Stupid fucktard just tried to blackmail me!
I have AW IM on and phone, but no cam as I don't fancy it tonight (plus i just had a spray tan!). So this guy comes in and starts begging me to cam. I said no baby only IM and phones. Why don't you call me for a dirty chat, and keep changing subject. He keeps on going back to it till he finally says guess what? I'm like what? he says the .co.uk version of my website is still available, and i'm like yeah so what... he says unless i cam with him now he's gonna buy it. figuring he's just bluffing i say go right ahead and change the subject. Then he asks when i'm camming next so i say tomorrow from about 9 or after 2am on SM. He says oh well i'll wait to watch you free on SM... i said urr you can't watch for free silly, well you can but it isn't very interesting as i'm fully clothed and you only get to chat with me. He says oh well i've figured out a few ways of seeing it all for free.
Now girls, this is only the SECOND person I've ever booted from my room but after that i couldn't help it. Stupid fucktard! I'm now in the process of buying the .co.uk version of my site just in case. GOD I'M SO ANGRY!!!!!!!! I never get these idiot guys usually. Beggars sure, but never nasty or mean ones.. my demeanour just doesn't invite that normally. I'm putting it down to my twitter :(
Anyway, for anyone who is interested the guy is called saucylad2011>:(
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I'm so sorry you had to put up with that I'm so fucking angry for you right now! >:(
What a fuckwad rapist mentality (cause that IS what it is, trying to get sexual favours under cohersion). You should report this abuse if you haven't already, too!
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I'm trying to find his profile or something about him somewhere. Can't find anything about him and I already left feedback (negative) so can't get onto his profile grrr.
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There is no way to complain on AW it seems. Just been all through the help and no mention of it.
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That sucks! Well, if you want me to access his profile and pm you anything I find, just say the word
Ach, edited to say it seems you can't look up members in search? I'm new to AW
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Not only is he a fucktard but he leads a sad, and pathetic life. To take time to harass and threaten you must be the highlight of his very existence. I would not worry about him. He is just a loser troll, and will die out soon. Plus the negative feedback you left, will warn other girls, so they know what to do.
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I don't get it though. I just read back through the conversation and honestly it's like he was set on pissing me off before he even came into my room. I mean, if he wanted to cam and i didn't then my loss, why didn't he just move on to another girl? It's like he had something against me :(
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MissKatie
I don't get it though. I just read back through the conversation and honestly it's like he was set on pissing me off before he even came into my room. I mean, if he wanted to cam and i didn't then my loss, why didn't he just move on to another girl? It's like he had something against me :(
Some men go to cam sites just to harass us. Some of them hate us because of what we do. He likely had no intention of even having a normal good time with you. Just like some men will do a show with you, stay a while, have a good time, then rate you 1 star, and leave bad feedback. Some are just mean on purpose.
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MissKatie
I don't get it though. I just read back through the conversation and honestly it's like he was set on pissing me off before he even came into my room. I mean, if he wanted to cam and i didn't then my loss, why didn't he just move on to another girl? It's like he had something against me :(
Well that's exactly what some men-lings (lets not call them real men...) thrive on! Nothing personal, don't think about it that way - some just get their kicks out of bullying, because they have inferiority issues with women (and lets face it, discomfort is probably the only thing they can make women feel for them...)
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what the hell is wrong with this asshole!! good god, he must have no life outside of harassing women who are just trying to make a living. sorry you had to deal with that & i hope he doesn't bother you again.
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Email AW his username. They will likely ban him.
I've had a couple of assholes I complained about banned.
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oh miss im so sorry that you had to put up with this dickhead...... unfortunately this is how some get their kkicks.....
you should think about the fact that said dickhead would never in a million years have the balls to say this to your face and instead has to hide behind a keyboard ...
i hope you dont encounter this tard again but if you do .................................................. ......
unleash ya inner biatch ;)
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Some men just hate women. It's pure and simple misogyny. They think they can treat women who are openly comfortable with the sexuality as lesser beings because at times society can treat adult industry workers as though we are somehow lesser beings. They try to dehumanise us so in their mind they can shit all over us, harrass us, abuse us, because we are adult industry workers. We deserve it!
There is a virgin/whore dichotomy in this world in which there are no winners. The man who tried to black mail you thinks that because you dare to show your naked body for a living that somehow he now has full rights to that body. As SybilVain said it is a rapist mentality, because as soon as he doesnt receive what he wants he treats you like a piece of shit and tries to coerce you and extort you. He is an awful, misogynistic being, but fortunately his threats are more than likely empty. He is just trying to fuck with your head.
Hold your head up high, shake off his disgusting attempts to hurt you and remember that you are something special and he is a piece of shit. No one would pay him for his time, personality or looks the way they do for you. You are awesome and he is nothing. Well done for leaving feed back and like laurielegs said just email his username to the site, and they should take care of him. They have a responsibility to deal with abusive members.
This kind of thing gets me really riled up. Grrrr
Hope you're well hun.
London
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Email AW his username. They will likely ban him.
I've had a couple of assholes I complained about banned.
Hey Laurie, I just tried that and they just sent back an automated email pointing me towards the part in the help section about abusive members, which basically states there is nothing they can do and I just need to block him from emailing me. Thanks AW, thanks.