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Why are you not verified?
The little incident that happened with marley made me wonder...
http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=159273
Why aren't more girls verified? It would be my dream to have all the cam girls here verified. I mean we all have webcams..and we all signed up for camsites which is alot more work than verifying. I would guess not even a quarter of the "cam girls" here are verified so far. What is the reason for that?
maybe we can alter some things to get more girls to verify....
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Re: Why are you not verified?
I would bet not even 5% of the "girls" here who say they are camgirls are verified.
My bet is they are men or they were at one time camgirls who just couldn't make it.
Or they are current camgirls who have said they do a whole lot better than they do.
I love how people who claim to be such amazing camgirls are now saying they quit (lol- good timing) or haven't posted.
I guess this is a really good example of shit or get off the pot.
If a "camgirl" is on here and has a bunch of posts but has not been verified I automatically think they are a fraud or a man- but that is just me. :)
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I put 'I don't want you to know who I am' because that is the reason I didn't jump on it. I mean no offence, but I don't know who you are and it just made me feel uncomfortable.
I will verify later today though. I do kinda take offence at this new 'movement' which seems to suggest that those of us who haven't yet chosen to be verified are in some way 'fake'. But, whatever - I will verify later today with my SM account. I'll be doing partychat today so you can feel free to come and shout 'hi' at me as well if you like lol.
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Wow lol. I think I will have to disagree. I think one of the main reasons is because some people just don't want everyone knowing who they are, to avoid drama. I know myself, and a few others feel this way.
It did not even cross my mind that it is because people are not successful, or something of that nature.
I am not trying to be rude, but judging people who have not yet verified, probably will make them not even want to do it, because of that very reason.
Plus of course, there are some people who just fake who they are. But I think it's not fair to throw everyone in the same basket. Not fair at all, and would probably push people away, who were thinking of getting verified. Just my opinion.
I seriously doubt that the majority of the people not verified, are either men, or suck at their job lol. Not fair.
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I hardly ever post here anymore so I wasnt sure what the "verifying" meant or was. I just saw it a few days ago. Is there a thread that explains what happens when we verifiy? Do we get something under our SN saying we're real? Do we get a special private place to post? What are the benefits? So if someone wouldn't mind linking me to the thread or explaining it to me, I'd probably verify today.
For now, I iz confuzed.
A few girls here (including MissEgo and BrownFox) know my camgirl name on MFC and follow me on twitter. I dont mind verifying at all but d prefer to keep my camming identity secret from unverified people since who knows if they are dudes or creepers or something.
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Wow Chloe, why jump to negative conclusions? First of all, the verification thing hasn't even been available that long - so chill lol. I'm sure more girls will do it.... I plan to but it's not exactly my 1st priority right now, since I'm trying to get ready for back to school, etc. Also, I kind of agree with British Becky (who, btw, I know is real and she knows I'm real too). Honestly I would rather verify to someone who doesn't mind letting me know who they are. I've revealed myself to a few girls here but they also revealed themselves to me. I definitely understand Hottie's reasoning in terms of not letting everyone know who she is. But if someone is going to know my camming identity, I would like to know hers as well and I don't feel comfortable with anything less :)
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Wait a minute....the person we verify with doesnt want us to know who they are? Now Im really confused? Ugh, I need someone to 'splain this to me lol. I read the thread a little but its already 5 pages long. I need cilff notes lol
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The verified group is basically girls that have proved they are really cam girls.
There is a group on this site that only girls that are verified can read and post.
I previously had a group that was made so all girls with the "Veteran member" rating or higher could chat.
Lusty Laken started a thread about how this site should be private.
The group I previously created was suggested as a private place to talk.
We thought of a couple ways to verify girls.
A few girls pmed me asking if I would start verifying.
I posted a thread giving a way to verify.
5 or 6 girls emailed me their info to verify them.
Roast emailed me and asked me to verify who I was.
I verified myself to Roast.
Fridays also asked who I was, I told her.
A few more girls verified themselves to me.
On my original post a few girls commented on they wanted to know who they were verifying.
I commented on how I didn't want everyone to know who I was but I was ok with letting a few people know just to prove I was legit.
Most people were ok with that.
Now I realize there are some that are not ok with verifying if they can't see me.
I have posted inside the verified group asking if there are any other girls who are public about who they are to verify others instead of me.
Also..I totally understand not wanting to share your camming identity freely. (because obviously i'm in the same boat) However please realize when you ask me to verify myself in return I am not just verifying to one person like you are. I am doing that multiple times....
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Honestly we should not take this verification process and make it a negative one or thing. In reality most of us do want to be verified so we can know the people we are confiding in some way.lol I feel kind of like BritishBecky does. I do not mind people knowing who I am that are truly women in the field or ARE NOT NEGATIVE AND ABOUT DRAMA...lol Sorry had to make that clear....There is quite a few people here who know who I am and I have verified or offered to verify myself other ways so they know it is true. But to say people do not want to be verified for other reasons mentioned earlier can be true as well, but do not just jump to negativity and forget there are some who really do not want any drama from this. Some people are just more laid back and like to remain anonymous......I rarely post that much anymore because these threads can be just too much and I like my energy to remain positive in what I am doing... I did select to be verified later but I do not think it is fair to call out those who do not want too.
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Re: Why are you not verified?
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Originally Posted by
h0ttie
The verified group is basically girls that have proved they are really cam girls.
There is a group on this site that only girls that are verified can read and post.
I previously had a group that was made so all girls with the "Veteran member" rating or higher could chat.
Lusty Laken started a thread about how this site should be private.
The group I previously created was suggested as a private place to talk.
We thought of a couple ways to verify girls.
A few girls pmed me asking if I would start verifying.
I posted a thread giving a way to verify.
5 or 6 girls emailed me their info to verify them.
Roast emailed me and asked me to verify who I was.
I verified myself to Roast.
Fridays also asked who I was, I told her.
A few more girls verified themselves to me.
On my original post a few girls commented on they wanted to know who they were verifying.
I commented on how I didn't want everyone to know who I was but I was ok with letting a few people know just to prove I was legit.
Most people were ok with that.
Now I realize there are some that are not ok with verifying if they can't see me.
I have posted inside the verified group asking if there are any other girls who are public about who they are to verify others instead of me.
Also..I totally understand not wanting to share your camming identity freely. (because obviously i'm in the same boat) However please realize when you ask me to verify myself in return I am not just verifying to one person like you are. I am doing that multiple times....
Hottie, I totally understand where you are coming from chica, trust me... I do! And hopefully you can understand where I'm coming from too lol. You've already been verified so that's not an issue anymore to me imo... But who got verified? That's the question? I just would want to know your cam name or your twitter or something... If I'm going to be giving you my personal info, because it only seems fair to me - not all camgirls are even trustworthy, verified or not unfortunately - so it would just be nice to have mutual knowledge instead of it being one sided. Does that make sense? I hope my post didn't come across as rude, because I'm really thankful that you're even taking the time to do this :)
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^ I completely understand that Hottie - I don't think you should have to verify to everyone, none of us should have to verify to more than one or two people. My issue is not that you won't verify to me (I haven't asked you to and I wont), my personal misgiving is about lack of anonymity generally. As AngelCummings said - I know she is real lol. I will verify to you (or whoever it is), just explaining why I needed to give it some thought.
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Ahhhh, ok, that makes sense. Its not really a big deal I mean I understand both your side and theirs. I dont care if real camgirls know who I am, but I dont want creepers knowing so I dont mind verifying with you Hottie. It will be nice to have a private place to post as well. Its needed. Its one of the reasons I stopped posting here along with the forum being under moderated and over run with newbs. (I see Aria is a new mod so thats fucking kick ass!)
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Now about the judgement part.
I am not saying everyone who hasn't verified has something to hide but I am curious about your reasoning not to verify. Like I said the point of this thread is to find out why some of you have chosen not to verify in order to see if we can adjust something to make everyone feel comfortable about joining.
I understand that some people just don't want to be in a group. I understand that some people might not see the point. But to me knowing that the people I am sharing info with are real is important! But if you don't that is ok too! I just want to make sure there is no one that would like to be verified but has a problem with the process.
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In an ideal world we'd have like a 'chain verification' or something where we each verified to two others and it was a mutual thing and it worked like a chain etc. However, that's completly impracticable!!! :)
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I want it to keep out he creepers from my damn cam buddy group! lol..but it not for everyone but i love my cliqe!!
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Also its only been a week girl!
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Mabey we could make the private group a sticky and kind of explain what it is and how it works. That way it stays on top too and more people would see it and possibly verify. I mean if you dont check this forum every 24 hours threads can be pushed back to the 2nd and third pages.
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I think this is a great idea.... But my opinion is I really don't care too much I mean I. Like u girls n the ones I know on twitter know me, British Becky, camwhore, n more I like the group though but haven't had time to post in it, so I'm sure I'm removed by now lol
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^ its a separate group from the veterans one.
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Again I think u have a great idea u always do boo, but I don't see the point just from my side speaking for me, I know everything there is to know for me, n I only post here if I have useful tips, and or info, I'm glad ur weeding out the pervs, but I'm okay with stripper web camming connection :)
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i still think its worth verifying even if you don't care too much about the actually "verifying" part. if that makes sense.
just for the fact that there are some important topics in there already that we can't talk about publicly.
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I can definitely think of reasons why someone wouldn't want to be verified. I would normally be in that group because I really prefer to be anonymous. But I think hottie's verification process is solid and discreet, and the privacy is worth it.
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Last time I verified (on another board) it caused me nothing but drama. I am really unwilling to put myself out there again. Not worth it IMO. No offense to verified ladies, I understand why people do it but I'm just not comfortable with it, because yes we verify to one person but nothing stops them spreading the information. I'm not saying people here would, but I have seen it happen.
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I love that someone already said they were a "creepy dude" in the poll. LMAO! You guys remember Blondyy from forever ago! Pretending to be a camgirl giving advice but I outed him as a dude when his advice sounded like it was straight out of a guys mouth. I think he even asked for feet pics! Bahahaha
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Yeah personaly I love my anonymity, but sometimes there is stuff that needs to be said or discussed that you cant talk to anyone but a fellow cam-girl about cause no one else would understand or its just business related. And the fact that I can google a popular cam-girls name and get a shit ton of SW topics like the whole of page one on the search results, well that makes me a little nervous about what I can/cant/should post. So I like verification and the pvt group as an option but its not for everyone, and just cause someone doesn't want to join doesn't mean there a dude or stalker creep, I didnt wanna join cause groups intimidate me, but knowing I am missing out on getting and sharing useful information is even more unpleasant.
Anyway I like the option, but not everyone likes everything thats just the world.