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Do dancers do different things in private with different customers?
I've been getting privates from this one dancer for awhile now, she's starting to become my regular girl of choice. Ever since the first private I ever got with her, she'd do stuff like lift my shirt rub her head and boobs up and down my stomach, hum on my junk and lightly nibble on it through the pants, reach down my pants, and the normal grinding. So naturally, I tell my friend to try a private with her since she's good. He did so, and when he came back out he told me she didn't do anything "special" and just did the normal grinding, which isn't bad by any means, but do dancers dance differently with different customers?
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I rarely recommend my favs to other guys. Actually I rarely, if ever, talk at all to other guys ITC and I always go to clubs alone. Lap dances are always YMMV and the ball is completely in the lady's court as to what she will do back there.
Do dancers dance the same way for everyone? IMHO, no, they don't. Can I prove it? No, not really but I don't need to. As long as I am enjoying my dances from a lady I don't really care what she may or may not be doing to other guys that she is or isn't doing to me. I've actually benefited quite a bit over the years in the millage department from being generous, respectful and a good regular customer
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There are about a million different ways to dance for someone. Since everything she's doing for you is something she shouldn't be doing anyway, maybe she didn't trust your friend. Who knows.
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wait, so the humming on the junk isn't that common? ha
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i know, it's a dumb question. I'm a noob. Only been 3 times so far. haha
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chris1234
wait, so the humming on the junk isn't that common? ha
OK, you've actually never been to a strip club have you?
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Ok, I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you're not a troll. No it's not common. We (as in dancers) don't put our mouths or hands anywhere near your crotch.
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chris1234
wait, so the humming on the junk isn't that common? ha
It happens to me frequently.
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safado
It happens to me frequently.
Which doesn't make it ok, or common...
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I knew it wasn't common but I thought it was just another move out of the bag of tricks of private dancing to get us hooked to buy more. Guess I was wrong...
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chris1234
I thought it was just another move out of the bag of tricks of private dancing to get us hooked to buy more. Guess I was wrong...
"Bag of Tricks?" .... Sorry but I can't help but see this line as offensive. Obviously what this girl was doing was more than the traditional lapdance. She may have liked you more then your friend, or your friend may have been extra grabby (esp. after what you had said about your experience). Thus, she restricted her dance.
Still extras are not the norm and are generally not tolerated. If she would have been caught, say by another girl or strict management, her actions could have been taken the wrong way and there may have been consequences.
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chris1234
wait, so the humming on the junk isn't that common? ha
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chris1234
I knew it wasn't common but I thought it was just another move out of the bag of tricks of private dancing to get us hooked to buy more. Guess I was wrong...
Ok so the first post was facetious?
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Sorry for using the "bag of tricks" term I kinda knew someone would take offense to that but i couldn't come up with a better phrase. I didn't mean anything bad or degrading by it.
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it wasn't facetious, the first post was more like "so humming on the junk isn't just something that happens?" and I just knew it wasn't something that happened ALL the time. I'm really bad with wording today :/ ha
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chris1234
it wasn't facetious, the first post was more like "so humming on the junk isn't just something that happens?" and I just knew it wasn't something that happened ALL the time. I'm really bad with wording today :/ ha
In your defense, it is more common in some places than others, particularly in more high contact locales. However, you are on a stripper support site that caters to girls from a variety of areas, including many where things are more controlled, so posting about edgier services obtained from a stripper is really not going to earn you any awards here.
Since you are new, I will point out that there is a basement here, called the Strip Club Junkie Forum, where you probably could have asked this question and not received quite so much grief.
In response to your question, the girls are not robots. What a girl will do and who she will do it with are, of course, based upon a variety of factors, including comfort level. If you continue to frequent strip clubs, you will learn over time not to share your good finds with others. Your friend most likely did or said something that made her feel uncomfortable, in all likelihood based upon what you told him. And guess what? The girl is probably going to be more cautious with you as well the next time that you take her back.
Anyway, welcome and good luck.
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thanks, she wasn't more cautious though thank god. He went first then I waited after he got back having a few drinks then maybe a half hour later I asked her for privates and she did what she always does with me.
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also, I didn't see the strip club junkie forum, its in small print on the bottom. Thanks for pointing it out
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rickdugan
In your defense, it is more common in some places than others, particularly in more high contact locales. However, you are on a stripper support site that caters to girls from a variety of areas, including many where things are more controlled, so posting about edgier services obtained from a stripper is really not going to earn you any awards here.
Since you are new, I will point out that there is a basement here, called the Strip Club Junkie Forum, where you probably could have asked this question and not received quite so much grief.
In response to your question, the girls are not robots. What a girl will do and who she will do it with are, of course, based upon a variety of factors, including comfort level. If you continue to frequent strip clubs, you will learn over time not to share your good finds with others. Your friend most likely did or said something that made her feel uncomfortable, in all likelihood based upon what you told him. And guess what? The girl is probably going to be more cautious with you as well the next time that you take her back.
Anyway, welcome and good luck.
Honestly, I thought we were pretty decent.
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JayATee, you were decent. thanks for answering honestly and taking my crotch humming question seriously. haha
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yes, dancers do give different customers different kind of dances, depending on: how much you're spending, how long she's known you, who the bouncer watching her dance is, her mood that day, etc.
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in your case the probably reason why she didnt give your friend a naughty dance like she does with you is because she knows that guys talk and she doesnt want to lose you as a regular because she gave a nasty dance for your friend (she probably doesnt want you to get jealsous)
ive done the same thing too. i have several regulars that i get a bit naughty with but when they have asked me to dance for their friends i gave their friends air dances because i didnt want my regulars to think i was slutty or that they werent special.
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also, dont have your ATF dance for your friends. if you have a special relationship with her and she gives you naughty dances why have her do the same thing for your friends? in my opinion that creates a lot of drama. just tip her good for the extra contact she provides you and have your friends tip her good when she's on stage.
and, blowing/humming on junk is very uncommon in most clubs ive worked at (idaho, washington, montana, oregon) although it was pretty normal in vegas clubs from my experience(especially rhino and scores) so it really depends on what state you are in :-\ some places this is disgusting, other places it is completely normal and actually tame compared to what else is going on
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here's something that happened to me on Friday night.
I went up to a table with two guys and got the first one in the back. We were back there for five songs. He didn't touch me at all and I was very close to him, leaning in on him, breathing on his neck, rubbing my tits in his face, being suuuper sensual. We had an awesome conversation and showed each other pictures of our pets. Nothing gross happened, there was hardly any grinding and like I said, he didn't touch me at all.
then I went out and grabbed his friend. He was like. "She's awesome! Go for dances!" I get back there with his friend and he's grabbing me and rubbing me to the point where I say to him "chill out, be more gentle, don't do this". Eventually I just backed off completely and was hardly even touching him. We did one song, he paid me and then he was like "I feel under-pleasured". I said to him "did you think that maybe it was you? That you are so undesirable that I didn't even want to be near you or have you touching me?" And then I walked out. The look on his face was amazing.
so basically, no. But then again, I don't do anything considered even remotely "illegal" or "wrong".
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While I've never done that (or actually never even heard of that before frequenting this site)I will state that yes dancers do different things sometimes with different guys. For instance some dancers will allow a regular say more leeway than a guy who's not. She may also talk to him longer and spend more time with him.
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It depends on the guy, how much money he is spending, how grabby he is or even how cute he is. Chemistry is also a factor.
Dancers get paid so well because we know how to tailor our dances for different customers.
She might be your fav and your friend is going to have a fav that does other things that you would find less than normal.
Yeah humming on and nibbling on your junk, her rubbing her tits all over your chest and stomach and reaching down your pants is NOT A NORMAL DANCE.
In fact that doesn't sound like a dance at all!
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Yes. I give VERY different dances to different customers.
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chris1234
I knew it wasn't common but I thought it was just another move out of the bag of tricks of private dancing to get us hooked to buy more. Guess I was wrong...
No. Reaching down pants and humming on dicks are moves that girls do when they don't know how to give a good enough dance to get repeat customers without being whores.
That's... definitely not in a normal dancer's 'bag o tricks'.
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So naturally, I tell my friend to try a private with her since she's good.
Forgive me here but... why would you recommend your friend get his dick played with by the girl who plays with your dick?
Were you not planning to have her play with your dick anymore...? Or do you not mind having her hands/mouth on your buddy's dick and then back on yours? :O