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Escorts/Former Escorts: Do You Regret getting into it?
I do sometimes and the money is so very addictive..
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If you regret getting into it, why don't you leave it and keep your sanity? Is it really THAT worth it? Go and find another way to make money because when you get out of it you will be a mentally fucked up person. No I do not regret getting into it. I'm still currently and escort and I love it! To me, it's one of the best jobs in the world.
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Granted I have only been an escort for a few months now, so Im still fresh to it I suppose, but I love it. I've met some awesome people, both clients and other providers, and I love roadtrips and traveling, something Ive been able to do a lot more of because of this work. Cant wait to get out of state and *really* travel...and of course, the money is great.
There are drawbacks, but at this moment they don't outweigh the positive sides by a longshot.
"Regret" is a very strong emotion...and it leads to resentment if you continue doing something that you are so strongly against having gotten involved in... Most definitely, that is where I would say its very important to get out of it asap and find something you are more comfortable with doing. Nevermind the money, how you feel about yourself and what you do is worth a lot more than that.
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In the beginning the first 6-8 months I loved it but it started to catch up to me and take a toll. I have been in for almost two years now and I want out. Burning out...
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Originally Posted by
HerRoyalHotness
If you regret getting into it, why don't you leave it and keep your sanity? Is it really THAT worth it? Go and find another way to make money because when you get out of it you will be a mentally fucked up person. No I do not regret getting into it. I'm still currently and escort and I love it! To me, it's one of the best jobs in the world.
It is hard to walk away from the money. The fast money is very addicting.
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Originally Posted by
livefast
In the beginning the first 6-8 months I loved it but it started to catch up to me and take a toll. I have been in for almost two years now and I want out. Burning out...
I'm so sorry you feel this way. Have you started working on an exit strategy? Maybe use some of your earnings to fund a non-adult business?
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Originally Posted by
nikkidarling
I'm so sorry you feel this way. Have you started working on an exit strategy? Maybe use some of your earnings to fund a non-adult business?
She's most likely going to end up suicidal one day by doing something she regrets for money. That is not smart. I feel sorry for people like this. OP, SEEK HELP!
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^That's kinda harsh, don't you think? I don't think the OP is looking for sympathy, just a little understanding.
It's easy to get sucked into this lifestyle and the fast money. Unfortunately for most it's not going to last forever. I know women in their 40's* who have been threatening to leave the business for several years, but they've been in so long they feel they don't have any skills besides escorting. That's why I suggested self employment in the vanilla sector. :) After escorting, it's too difficult to go back to minimum wage. It'll take a week to earn what they could in one day.
*For the record I don't think 40's is old! :)
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nikkidarling
After escorting, it's too difficult to go back to minimum wage. It'll take a week to earn what they could in one day.
Damn right!
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Originally Posted by
nikkidarling
I'm so sorry you feel this way. Have you started working on an exit strategy? Maybe use some of your earnings to fund a non-adult business?
I'm starting University but I haven't thought of an exit plan. I have mixed feelings about escorting and it is very lonely and isolating at times.
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Originally Posted by
nikkidarling
^That's kinda harsh, don't you think? I don't think the OP is looking for sympathy, just a little understanding.
It's easy to get sucked into this lifestyle and the fast money. Unfortunately for most it's not going to last forever. I know women in their 40's* who have been threatening to leave the business for several years, but they've been in so long they feel they don't have any skills besides escorting. That's why I suggested self employment in the vanilla sector. :) After escorting, it's too difficult to go back to minimum wage. It'll take a week to earn what they could in one day.
*For the record I don't think 40's is old! :)
Thank you nikki! I have seen many that have been in "the game" for 5-10 years and have saved nothing and leave only to return a few months or weeks later. I don't want to end up like that but most spend the money as fast as they make it! I don't feel I fit into the vanilla world anymore. I just need to vent I guess...
40 is not old there is plenty demand for the "milf" fantasy or 70 year olds that want someone more mature then a 20 year old.
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Originally Posted by
HerRoyalHotness
If you regret getting into it, why don't you leave it and keep your sanity? Is it really THAT worth it? Go and find another way to make money because when you get out of it you will be a mentally fucked up person. No I do not regret getting into it. I'm still currently and escort and I love it! To me, it's one of the best jobs in the world.
IF you are an escort, why dont u make fun of with people when they ask if they can be a stripper and an escort same time??? why do u judge their own thread ? Your posts are confusing!
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missplayful
IF you are an escort, why dont u make fun of with people when they ask if they can be a stripper and an escort same time??? why do u judge their own thread ? Your posts are confusing!
WTF are you talking about? I made fun of her because I thought she was trying to be a stripperwhore --- that's another term for extrasgirl= strippers that fuck and suck in the club. Why are you bringing stuff from other threads into this one? Lame!
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Originally Posted by
livefast
I'm starting University but I haven't thought of an exit plan. I have mixed feelings about escorting and it is very lonely and isolating at times.
Whatever you do, stay in school! I'm entering my last semester of grad school. I've done some crazy things through the years but pursing a degree was the best decision I've ever made.
You should spend some time thinking of some kind of side business you can start, like an e-commerce company. That way you'll have cash coming on a regular basis and have plenty of time for your studies.
I'm sorry to hear you're feeling lonely. Send me a PM (private message) if you ever need someone to talk to. :)
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Originally Posted by
nikkidarling
Whatever you do, stay in school! I'm entering my last semester of grad school. I've done some crazy things through the years but pursing a degree was the best decision I've ever made.
You should spend some time thinking of some kind of side business you can start, like an e-commerce company. That way you'll have cash coming on a regular basis and have plenty of time for your studies.
I'm sorry to hear you're feeling lonely. Send me a PM (private message) if you ever need someone to talk to. :)
Thank you :) I have been out of school for almost two years.
What exactly is an e-commerce company?
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Originally Posted by
livefast
Thank you nikki! I have seen many that have been in "the game" for 5-10 years and have saved nothing and leave only to return a few months or weeks later. I don't want to end up like that but most spend the money as fast as they make it! I don't feel I fit into the vanilla world anymore. I just need to vent I guess...
40 is not old there is plenty demand for the "milf" fantasy or 70 year olds that want someone more mature then a 20 year old.
Yeah it's nearly impossible to retire in the traditional sense because it's difficult to earn enough money in this business to be set for life. That's why a lot of escorts end up quitting for awhile just to end up right back where they started. That's why I feel it's better to escort with a long term goal in mind - to put oneself through college, raise the seed money for a legitimate business, etc.
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livefast
Thank you :) I have been out of school for almost two years.
What exactly is an e-commerce company?
Selling goods online, like jewelry, clothing, etc.
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Originally Posted by
HerRoyalHotness
WTF are you talking about? I made fun of her because I thought she was trying to be a stripperwhore --- that's another term for extrasgirl= strippers that fuck and suck in the club. Why are you bringing stuff from other threads into this one? Lame!
Dont do judge people here without knowing whole sitration . u should not represant yourself in that way when u JUST enter a new community...just sayin...
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missplayful
Dont do judge people here without knowing whole sitration . u should not represant yourself in that way when u JUST enter a new community...just sayin...
*rolls eyes*
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Re: Escorts/Former Escorts: Do You Regret getting into it?
MissPlayful...It's not fair to the OP to hijack the thread this way...especially as you havnt actually acknowledged the OP or the topic at all. If your only reason to post here is to tell someone off for something they said in an entirely different thread, that's best left to PM or at least in whichever thread you're talking about.
Livefast, I hit burnout with pretty much everything I do...it happened with domination, with phone, with cam, and I do wonder at times when/if it will hit me with escorting as well. Definitely, of everything I have done, the money with this really is the best...doing without that would be a hard thing to swallow and give up.
I do get where you're coming from, that though you are not happy with it, you are staying for the money...and I do agree with the others that makes it even more important to get an exit strategy worked out asap. Perhaps even..working towards a specific goal to be able to get out of the business would help the situation on all levels...because then there will be a definite end in sight for you.
Cause truly, doing a job like this, and not enjoying it, is definitely brutal and will to wear you thin.
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have you thought about switching to dancing? you have to do a lot less for similar money [or at least non minimal wage]
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BlkSharpie
MissPlayful...It's not fair to the OP to hijack the thread this way...especially as you havnt actually acknowledged the OP or the topic at all. If your only reason to post here is to tell someone off for something they said in an entirely different thread, that's best left to PM or at least in whichever thread you're talking about.
Livefast, I hit burnout with pretty much everything I do...it happened with domination, with phone, with cam, and I do wonder at times when/if it will hit me with escorting as well. Definitely, of everything I have done, the money with this really is the best...doing without that would be a hard thing to swallow and give up.
I do get where you're coming from, that though you are not happy with it, you are staying for the money...and I do agree with the others that makes it even more important to get an exit strategy worked out asap. Perhaps even..working towards a specific goal to be able to get out of the business would help the situation on all levels...because then there will be a definite end in sight for you.
Cause truly, doing a job like this, and not enjoying it, is definitely brutal and will to wear you thin.
Thats true... i agreee , sorry about that..,, but siriously whenever i saw her post i needed to post sometin... it was not fair to me
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anouk.oui
have you thought about switching to dancing? you have to do a lot less for similar money [or at least non minimal wage]
Dancers walk around for free till someone else buys a dance. I wouldn't leave my house unless I knew I was getting paid. A LOT of dancers now leave the club owing money - making more money? I think not. I'll stick to escorting anyday.
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Originally Posted by
missplayful
Thats true... i agreee , sorry about that..,, but siriously whenever i saw her post i needed to post sometin... it was not fair to me
i think missplayful is right in pointing out that herroyalhotnesss is rude and condescending in most of her posts - not just in this thread but also in others. she is new to this community, and it is not right for her to be disrespectful to members that have been here a while.
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Watch yourselves ladies. Get it back on track it I will shut it down.