Crazy Bitch Trying To Ruin Me - Escorting
I was brought into escorting about a month and a half ago , as it had always been of some interest to me and of course because of the money , I travel to a larger city everyday , I am completely indy , will always remain that way but at the start was befriended by another escort who had been a friend of a friend in my hometown , she was very very helpful , mentored me in a way and I am now a highly reviewed escort of mid range in the city in which I am located , I am happy with my decision , I love what I do ....;D
Apparently i'm not supposed to be >:( the other girl , who is also reviewed and has been in the biz for about 10 years is overweight , drug addicted , not attractive and basically the polar opposite of me ... dammit man . I sensed the problems brewing during a duo session of ours and distanced myself from her after clients have told me she's nuts I am able to now confirm this , she has threatened me , my car window were busted out last week she sent me txt telling me that her sister works for children services in the county in which I live , I check into my hotel this morning and was informed by staff that she had reported me being a madam to underage girls , I am NOBODYS madam in fact she is the only other escort I personally even know . I was able to show them crazy ass txts she's sent me and I was able to book my room but in a suite on the 2nd floor as opposed to the 1st floor jacuzzi suite I normally occupy . This chick has called other hotels and made reports of me , is well known on review boards also known for running her competition away via scare tactics applied to both the girl and the client.
What the fuck ???? I dunno what to do.. I NEED my income right now , and I know nobody around here except for the hotel staff who look out for me greatly , give me an awesome rate , report any weird shit , my location is awesome , I would be afraid to go somewhere else . I am very under the radar here , problem is Psycho Bitch is on the first floor , I've never done anything to her except for be better than what she is , it shows in my reviews , it shows in my rate , and it shows in the fact that i'm not drugged up and crazy , my being just truly bothers the fuck outta her . I am truly at a loss here , I do not know how to handle this . any help is greatly appreciated .
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:O Have you filed a restraining order? Do you have her legal name? Normally I would say ignore it because the majority of people who make threats rarely follow through (if you're going to destroy me, why give me a heads up?), but it looks like this person isn't playing with a full deck. Take this to the police before she destroys any more of your property.
ETA: Find another place to work out of until this all blows over. I know it's hard since you've become attached to this hotel so to speak, but you'll feel a lot safer.
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agreed. let your clients know what's up, and then go tour. Consider changing your working name and photos so when you show up on the common boards she doesn't bad mouth you or post fake negative reviews.
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Thank you Fiendish and touring would be ideal except for that I have 2 small children , my business is treated exactly as that I drive 45 min to the town in which I work I am there promptly by 9 and I am gone by 6 . Home for dinner @ 7:30 . This is the closest big city . I need a about $4,000 by the end of this month and this bullshit couldn't have come at a worse time . This sucks .
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I'm sorry to hear you having trouble with this girl. Some people are just such haters, hate life, and love drama. Just remember Karma is a bitch. She will not win in the end. Her evil will be her own undoing!
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Wait-- you're in San Diego-- is she on the san diego board?
Why not go to the meet and greets Tues and Thurs and try to get business there?
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If she admitted to damaging your property in texts, that evidence could be taken to the police. You'll have to decide first if it will discourage her, or just make her focus more on you...
Definitely move to another location. Can you do outcalls with any of your regulars? Sorry to hear about this 'suckiness' in your life, you sound like you've got it together, though.
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You may have to stop using hotels for a while. Maybe get a short term apt sublet? You should not be using the same hotels for too long anyhow.
If she is already known on the boards as being nuts, there's no reason your biz should suffer (as far as new clients go). You may also let it be known you no longer work with her. If anyone asks why tell them it was a mutual decision or "Gee, I haven't heard from her in so long! Just lost track of her."
Get that restraining order.
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Calling the cops is the stupidest thing you could possibly do. You are a criminal and the cops know it, regardless of how many clever acronyms you use.
If you were "brought into escorting" then you haven't been independent the entire time. Start being independent now and distance yourself from this woman. Don't broadcast all your info all over the net and she won't be able to figure out which exact hotel you're staying at.
Don't answer her calls, don't respond to her emails. She isn't going to turn you in to anybody because she's a criminal too. Even if she did call somebody, she's just the crack dealer bitching about her stolen crack. Remember that and use it to your advantage.
Other escorts are not your friends. Hobbyists are not your friends. Review boards are not your friends. This is a nasty, cut throat business. Post your ads, shut your mouth, and keep yourself several feet above the nasty, crack-head drama. Good luck.
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Thank you guys for all of the advice @Marvelgirl when I say "brought into escorting " , it was meant to say , more like what decisions of my own lead to this point , what got me here , like I said I don't even personally know anyone else in the biz .
I haven't responded to any of her txts , actually I use an app on my phone that prevents them to going directly to me , one of the last ones I did get was about how much she loved me :O. I guess I worry so much because she is well known and I have witnessed her placing clients on National Blacklist and such , for no fuckin reason other than they don't kiss her fat ass , she even has a blog ( I would post the link but she googles herself every 5 min . and I don't want this to pop up ) that "outs" girls for using fake pics , bad business etc... and knowing what I know now I'm guessing a lot of these girls probably just pissed her off and now have a bad name because this psycho can't stand anyone to be better than her .
thanks again you guys for the responses .
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Originally Posted by
MarvelGirl
Calling the cops is the stupidest thing you could possibly do. You are a criminal and the cops know it, regardless of how many clever acronyms you use.
If you were "brought into escorting" then you haven't been independent the entire time. Start being independent now and distance yourself from this woman. Don't broadcast all your info all over the net and she won't be able to figure out which exact hotel you're staying at.
Don't answer her calls, don't respond to her emails. She isn't going to turn you in to anybody because she's a criminal too. Even if she did call somebody, she's just the crack dealer bitching about her stolen crack. Remember that and use it to your advantage.
Other escorts are not your friends. Hobbyists are not your friends. Review boards are not your friends. This is a nasty, cut throat business. Post your ads, shut your mouth, and keep yourself several feet above the nasty, crack-head drama. Good luck.
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