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Laughing at the New Girl
We've all been there. But last night was pretty cruel. But not so bad because the FNG probably laughed all the way to the bank, too.
So yeah, brand spankin' new girl gets up on stage and dances, the other dancers are lined up at the bar rooting and howling and laughing their asses off. She was dancing terribly and I was out on the floor with another dancer cringing and feeling embarrassed for her. But she tried real, real hard and guys for the first time in the whole night got up and made it rain.
Oh and if you're curious, she was on all fours shaking it so hard in that way that reminds you of the first time you saw your dogs 'doing the dirty', you know like humping really hard and everything shook, not just her butt. I figure she burned a couple thousand calories while up there. I know when I was new my legs jittered like crazy and I probably looked a fool, too. But it was like a damn zoo where the other dancers were lined up howling and cheering her on. The girl left the stage looking pleased with herself so I don't think she realized the other girls were just being bitches........
So yeah, I'm sure you guys have seen this happen, right?
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I've never seen that happen.... I was always too busy dancing or in VIP all night to sit there and laugh at another girl. That's really rude.
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Damn. No, I've never seen that happen. I've never seen a new girl look totally natural onstage, and yeah, some are just... awful. But, with the exception of one girl, I always saw them improve quickly. Crowding the stage to jeer at the new girl is just.... damn. Don't these girls have better things to do - you know, like, talk to customers and try to make money?
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Wow, thats mean but thats life. It happens at my club but its silent laughter, or staring laughs. Every club I worked at, dancers would play attention to the new girls on stage and watch her silently.
Im sure people laughed at me while I was on stage, some even do now probably - but I dont care. Im there for money and customers not bitches who laugh, it happens, in the end we all need some entertainment on our boring hours.
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i never seen that happen and i don't join in if the customers are saying rude things about whoever's on stage. the closest i've come is when a dancer was wearing glasses on stage and the strobe lights were glaring off them and...god that was a fucking mess.
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It's rude when other dancers laugh. I've seen many "dancers" who shouldn't have been on stage and never laughed at them. I thought of it a few times, but I remember when I was new and how nervous I was. Because I've had dancers be kind to me, I've always tried to be kind to new girls, unless they were bitches.
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Well I don't laugh at them either. I cringe, like, inside I want to help but I know it won't play out like I'm thinking it will. I'll probably just piss her off.
Regardless weather these girls were laughing at her on not, she made more on stage than any of us had that whole night....
Matter of fact the girl I was sitting with was saying she used to dance like that, too. I agree that most people are awkward on stage at first. I would hate to see what I looked like up there... but I also wouldn't have liked to have had all that jeering thrown at me (just the money lol).
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It's funny how guys tend to not notice how ridiculous a new girl's dancing skills or lack thereof are.... that's something we as dancers notice, but not so much the customers....
At least she felt good about herself, I'm sure somebody will say something to her though soon...
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I would be cringing on the inside but would never mock a new girl. We've all been there, and we're both at the club for the same reason. I hate when older dancers act like there's some type of stripper aristocracy. Everyone deserves respect, not just the older dancers. I mean, shit, congrats, you're going on 15 years of taking your clothes off for money...:worship:
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We all started somewhere....
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I've never laughed. I've cringed and felt bad. I've never seen girls laugh at my club, but yea I've heard them talk shit. And I'll admit to talking too, but outside the club with friends. We get some nasty girls auditioning at my club.
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That's just nasty. It's hard enough to get up on stage in your underwear on your first shift, let alone doing it when lots of gorgeous looking, flawless professionals laughing to themselves. Just like everything else though I'm sure karma will eventually teach these people a lesson.
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I've seen similar things happen and I've been that person, too. No one's laughed at me, but plenty of girls have given me "kind advice" which, although not entirely cruel, is still embarrassing.
I hate the way experienced dancers treat newbies. I switch clubs a lot, so I'm always catching heat from the girls who have been there for a while. Well, guess what, honey...if you were on top of your game, you wouldn't have to worry about the new girl. I say if she's making her money, then that's all that matters. The dancing will come with time.
However, I also know a girl exactly like this...when she tries to pop her booty, she looks like she's convulsing and she makes weird faces. She knows one very basic pole trick, which she performs over and over and over. She's also not a very friendly girl and even tried to call out bullshit on "bitches who can't dance but bank." Riiiiight....
Anyway, we all make fun of her because she's just making an ass out of herself, especially when she tries to talk shit about the rest of us. Just for the sake of being a decent human being though, I do not talk about her with cuwtomers. My custy told her he'd tip her more if she lost some pudge and I told him what a dick move it was. I don't want to be the humiliated so I won't let my customers humiliate other girls.
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Good for her she made money. If customers liked it that's all that matters the other girls aren't paying her bills
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I snap at the girls that make fun of other girls. I've been there a looong time so I will remind them how much of a moron they looked like up there their first times.
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I'm not gonna lie, I would chuckle to myself if I glanced at something like that. I wouldn't make it obvious though. I keep it classy.
What those girls did was rude and immature. I hate girls. THey're so fkn immature. Worry about you and your money!
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That's so ridiculous- everyone looks awkward for their first few stage sets. And some never grow out of it. There's no point in being openly rude to another dancer.
We had a new girl start this week and her stage was about as expected- but I got my table to give me some money and went and tipped her. Later on during the night one of her custies wants a two girl show... who does she come find?
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When I was working at that dive in Virginia Beach, earlier this year a new girl came to work over there. Another older dancer and I were commenting her lack of "assets" and how bad she danced. Later on, I started to get friendlier with her, and I apologize about saying those things.
But is also kinda funny when you're new in a club and most people expect you to dance really bad, but ended up dancing good; some people just doesn't seem to realize that a new girl is not always new to stripping.
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I'm gonna be honest I laugh where she obviously can't see me Im sorry if its inappropriate but there is no denying its funny, not mean. But some new girls never learn how to dance so it loses its appeal. IV tried giving pointers or little before work help outs, and it doesn't make a lick of difference. If she can't shake her ass like a human by weeks end its never going to happen.
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I think she has done this before. ;)
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Update: Apparently someone tried to tell her something about it and she got all bitchy. I've been informed she has quite an attitude. I was talking to some of the girls last night and I'm pretty neutral with everyone, but I told them they were being bitches for laughing at her, to which someone responded on we were laughing at her again today and then told me the whole story about someone trying to help and her getting all snappy about it.
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I sometimes say to other girls WHO I TRUST "she's a trainwreck" on stage but I would never mock a girl or laugh in her face. There's one girl right now who is amazingly bad and stupid looking on stage but I always smile when she looks at me and would NEVER say anything about it to a customer. I don't want to be made look like a catty bitch and cut guys off if they start talking shit about other girls.
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lokikola
Update: Apparently someone tried to tell her something about it and she got all bitchy. I've been informed she has quite an attitude. I was talking to some of the girls last night and I'm pretty neutral with everyone, but I told them they were being bitches for laughing at her, to which someone responded on we were laughing at her again today and then told me the whole story about someone trying to help and her getting all snappy about it.
That sucks. I realize nobody's in this job to make friends, and it's not sunshine happy everyone is nice rainbow place, but is it really so difficult to just be civil?
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Originally Posted by
lokikola
Update: Apparently someone tried to tell her something about it and she got all bitchy. I've been informed she has quite an attitude. I was talking to some of the girls last night and I'm pretty neutral with everyone, but I told them they were being bitches for laughing at her, to which someone responded on we were laughing at her again today and then told me the whole story about someone trying to help and her getting all snappy about it.
I'd probably get defensive too! Is the girls that said something to her, nice girls?? Because if someone walked up to me on one of my first nights and said something like "You look like an asshole onstage, let me show you how a real stripper dances..", then I'd probably be snappy too. Especially after seeing/ hearing all the girls laugh at me.
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kaiarose
I'd probably get defensive too! Is the girls that said something to her, nice girls?? Because if someone walked up to me on one of my first nights and said something like "You look like an asshole onstage, let me show you how a real stripper dances..", then I'd probably be snappy too. Especially after seeing/ hearing all the girls laugh at me.
Right. After my first few times onstage, I had another girl in the DR (when no one else was around) say "Hey, babe, when you're onstage, you shake your ass like this, but you really want to do it like this." And gave me a demonstration and told me why it looked better. I was slightly put-off even by that, but I said thank you and quickly realized her advice was really helpful. But yeah, if another girl was snobby about it, I would've been pissy. It all depends on how the advice is given.