liked giving birth, as painful as it was.
My twat is tight..looks like a virgin pussy, even after having 3 vaginal deliveries. I owe it to lots of masturbation and good genes. As far as the tummy area, I have a little one, some scarring, but nothing major.
I had a horizontal c-section and its not that visible but medically necessary for preterm birth. 12 years later and the only stretch marks are on my breast. They got so big I could feed a nation.
Do what's best for your baby, which is a natural delivery and breastfeeding in 90% of cases. i say the same all these previous women have said. Motherhood is all about sacrifice, but the joy is so worth it all.
I breastfeed my baby for 14 months. It was the best decision I ever made. My daughter is beyond smart. She is in accelerated classes and can read three grades above her grade level. She never gets sick. When she was a baby her immune system was so strong and still is. She never had an ear infection. It took me a week to potty train her and she never peed in the bed. The experts say if you breastfeed, your child will be healthier, smarter, and potty trained faster. I can vouch for all of the above. I did sacrifice for sure lol! I couldn't drink alcohol :beer2: and boobs would always get engorge with milk :'(.Breastfeeding also had advantages tho ugh too. My stomach was flat 3 weeks after I had my baby and I didn't have a cycle the whole time I was breastfeeding. Breastfeeding is the best for the baby :yes:, even if you do it for the first few months. You can also pump and freeze your milk, so you can still use it months after you decide to stop.
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