Another first night story...but mostly a question on sugar daddies!
Hi Ladies,
Thanks to all your support and great advice I have been reading the past few weeks, I finally had my first night!
It was pretty good, the place got CROWDED at midnight which I know should be a good thing, but for some reason I found it a little intimidating. I am one of the few white girls at my club, and most of the customers are of another race, so I sort of felt like they didn't want me. I don't know. I will have to get used to rejection!
After a cab home ($10) and tipping the house mom ($20) I went home with $345 (no stage fees first night, it's usually $55). Not bad considering a make $80 a night waitressing!
Anyway so this is my question: There was this one guy I hung out with in VIP on and off throughout the night (VIP works a little different in my club) He spent a decent amount of money on me throughout the night. It was nice, I'd give him a dance, talk, whatever. He would have to talk to his client so I would work the floor and come back to him later. He was genuinely a nice guy and we had a good time. He is 35 but has a lotttt of money (works on wall street).
What do you girls think I should do? He said he wants to take me to dinner....which I would, but to be honest, I want to be paid for it too...not just dinner. Or maybe if I do go he will come back to the club and spend more money on me....I don't know how this works. He seems a bit young to be a sugar daddy....he may think I am actually interested in him!
Advice?
Re: Another first night story...but mostly a question on sugar daddies!
You're brand new to dancing. I'd learn the game with that first before I start considering taking anything OTC. Besides that, any of them can seem nice. That doesn't mean they are. Watch your back please.
ETA: I'll also give you a hint, when they start talking about wanting to "take you to dinner" that's not going to make them come back and spend more on you ITC.
Re: Another first night story...but mostly a question on sugar daddies!
Good advice. I would never spend time with a customer without being compensated. I recently got a sugar daddy offer and that was an exchange of a specified amount of money for a clearly defined amount of time.
He likely knows the rules but realizes you are new and is hoping to get away with some free time with a beautiful woman.
Melissa Blade
www.secretsofawebcamgirl.com
Re: Another first night story...but mostly a question on sugar daddies!
Youre right, thanks ladies!
Re: Another first night story...but mostly a question on sugar daddies!
I'm glad you made the right choice!