Landed a whale. How to keep him ITC???
I've recently gained a regular customer who spends a decent chunk of money each time he comes in to see me.
We text back and forth a little, mainly just telling him when I'll be working.
Here is the issue though. He keeps pressing me to meet him outside the club. He's dropped hints at wanting to be my sugar daddy.
He wants to buy me the new car I've been saving for.
I'm not comfortable meeting him at all. I have an SO, and he is married. Also, I feel kind of awkward when he tells me that he's crazy about me and cannot stop thinking of me. :-\
I need to keep him in the club. He's given me up to $1100 for just sitting with him at the bar for a couple of hours. The other night he stopped in for about 20 minutes and handed me $380.
Please ladies, tell me how I can keep him coming back!
Re: Landed a whale. How to keep him ITC???
KEEP HIM IN THE CLUB. Don't ruin that fantasy! You outside the club totally kills it plus he seems too clingy. Be safe/smart.
Re: Landed a whale. How to keep him ITC???
Drop not-so-subtle hints about how busy you are outside of work (read: no time to see him OTC) and how nice it is when he comes in to see you at work because it gives you a much needed break from your hectic life.
Re: Landed a whale. How to keep him ITC???
^^ I agree with the above, BUT if you ever decide to me him OTC make it dinner in a public place and ask for an ammount say $2000 with half paid up front (he can deposit into a bank account which doesn't need to show your real name).
Once its OTC you aren't in control in alot of ways, that said- only you know if he's really asking for more and usually Sugar Babies have to put out.
Search Whales, OTC, and Sugar Daddy and read all the info already posted (early the thread the better). There is some quality info.
Re: Landed a whale. How to keep him ITC???
If he wanted an escort, he could easily see an escort for way less money. Obviously he likes the fantasy of hanging out with you and dreaming of how wonderful it will be when you finally say yes to OTC. Keep it fantasy. If you agree to meet with him he may assume you meet others and then the fantasy could be ruined. Good luck!
Re: Landed a whale. How to keep him ITC???
If I were you I'd stick to my guns for as long as possible. If he really wants to see you, and knows that the only way to do that is ITC, then he'll keep coming in. Once he knows that there is another way of seeing you available to him, you've lost him as a customer.
You mentioned that he's married, and you have a SO. Use this to your advantage. I have a regular who is married, and he knows that I have a serious boyfriend. I told him that I would feel so sooo terrible for his wife and my boyfriend if we were ever to meet up outside the club, and that I consider any type of date 'cheating'. But that I really enjoy the time we get to spend ITC - how it turns me on so much, that even though we both love our SO's the sexual attraction between us gets me so excited, etc etc. Basically I make him think that if it weren't for my bf or his wife, I would go out with him in a heartbeat (even though that's not the case). It has worked extremely well. He appreciates my honesty with him about my bf, doesn't ask me to go OTC anymore, and keeps coming to see me because he knows it's the only way he can.
^wow I feel mean after typing all that out, lol
Re: Landed a whale. How to keep him ITC???
Meeting customers outside of the club is an art.
If you don't feel like the artful type then don't do it.
Re: Landed a whale. How to keep him ITC???
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*Jade*Love
If I were you I'd stick to my guns for as long as possible. If he really wants to see you, and knows that the only way to do that is ITC, then he'll keep coming in. Once he knows that there is another way of seeing you available to him, you've lost him as a customer.
You mentioned that he's married, and you have a SO. Use this to your advantage. I have a regular who is married, and he knows that I have a serious boyfriend. I told him that I would feel so sooo terrible for his wife and my boyfriend if we were ever to meet up outside the club, and that I consider any type of date 'cheating'. But that I really enjoy the time we get to spend ITC - how it turns me on so much, that even though we both love our SO's the sexual attraction between us gets me so excited, etc etc. Basically I make him think that if it weren't for my bf or his wife, I would go out with him in a heartbeat (even though that's not the case). It has worked extremely well. He appreciates my honesty with him about my bf, doesn't ask me to go OTC anymore, and keeps coming to see me because he knows it's the only way he can.
^wow I feel mean after typing all that out, lol
That's a really interesting hustle! I've never even thought about doing that...I might try it out :)
Re: Landed a whale. How to keep him ITC???
I'm coming to the realization that in the long run, it is not worth it to even give out my number.
I would rather just tell him in the club when I'll be working next.