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newbie escort needing help ASAP
Hi guys. Today is my first day escorting and I decided to go with an agency first. I have just discovered that the agency doesn't have a website and advertise on the web with a fake picture of me. When I arrived to the hotel the manager explained everything to me. Since I am not going to be working full time the rates are $80 for 15 min, $100 for 30 min, and $150 for an hour. And I get 75%. If I was full time I would get $3000 as a salary plus whatever I made from clients. Anyways, the manager had me go through a "trial" run to make sure I wasn't a cop. So, I had to pretend he was a client and I had to give him head.
Also, the way they do screening is weird. Basically, the client will give them their name, number, and license number over the phone. And when the client gets here I don't even need to check their id because they already screened them, so I've been told. Should I run and go to a better agency or stick with it?
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RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!! You should NEVER have to have sex with the owner of an agency!!! That is just wrong!!! Also, you should never offer half hour dates, let alone 15min dates!!! That is a sure fire way to get busted right there!!! Please get your ass out of there ASAP!!! Which means NOW!!!
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As the previous posters said...and I will add in...Immediately!
Wrong on so many levels.
15m dates? No.
"Trial run" and giving the agency owner head? No.
No reason to check ID when they arrive? No.
$3000 salary on top of what you get from clients? Makes no freaking sense.
Uses fake pictures? As if you need to alone with a guy pissed off got he got bait & switched.
Shady as hell? YES! Back away and definitely, check out some reputable agencies.
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That trial run was just a way for the owner of the agency to get a free session. Don't fall for this in the future. Some agencies will also refer to it as "auditioning." Pure BS.
Before you go to another agency RESEARCH RESEARCH RESEARCH!!! Read every single escort related thread in this forum. Some of those posts have links to other escort related blogs/forums. Read those too. Once you feel comfortable enough, look for a better agency, preferably one that advertises their escorts on sites like Erosguide.com.
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Wow, the guy is a creep. Do you know how many girls have probably given him head? Ick.
I don't know you, but I'm sure you deserve better.
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Girl that guy sounds like a creep. Its sick that he got you to give him free head. And the rates are disgustingly low. If you are going to sell, don"t sell yourself short. If you are going to work for him then you are much better off working for yourself. I hope that guy burns in hell for taking advantage of women.
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Bail! Bail! Bail!
Also, you giving him head doesn't prove a damn thing with regards to who's LE and who's not. An officer can have full-on intercourse and STILL arrest you if he wants. Then it's a cop's word against a busted hooker's (their point of view, not mine). And yes, I think that is shitty as hell, but it's the world we live in.
Keep looking! The agency for you is out there, but this isn't it.
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This has to be a joke! Never work for a cock. Nobody is going to give you a salary! That doesn't even make sense. I don't understand how some girls on this website even managed to find this website. If you are smart enough to google "escort forum" or whatever you googled to get here you have the ability to be smart enough to not suck at being an escort/cam girl/whatever! sort of...
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I really don't like to be rude at all, but I do not understand why anyone getting in the escort business, would fall for the "I'm a manager so you gotta give me head, to prove you are not a cop"
If your alarm bells were going off enough to post this thread, then it should have went off when the pimp asked for some head.
I bet he was excited at the fact that he actually pulled off his little lame act. I don't want you to feel bad about what you did, because it has already happened. Just know that this should be a lesson learned.
Also you get 75% of $80? I would be offended by the fact that a manager (pimp) was trying to get my little money like that.
Please just run, and don't look back. I hope this is not a fake post.
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As the ladies have said, this is not a legit agency. Idiots like that pimp are what give agencies a bad name even though there are some very good ones out there.
No legit agency owner is ever going to tell you that you have to have sex with him in order to work. Keep looking and, by the way, 15 minute appointments? Eeeeww!
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I hope the OP isnt some wannabe pimp trying to find out if this strategy will actually work on some poor gullible girl.
If the OP is really a girl writing, then do you realize that you are only making $60 for having sex with a complete stranger who could potentially be LE since the screening techniques that this "agency" uses are completely futile?
please be careful! you are worth more than $60!!!
please do your research. search "escort" on this forum and read all the threads pertaining to this. try to be independent if you can. learn how to screen yourself and never sell yourself short! if you're going to be in this line of work, then get as much out if it as possible. never sell yourself short.
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omg get out of there!
Please! there is enough resources here to do this on your own, or at least find a decent agency!
go though the thread here and do research.
Also get the books by Amanda Brooks on escorting.
This is just a job, don't risk you life/freedom/safety over it!
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I'm sorry to hear this happened to you! Obviously this jerk off took advantage of you're vulnerability being new and that is plain wrong and disgusting. This "agency" is using "Bait and Switch" pictures which PUTS YOU IN DANGER if the client gets angry and possibly violent because you are not the girl in the photo. 15 minute rate is street walker prices. Please do more research for a reputable agency with a website. Please GET AWAY ASAP this "agency" does not care about you or your safety!
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Live and learn...
Im not going to come down on the OP cause she "should have known better"...she didnt so she came here asking for info. Hopefully, not only will it not happen again, but someone else reading this who may potentially find themselves in the same situation will know to avoid it.
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Oh geez. Escorting is not for everyone. Please find something else to do. You obviously have no clue. Did you not do your research first? Who has sex with agency owners? Naive girls.
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teaze
I'm so sorry this happened to you :(. Yeah I definitely know where you're coming from.....I'm ashamed to admit that I stupidly fell for a situation very similar to this with the first agency I went to. I cried the whole drive home because I felt so stupid for falling for his tricks and barely had enough money even for gas to drive home. He told me that he has sex with the girls he hires because he doesn't want girls who have bad personalities and girls that can't hold a conversation to work for him. He also said he would pay 3,200 for an overnight with me so he could test me in a real date situation and post a great review so that I could get to working right away. Stupid me, thought that this was a good reason why he tests girls out and to make things worse, I didn't even ask for the money right upfront :'(. I had sex with him multiple times. The next day, he denied ever saying that he would pay me, told me I was only after his money, and that I was greedy, and that he never tests girls but just had to meet me once he saw my pictures. Embarrassed to admit all this right now.
Definitely consider going independent in the future because that guy is a piece of scum. Also, you may want to check reviews of agencies in your area that interest you and you can also post on here to see if other girls can recommend an agency in your area.
Oh teaze, I am physically ill after reading your story. I feel like I was just kicked in the stomache. Please don't beat yourself up over what happened. That guy is scum and hopefully will rot in hell. **HUGS***
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teaze
I'm so sorry this happened to you :(. Yeah I definitely know where you're coming from.....I'm ashamed to admit that I stupidly fell for a situation very similar to this with the first agency I went to. I cried the whole drive home because I felt so stupid for falling for his tricks and barely had enough money even for gas to drive home. He told me that he has sex with the girls he hires because he doesn't want girls who have bad personalities and girls that can't hold a conversation to work for him. He also said he would pay 3,200 for an overnight with me so he could test me in a real date situation and post a great review so that I could get to working right away. Stupid me, thought that this was a good reason why he tests girls out and to make things worse, I didn't even ask for the money right upfront :'(. I had sex with him multiple times. The next day, he denied ever saying that he would pay me, told me I was only after his money, and that I was greedy, and that he never tests girls but just had to meet me once he saw my pictures. Embarrassed to admit all this right now.
Definitely consider going independent in the future because that guy is a piece of scum. Also, you may want to check reviews of agencies in your area that interest you and you can also post on here to see if other girls can recommend an agency in your area.
A lot of you girls don't understand the business and I wonder why you even bother. It is not a business where trial and error applies BECAUSE you will end up dead in someone's gutter. I can't say I feel sorry for you. Considering how long you've been on stripperweb, one would think that you have read through the advice that have been given over and over again it's ridiculous. Why anyone works for an agency - I will never understand. I can't even say try again because you will only make MORE mistakes until you get with a better, reputable agency.
With all the escort guides on the internet, I'd think one would know better . Sad what happened to you but what do you expect from an old sick man with a NEW girl in his presence? The escorting world is full of snakes waiting to bite you in the ass. If you do not know your stuff, you will run into someone worse than the guy you met.
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HerRoyalHotness
A lot of you girls don't understand the business and I wonder why you even bother. It is not a business where trial and error applies BECAUSE you will end up dead in someone's gutter. I can't say I feel sorry for you. Considering how long you've been on stripperweb, one would think that you have read through the advice that have been given over and over again it's ridiculous. Why anyone works for an agency - I will never understand. I can't even say try again because you will only make MORE mistakes until you get with a better, reputable agency.
With all the escort guides on the internet, I'd think one would know better . Sad what happened to you but what do you expect from an old sick man with a NEW girl in his presence? The escorting world is full of snakes waiting to bite you in the ass. If you do not know your stuff, you will run into someone worse than the guy you met.
So true! Girls, you have to be street-smart to do this. You also have to know how to read people, and know when to listen to your gut. You need to rely on your instincts, it's almost primal. If you have alarm bells going off in your head, or a bad feeling in your stomache...do something about it (ie RUN!) Don't be afraid to speak up, or you WILL be taken advantage of or KILLED!!! This isn't a waitressing job!!!
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miss.adventure
So true! Girls, you have to be street-smart to do this. You also have to know how to read people, and know when to listen to your gut. You need to rely on your instincts, it's almost primal. If you have alarm bells going off in your head, or a bad feeling in your stomache...do something about it (ie RUN!) Don't be afraid to speak up, or you WILL be taken advantage of or KILLED!!! This isn't a waitressing job!!!
Good post. This ain't web camming where a mistake could get you a two day suspension. In this business a mistake could lead to your arrest, exposure to incurable diseases or even death. It is probably the riskiest form of adult work to get into and not everyone's cut out for the job.
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^Yes, I didn't even factor those things into it...but SO true!!!
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teaze
I would've gone independent but I was so low on money in the past that I didn't have enough for advertisements so I went to an agency. The area I have moved to is absolutely terrible with money in strip clubs.
I knew that if I posted what happened that I would get those exact responses which is why I was embarrassed to post it months ago. I guess I was just so desperate for money and so in debt that I wasn't thinking straight.
I know that this job isn't for everyone but I thought the point of this site was to also help one another out not to make them feel bad for their questions because they are brand new to this area of work. I come on this site because I have no one to talk to about this part of my life who would ever support my decisions and I also look for guidance in this industry....I don't come here to be chewed away.
Aww sweetie, I hope nothing I said made you feel bad. I don't judge you at all. I was young once, and very awkward and shy. I was always too scared to speak up for myself and have been taken advantage of many times because of that. As stupid as this may sound, I was always afraid of hurting other peoples feelings too. How crazy is that? Me being afraid of hurting somebody's feelings, somebody that has one agenda and one agenda only: to take advantage of me or to use me in some way.
I know it seems like I'm screaming at you guys, with all of my exclaimation points, lol...I'm not screaming at anybody, I'm screaming at the situation I guess. It just makes me so damn mad that there are men out there willfully and purposely preying on young woman.
I also started at an agency, there is nothing wrong with that at all. Sometimes it's easier just to show up for work, make your money and go. It could be compared to camming in that regard. Alot of woman say be independant, those big box sites take too much of your money. So what? What if you don't feel like putting in 20hrs a week working behind the scenes? You log in, you make your money, and guess what? Your done for the day!
If you need help researching agencies in your area, I'd be more than happy to help you with that. Reputable companies are out there, you just have to find them. Please don't be afraid to seek advice here. Do you know how many girls you've helped just by posting your story online? Even if you had no responses, just by posting for others to see, other woman can read and relate, or learn what not to do. All because of one courageous young woman had the balls to come out with her story. That corageous young woman is you :-*
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I'm so sorry that this situation happened to you. Don't be ashamed for making a mistake , just be grateful that you're safe. Mistakes happen, people get desperate, sometimes they get taken advantage of. Just be sure to learn from this mistake.
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so true what a lot of girls said. The OP is obviously not cut out for this job and I'm sorry to be blunt but she could've used her common sense..
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The fact is the OP was taken advantage by a predatory asshole.
It happens in this business. BUT there is no sense in blaming the victim, ok?
Tiannax took a chance by posting here about her experience with an agency and several other girls shared their bad experiences as well. Let's support each other here in this forum, girls. Let's not berate each other and act high and mighty here.
I for one am really glad this thread was started, because it will be very helpful to other girls thinking about escorting.
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I'm glad the thread was started...but...
for a 15 minute appointment at a 75% cut she's only making $60 of that $80.
No one with a lick of common sense would sleep with someone for $60. Even if the manager hadn't asked her to blow him and even if the screening and advertising was legit the price is still a huge red flag. Even if you are brand new you should know that $60 is not enough to sleep with someone...even if the appointment is only 15 minutes.