Well ya, my question is usually something along the lines how would you like to play today, etc. More playful and teasing.
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I've noticed lately that my privates end on a round number of tokens...1000, 900, even 300. I think the guys are on a budget and cut off at their decided amount. I am getting more offline tips at the moment, with notes expressing appreciation. I wonder if guys don't keep large amounts in their accounts but tip offline when they top up.
My routine..
- "I am happy you are here, what would you like to do with me (today-> when its a regular)?" (I write down a lot of keyword used in past shows.. like words they used, and things they liked.. and look up their past shows, so I can ask if they want to do that again and to know their triggers ;) )
- Than I will do a striptease (will last 2-3 minutes) and talk all the way through it (first Ill be removing this bra, ohh its so hot in here, lets make it even hotter blabla etc.. telling them what I am doing at that moment and sometimes ill butter them up and tell them what I got in store for them later on in the show)
-removing tanktop
- first removing bra and playing with breasts and than nipples (still talking basically about what I am doing "oh look at my nipples they are getting hard for you etc etc, with anything I do)
- turning my butt to the cam and removing panty/string very slowly , keeping legs together, sliding them apart, bending over some more so they can see "everything"
- than comes the part I will turn around and lay back and they will see all of my body at the same time
I only do close up from bodyparts at the beginning, with a lot of times my face in the frame if possible, I really like the controll of the camera at the start and teasing them with only shoing them a little part at the time
I smile all the way through and use my honeyvoice
Keeps them in almost everytime and it will bring me at least 3 minutes
ofcourse there are the quicky guys, but they wont see much in my room if they dont stick aroudn long enough. Also I talk about what I am Going to do when doing my striptease (-> the thing they mentioned they would like to see) and I make it sound as delicious as possible ;)
I do a lot of turning around (showing front body first, than back of my body, and when I have to take my toy I will sit up again and take it- it will give them a nice look of youre body and it will bring you some extra seconds esp when you keep moving slowly
Slow movements are the key, and they are also very sexy to watch. Do everything slow and sexy, even moving youre hands
When it is a regular though I am quicker! =) they can get what they want, when they want it ;)
PS dont take out the toys unless they ask about it =), a lot of times guys are also happy with masturbation, if not they will mention what they want.
The more they will write, the more time they will spent wanking (hopefully ;), or they have mad skills)
When I am sick of touching myself, i bring up the toys myself (sometimes its nice to change it up, to let another part rest)
I dont ask a lot of questions, and I do what they ask immediatly BUT I do it slowly; I do talk about what I am going to do immediatly though which makes it seem less slow (because in their mind they can allready imagine it- and they know I will do it for them and heared their request) so I dirty talk beforehand I slowly/sexy (not to slow XD) get in position or take the tools requested and I do what I promised - and talk even more dirtier when doing it XD
I'm usually wearing something sexy and fetishy, so I pose and show off the outfit in a few positions. It's all some guys want anyway. I ask if they're horny (of course they are) if their cock is hard for me, if they want to turn on their cam, if they'd like me to take off this or that. I ask what they're in the mood for. Sometime I suggest things if they're indecisive. I have no problem stripping and spreading in the first couple of minutes. Playing with my clit is no skin off my back.
Great thread!
Wow, I find this thread very interesting/helpful. I always thought that if I didn't get undressed immediately they would lose interest. I always ask them what they want me to do and wait for a reply but usually that's "get naked." I have had a few guys who just want to chat so I always ask and with the talking guys I'm always genuinely pleased :) But I always can't help but think after a session is over that I sped through it too quickly. I "cum" way to fast also. I think I need to get a stopwatch and make sure that I don't cum too fast haha.
What do you ladies do/say while your going at it? I feel like if I'm into what I'm doing and not interacting a bit there's no difference between watching me or watching free porn. I'm at a loss.
I had one guy who put a sour taste in my mouth about not getting undressed fast enough. He bought a session when I first started and came back a couple months ago and was like "can you be naked right when we start because last time you took FOREVERRRRR" and I'm like "Really? I was undressed within the first 30 seconds" He only spent 3 minutes with me the first time so I just banned him.
^^^What smaddy said. I started out feeling like I had to get naked right away to keep them interested. I've started doing slower strips lately and hot damn has it paid off! I figure if the guy loses interest or gets bitchy because I'm not moving fast enough, he wasn't gonna stay to watch me cum anyway. At least he saw less for being a cheap ass! My regs stay for strips and play time. The rest can fuck right off.
I tend to do the standard message of 'hey fav and rate me for later!' then ask if they wanna do c2c. If they do and send a c2c request, I have 15 seconds to accept on SM, so I wait like 10. Burning that free 30 seconds and all. Haha. Then I'll stand back and show off a bit after I've moved my cam into full body, dancing position and ask what they wanna see me take off first. Follow up with a tease strip (usually bra first) and lots of playing with that part + cam close ups. After that, I'll do a tease with my panties on, pull at them a bit and dance, slowly take them off, bend over far enough to play with myself a bit, then spin around to do some pussy teasing. That'll burn like 3-4 minutes easily. Then they get to pick toys/fingers/positions/etc. Most are so wound up over how 'prefect bb!' I am that they get distracted from me doing any real work! Suckers....
It's a 'delicate' dance between custies and me during the prvt/exclusive.
I can get away with asking them if they can see me ok, or if I should speak, or type, telling them they can do c2c, or phone, but anything past that can go either way.
Since, for me, showing too much skin, or vag too soon, can result in them getting off, and logging off... I try to do things, such as ask what kind of show they would like, etc.
A lot of guys say... "gag, deep throat, suck my dick, fuck w/dildo, show ass, and spread it", etc.
If I don't do it fairly quickly, they either bark "Do it NOW!!, or log off and rate a #1.
I do mostly role play, and domme prvts., so I'm just referring to my other vanilla custies, who make up maybe 30% of my prvts.
Does anyone have a nice stopwatch clock? I have been using Countdown Timer, but it crashes sometimes. Also, closing the browser by accident. haha. So, I am looking for a nice and simple stopwatch that is easy to use for 30 sec guys. I found couple I liked from Amazon , but apparently both have sounds that cannot be turned off. I do not want the guys to know I am using the timer!
So.. any of you have one that can be used without the sounds?
I just use this one http://www.online-stopwatch.com set it to full screen, and resize the browser window small under my encoder. Works great!
I searched the forum and finally found a post that tipped off about a software. I really like this software. It can force to stay on top of all browsers or applications. :D
http://dan.hersam.com/software/snaptimer/
This software's icon is pinned onto the taskbar for an easier and faster access.