starting at an agency tomorrow...
i'm starting at an agency that that only provides in call services in an agency rented apartment. most ost of their business occurs between 11am and 11pm. i will be working with another girl in a 2 br apt, but she won't be there for a week so i can't really ask her anything. i've done the research on sw and other sources but not all my questions have been answered. also, some questions have obvious answers but I want to make sure…
...if they have been covered in other threads plz let me know, i may have missed it
- i was told that the girls generally wear lingerie and heels...i'm a dancer and i am wondering if bootie shorts and sexy/lacy bra is sufficient? covered a little with a kimono robe...what would you recommend?
- shoes...stripper heels or something more demure/cute?
- does the booker/money collector (same person in my case) get tipped?
- various methods of discreetly checking person for any suspicious marks, sores or lesions on or around genitals? i do not like the shower idea, especially as a new provider
- makeup...i generally don't wear makeup at all during the day unless i have a date or meeting or doing anything but running errands - i know that day and night makeup is different but since we are providing a fantasy...how much is too much?
- faking orgasms...yes or no?
- i'm assuming we don't ask for a tip...common sense tells me we don’t but as a dancer i ask all the time
- best flavored condom?
- is 30 mins between customers/clients/hobbyists a realistic amount of time to freshen up?
- things that will almost guarantee me a bad review - i know i can't please everyone all the time are there definite don'ts?
i really want to raise my rate because i don’t see why i shouldn’t be able to. i know as a newbie i will have to start with the average rate until i get established…any ideas that may help? can you point me in the right direction?
ok i think that is it…thank you so much!!!
xoxo
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Great questions! I'm in a rush so I'll try to answer as best I can:
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bubbles323
- i was told that the girls generally wear lingerie and heels...i'm a dancer and i am wondering if bootie shorts and sexy/lacy bra is sufficient? covered a little with a kimono robe...what would you recommend?
What you suggested sounds fine. Remember to bring a couple changes of outfits a day.
- shoes...stripper heels or something more demure/cute?'
It depends. I say go with whatever you have at first, as long as it looks cute and fits the house rules. Since you'll be working with someone else you'll get a better idea of what the other ladies wear . . . just tweak your wardrobe accordingly.
- does the booker/money collector (same person in my case) get tipped?
Generally, no. Since you're working for an agency and I assume you're keeping around 40% you'll want to keep every penny of your money. :)
- various methods of discreetly checking person for any suspicious marks, sores or lesions on or around genitals? i do not like the shower idea, especially as a new provider
You can do what some people in the industry call a "dick check" in the beginning of the session. Be sure to ask the agency owner if you have the right to refuse service. If you don't, leave the agency immediately. It should be your right to turn down any client with questionable sores or poor hygiene.
- makeup...i generally don't wear makeup at all during the day unless i have a date or meeting or doing anything but running errands - i know that day and night makeup is different but since we are providing a fantasy...how much is too much?
Keep it light. You'll be doing touch-ups between appointments so you don't want to pile it on. Also not to point out the obvious but you don't want to get makeup all over the sheets.
- faking orgasms...yes or no?
Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. :D
- i'm assuming we don't ask for a tip...common sense tells me we don’t but as a dancer i ask all the time
Do not ask for a tip! Rates are normally all inclusive. If a client asks if you're allowed to receive tips, tell them they're always appreciated. If your rate is an uneven number say, $275 or something, you'll find that most clients will round up to $300.
- best flavored condom?
Hmm, no advice there. I'm sure one of the other members will have some suggestions.
- is 30 mins between customers/clients/hobbyists a realistic amount of time to freshen up?
Plenty of time. Make sure you bring a small kit of toiletries like lotion, baby wipes, body wash and mouth wash. Do not brush your teeth before each session as you can create small cuts in your mouth (bleeding gums) which can make you more susceptible to diseases. Also, skip the perfume! Some clients are allergic.
- things that will almost guarantee me a bad review - i know i can't please everyone all the time are there definite don'ts?
Constant upselling, "clock watching" and bad hygiene.
i really want to raise my rate because i don’t see why i shouldn’t be able to. i know as a newbie i will have to start with the average rate until i get established…any ideas that may help? can you point me in the right direction?
Ask the agency if they periodically raise rates. Some agencies base rates on your reviews. If you don't think they'll meet your expectations you may find eventually you'll be better off going independent.
ok i think that is it…thank you so much!!!
xoxo
Okay, that's it for now! Hopefully one of the other members can fill in some of the gaps. Remember if anything seems shady with this agency, leave! Your life/well being isn't worth any amount of money. Best of luck to you!
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what about when your pussy gets sore? i have had a pretty slow start due to bad pics and then only one review - we redid the pics and then i got a uti (honestly it had been coming on for a week or so and i just ignored it thinking it was dehydration, yes i know that was not smart)...anyways, today i had the most number of custs and i'm really sore...do vitamin e suppositories work? what about coconut oil pills?
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Take it easy and tell them you are more sensual then something to break concrete with, and also, learning to "break" you client early via bj is a NICE trick to have, avoids sore vag in first place and gives a reason to come back
Re: starting at an agency tomorrow...
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bubbles323
what about when your pussy gets sore? i have had a pretty slow start due to bad pics and then only one review - we redid the pics and then i got a uti (honestly it had been coming on for a week or so and i just ignored it thinking it was dehydration, yes i know that was not smart)...anyways, today i had the most number of custs and i'm really sore...do vitamin e suppositories work? what about coconut oil pills?
How many clients are you seeing in a day? The only time my vagina was sore like that was when I was seeing 5+ men a day. You need to invest in a good water based lubricant and lubricated condoms. Drink lots of water and I suggest slowing down on the number of clients you see per day.
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the most i've seen is 5 in a day...though the agency wants me to see more, the other girls are seeing up to 9 guys in a day, i am not sure that i can...this job can be mentally exhausting as well as physically demanding. - maybe i'm not money hungry enough?
we will see tomorrow...
Re: starting at an agency tomorrow...
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Originally Posted by
bubbles323
the most i've seen is 5 in a day...though the agency wants me to see more, the other girls are seeing up to 9 guys in a day, i am not sure that i can...this job can be mentally exhausting as well as physically demanding. - maybe i'm not money hungry enough?
we will see tomorrow...
Seeing that many men a day you will burn out FAST.
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that's what i told the booker! he told me to focus on my goals so that i won't burnout...which i think is ridiculous - also i can only work 3 days in a row because my bikini line is so sensitive by day 4 it looks like syphilis and herpes had a war and no one won (i have neither, thank you). when i first spoke to him i told him i wouldn't want to see more than 5 and i also wouldn't work 5 days a week with 12 hour days - especially since i just started. i wouldn't be so worried except they just hired another girl and since we do incalls and this is a 2 bedroom i don't know when i will be "allowed" to work. i have this weekend to "prove" myself. thinking about being an independent but the screening worries me as well as a few other things.
it's funny i don't feel bad (i worried i would initially) about what i am doing - i do feel bad when i feel like i'm not measuring up to the other girls - is this normal?
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Agencies are always full of crap and take too much % of the fees the escort is working for. Learn the ropes and go independent if you can. The agency you are working for should be pacing you to keep you from avoiding burn out - not treating you like a personal piggy bank. You don't have to see that many clients per day, work that many days, or those long hours if you don't want to. You sound intimidated by the agency and the other escorts.. What do you mean by "prove" yourself and "allowed" to work?
You are the boss.. you should be in control and not have to prove yourself to anybody!
How do you feel you don't measure up to the other women?
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9 guys in a day? WTF? That's insane, lol! I'm good with 5, and I schedule 2 hours apart. It doesn't always work out like this to a T, but for me I'll try to do a 1pm, 3pm, 5pm, 7pm, and a 9pm. Last week I had incall and I only saw 2 clients because that's all I wanted to do. That's the beauty of being independant, I can break whenever I want for dinner, or stop altogether.
I also have some tips I can share as to what I bring with me and a little routine I have. Maybe I'll start a new thread for that, so it will be easier to find. I haven't read the sticky about touring yet, so maybe I could post it there. I'll have to read it first and then decide. Either way, don't let them bully you! There is enough info on this board, and plenty of girls here that can help you go independent, myself included. Screening is the most important part, and to be honest, I wouldn't trust anybody else to do my screening for me.
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i have been keeping up with all your replies and want to say thank you so much! i have finished my second week of working and have a much better handle on things. i will pm you for info about going independent and screening. i have viewed those posts but i don't think they covered one of the questions i had.
also i do have some more questions regarding this thread but the past 3 days have been insane - had to move, got sick and now i'm heading back to start in the morning...
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9 per day is too much!
You will burn out in record time doing that shit and it will take it's toll on your health. The toll it takes on you will start to show and your reviews will go down.
Seeing 3-5 per day you can stay at your best, make plenty of money and keep a healthy balance to your life.
If they are pressuring you to see more than you're comfortable seeing, you seriously need to look for a better agency!
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Originally Posted by
bubbles323
i have been keeping up with all your replies and want to say thank you so much! i have finished my second week of working and have a much better handle on things. i will pm you for info about going independent and screening. i have viewed those posts but i don't think they covered one of the questions i had.
also i do have some more questions regarding this thread but the past 3 days have been insane - had to move, got sick and now i'm heading back to start in the morning...
You moved in the middle of this? :O LoL! Maybe you do have the energy for 9! Haha just kidding, glad things are better for you, PM me anytime.