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Lol, guys with this in their profile: "It's been a bad year for me, so try to cheer me up. Send me free samples or videos please." Been on the site for two years, no ratings. Are you joking? So I wrote him this: "It's been a bad year for me, too, so try to cheer me up. Send me contributions for samples and videos please." Maybe reading that will open his eyes to how RIDICULOUS it is to expect something for nothing just because boo hoo, life is so hard, wah wah wah :P
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hmmm. some guy viewed my profile recently. i looked at his and it said "Fill out my girlfriend app or I won't talk to you." Then had a link to an off site application. Is this a reportable thing?
EDIT: I have no interest in engaging with this dude ever.
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It seems like all the guys viewing my profile have their email or twitter or phone number in their profile. I don't know where they're coming from, but they're all reported and blocked. -_-
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is anyone else getting a TON of creeps lately? like all the messages i got in the past 2 weeks from new guys are just creepy as hell...i am thinking it's a new source of traffic? or maybe i am just attracting creeps this month..idk lol
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So far this morning I have blocked 3-4 guys that have profile lurked between 4-6 times in the last few days, multiple times a day. WHY DO THEY NEVER SAY HELLO. It drives me crazy because I know they're sitting there jerking off to my photos or video descriptions or some shit.
Going to have to go through my photos and delete anything that might be attracting these lurkers...like, if you have 15+ reviews, and have been on the site for a year+, you KNOW how to contact the model. FFS.
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Any advice on how to keep profiles short and sweet? I have all my content listed and it's already a mile long. I'm thinking I should just "unadvertise" the older vids, then remake them when I get my new cam?
And I wanted to add a "longing list". Sort of like "Hey I work at an adult store and get a great discount. Contribute $$$ and I'll be able to buy cute lingerie to wear in a custom video. Contribute $$$ so I can buy an Hitachi" - that kind of thing, but I can see my profile getting even longer and that's the opposite of what I want to do. >_<
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Yeah my profile is SUUUUPER long. But, I don't actually have a lot of videos compared to other cam girls. Mostly it's long because I have photos embeded to give a sample image of what the video looks like.
You could always unlist obscure fetishes / customs and just write: "I also have unlisted videos involving the following: _____, _______, _________," etc.
That way it's short and sweet, lets them know you might have a fetish / theme of video they are looking for, but you don't need to list all of them, etc.
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Thanks! I forgot about that... I suppose that's a good way to get people to actually ask about your content, rather than just lurk -_-
Right now it's at the point where I have two, three hours of work ahead of me and every fiber in my body is going NOPE, NO.. NOPEEEEEEE.
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YEEEEAH. I feel the same way. 4 days of the site being slower than a snail for me...just glitching like crazy. Can't upload any videos...takes forever to log in. Can't edit my profile.
Blarghghghg
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I'm gonna change up my profile/verbiage/content listings just to freshen up. I've actually learned some things I am pretty fucking GREAT at that I had no idea I'd even be into!!!! Gotta add those to my list.
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What is up with the guys who have difficult to understand profiles ("Hi. I'm here to meeusome sexy ass woman :)!! once yqu try you try it again") and then claim they speak English?
Don't get me wrong, I can understand if someone doesn't want to list their other languages. But I'm also a mod on OkCupid and that shit's a huge red flag to us. It's scammer grammar, and it makes me extremely uncomfortable.
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I'll message you about that ^
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I know I keep mentioning this but: UPDATE RE: THE MGF GROUP - still waiting to hear back from SassyPickles if she is okay with letting someone else take over.
Remind me who we decided on as moderator? How much longer should we hold off before I message SW to make the switch?
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Hello all.
I follow the MGF twitter, and they recently posted a link to remind of the social media rules and such. I'm just copy/pasting here as a refresher for us all for good measure.
"MyGirlFund provides you with the option to host your profile photos onsite, but there are a few instances that make hosting your profile media on the cloud logical despite this.
For instance, GIF’s. Currently MGF doesn’t allow GIF’s to be uploaded, only JPG’s. So if you want to host GIF’s you are limited to finding a secure way to host your photos offsite.
Another reason to host your photos in the cloud, is the enhanced media management options found with many cloud services. It’s great to be able to keep track of your prfofile media in a more visual way, and have on/off sharing options, as well as being able to track the number of times your picture has been seen.
The most important thing to remember is to keep your links anonymous. MGF takes your privacy very seriously. Non-anonymous links will get your profile called into review. If you receive an email telling you that your links are leaky, then you know what to do. Delete the media immediately, and host the image or GIF somewhere anonymous.
Here are a few helpful do’s and don’ts for hosting your media offsite in a way that offers you a great deal of control, and at the same time is completely compliant with MGF rules.
We will start with what NOT to do.
A good rule of thumb as to what is not allowed, is if it’s one of your other social networks DO NOT host your MGF profile photos there. This is generally considered to be unsafe, and not compliant with MyGirlFund’s well thought out privacy policies. Your privacy is paramount, and MGF can’t control what personally identifying info you may have elsewhere. For this reason, if you are using an image host, specifically stay away from Photobucket. Some other examples of sites to avoid hosting on are Facebook, Tumblr, Flickr, Myspace, etc."
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Okay so I did two 10 minute/$2 a minute shows back to back for the same guy. Should have been $40 right? I only got $4? What did I do wrong??!
okay or fuck. did I put that the price was $2 for 10 minutes? i'm about to seriously die.
Edit: Can I message support, or just hope the guy realizes I'm an idiot and takes pity on me.
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I don't understand why guys will add me to their friends list, check out my profile, and then never talk to me.
I clear out my friends list, then they re-add me.
BUT, the kicker is - I send a message, telling them that they should come chat with me because I saw they have re-added me to their list AGAIN, but they DON'T. Like, why not send a live chat?
I messaged someone and basically said the above, and instead of him messaging or chatting me, he removed me from his friends list. Like, okay, you're literally going to get MAD because I WANT you to talk to me?
:banghead:
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Originally Posted by
heraax
Okay so I did two 10 minute/$2 a minute shows back to back for the same guy. Should have been $40 right? I only got $4? What did I do wrong??!
okay or fuck. did I put that the price was $2 for 10 minutes? i'm about to seriously die.
Edit: Can I message support, or just hope the guy realizes I'm an idiot and takes pity on me.
Yeah. this is something I know has confused girls before, you are not the first one so don't feel bad. When you enter the information for the live chat request you have to put in the total amount for the show, NOT the per minute rate. I honestly think that guy was a DICK for not pointing out this error to you. He's scammed you already so is not likely to do the right thing now; I would message support. They may or may not take the credits from his account to give to you but it's worth a try. I would also message the guy as well and state that you are new to MGF's camming platform and made an error with billing so can he please contribute the remaining credits that he owes you as per the rate that you discussed for the shows that you performed. Since he did contribute $4 you can also go in and rate him a 1 star explaining what happened and tell him you will change the rating to a 5 once he pays the balance. If he tries to give you a 1 star retaliation rating support *should* delete it because it's unwarranted, where as your rating of him is warranted/accurate. I hope you get your money!!! My main site has chargebacks so I know exactly how shitty it feels to perform a full show and then not get paid for it :(
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I did email support: "Hi, We are sorry to hear you had a bad experience with one of our members. Unfortunately, there is not much we can do in this situation. It is our policy to not mediate member interactions or disputes. Have a great day."
Typical. I asked THREE questions in my email. Did they answer a single one? Nope.
Edit: And I don't think he's logged in since I sent him a message, so I'm not going to give him a bad rating just yet. I really don't think he meant to scam me. I've worked with him before. So I gave him the option of sending me the $36, I'll go buy a toy that I want with that money, and he'll get a free 5 minute video with the toy. Sounds fair to me since it was me who made the mistake and not him.
But if he ignores me ... =(
True or false: When you block a guy, your rating disappears.
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heraax
I did email support: "Hi, We are sorry to hear you had a bad experience with one of our members. Unfortunately, there is not much we can do in this situation. It is our policy to not mediate member interactions or disputes. Have a great day."
Typical. I asked THREE questions in my email. Did they answer a single one? Nope.
Edit: And I don't think he's logged in since I sent him a message, so I'm not going to give him a bad rating just yet. I really don't think he meant to scam me. I've worked with him before. So I gave him the option of sending me the $36, I'll go buy a toy that I want with that money, and he'll get a free 5 minute video with the toy. Sounds fair to me since it was me who made the mistake and not him.
But if he ignores me ... =(
True or false: When you block a guy, your rating disappears.
Yes, blocking will remove your rating.
Id see what he says, he might pay you what he owes. But, most guys just block a girl if he finds out he got a free show, more vids and pics than he paid for, girl sent content before he paid etc.
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can guys send random contribution amounts? or only premiums?
i had a few guys send me the exact amount for a video, but i have had a few over pay by a few dollars so its like in increments of 5,10,15,20,25,30, etc.
is everyone not able to send the exact amount?
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h0ttie
can guys send random contribution amounts? or only premiums?
i had a few guys send me the exact amount for a video, but i have had a few over pay by a few dollars so its like in increments of 5,10,15,20,25,30, etc.
is everyone not able to send the exact amount?
Well, credits cost more money on the dollar than if you were a premium member, but that doesn't effect the ability to give specific amounts. Sometimes guys will round up as an extra tip, like give you $20 instead of $15 for a video.
I believe they are just tipping you!
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Ugh it's just a waiting game because he hasn't logged on.
I'm all about learning from your mistakes, but not this way. -_-
And Hottie - I've had guys not be able to send certain amounts, and I don't know why. If I have a video that was $8, they said they couldn't figure it out, so sent $10, and I threw in some pics for the extra $2 (not a lot though, just enough to make it better, ya know?)
Then I've had some guys able to send weird amounts like $8, or $34. Not increments of 5. So maybe some guys know the secret and some guys don't.
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So there's a guy in the contests promising $100 for every custom video you send him, the dirtier the better, has to be nude, has to be custom. I checked out his profile and I just can't believe it's true. idk. Can anyone verify? Or should we block and move on?
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I'd block and move on. Sounds like BS. If he really had that much money to blow he'd be commissioning customs from girls directly.
So this just happened. First time I've truly felt disrespected by a member in quite a while:
For the past 2 weeks or so I have been exchanging messages with someone on there. He sent one $5 contribution as a tip (which was part of our role play), and $97 in messages. These messages have all been taboo underage incest role play. Each of my replies to his messages have been 1-2 paragraphs of very sexually explicit erotica. Every one.
So we were going back and forth tonight and out of nowhere I get this message from him: "Send me your daddy daughter rolplay video part 2 . For all I've done for youyou" and of course he did not contribute for the video.
Um, excuse me?
How would you all have handled that?
I ended up sending the video because I don't want to lose the guaranteed few bucks I make off him every day but replied with this:
"For all you have done for me?
While I do appreciate you exchanging so many messages with me, I have given a long, thoughtful reply to every one of them. Not just any reply, but explicit taboo role play fantasies designed to make you horny and fulfill your sexual fantasies. Just as you have done something for me, I have done something of equal value for you.
I sent you the video because I am in a good mood tonight and honestly don't want to risk a bad rating, but please do not ever ask me for free content again. It makes me feel uncomfortable and quite frankly, I've already given you exactly what you have paid for with your messages."
Was that too harsh? Not harsh enough? I just thought that was SO RUDE of him. Come on now.