How do you all get guys to take you private on MFC
I'm pretty new, maybe a week or 2 old on MFC, and I've only been taken private a few times. I have about 15 or 20 regs, that rarely tip and I've asked them and suggested many times to go pvt with me, they all say it's to expensive. I know I need to give it time and I'm still new and I need to build up a bigger fan base I just am so lost on how to get guys to go pvt with me. When I worked for SM I had people going private all the time, but after reading some of the threads on here it sounds like i made a good choice by leaving them.
Any tips, suggestions, help, advise?!
It would be much appreciated!
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Re: How do you all get guys to take you private on MFC
Guys who don't spend a decent amount regularly on you are not "regs". They're just cheapasses taking advantage of your attention. Don't pay so much attention to those freeloaders. They are taking advantage of your newness and inexperience. Be more friendly to those who DO spend, and point out that you appreciate the guys who show their appreciation for you and what you do. You don't have to be bitchy about it, but you do need to show that those who give you what you want are more likely to get what they want. I like to say that a happy woman makes a happy man :P
Make yourself valuable. YOU are valuable! One of the most important things in selling yourself is to understand your worth - that you ARE valuable. That your time is valuable. When you realize that, you project that, then others will see it and be more inclined to spend on you.
Don't give away everything in free or group chat - make up your rules on what you will and won't do at all, what you will only do in private, what you will only do in group, what you will do in free when people are tipping. Stick with it. Let people know that your free room is for A, that your group room is for B, and your private room is for C - if they want B or C they will have to take you to group or private, simple as that. The freeloading assholes will begin to fade out while those who are serious will begin to appear.
Mute guests and basic members in your room. They may still watch you in free but that doesn't mean they get any of your attention :)
Make the guys understand that it's YOUR room, that YOU are in charge, and if they don't like it, they are free to go elsewhere. You can do this while still being nice. Panda_Rawr is fucking great at this. I highly recommend watching her for some time, seeing how she politely but firmly handles rude/cheap assholes - she is in total control of her room but she is always friendly and nice. She has also built a clientele of fans who appreciate her and who take up for her when some idiot tries to be rude. There is a reason this chic is currently Miss MFC without getting naked and it isn't all about her looks.
Whew. I think I just realized I'm a pandafan. LOL :D
Re: How do you all get guys to take you private on MFC
I too have had only a few guys go private on MFC. It's mainly during the day though and never at night.
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Its a hard hustle to get privates and although I do like selling time blocks in skype (because I'm guaranteed they're paying for a minimum amount of minutes) 90% just want to pay a ridiculous amount... I'm not going to give a show for 1$ a minute, no way.
This is about 2 things: 1. cheapskates will quite simply try to get everything for free, hey its the internet, everything should be free, amirite? 2. MFC allows way too many "discounts", there's too much going on in free and there are to many offsite shows for pennies being offered.
And yet, just because its a hard hustle its not impossible. They clearly want *you*, and you have to play that up cause after all, you're a high maintenance girl and you deserve it ;) Its not too expensive because they're getting YOU. Think like that and it'll show through.
Cheapasses will move on and stop wasting your time, customers will appreciate your value.
Edited to add, 1$ for MFC, I'd be getting... 50 cents - suuuuure buddies!
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I don't, I gave up on that site a long time ago lol. All beggars unless you are patient enough to hang around until you (maybe) crack it :D
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I've been a premium member on MFC for a couple of months and have seen how the guests and basics get free shows when a girl does it all in public.
I had my first day and night as a model yesterday and had a private within ten minutes of my first session and several groups in the evening. I won't "perform" in public...I'll tease and tantalise so the guys want more but they have to pay for that.
Having said that. MFC was freezing badly last night and a few group shows had to be aborted and the guys kept trying again and again but after 30 seconds to a minute (of taking their tokens) it would freeze and they didn't get the show they were hoping for, so I set a target in tips and said as a big thank you for their patience I would do more in public than they will ever get again! Even then, I didn't do a full show.
Treat them mean to keep them keen (or something like that!)
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Yup. Guests and basics are on that site every damn day, because they know that, at any given moment, they can find public chat rooms where a model is (or is about to be) doing a cum show. Also, you'll see a lot of guys (premiums who aren't tipping) saying "Wow, looks like I got here just in time!" *rolls eyes* In other words..."Wow, looks like I got here just in time to bust a nut to a cum show that my cheap ass didn't chip in for." LOL.
Kudos to the ladies who stick to their guns about saving the dildo play for group and private (so all viewers of the show have to PAY). Guests and basics who ask "How much for cum show?" need to shut up...lol. They don't have any tokens, so they need to stop pretending they're gonna "teeep you bb." LMAO. :P
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I get privates a lot. But I always reject them because the guy has less than 200 tokens! so make sure you check the guys token amount before accepting. If you do go private for that little... I wouldn't give a full show, wait till his tokens are running out before you get going and then he'll either add more or leave lol.
I think the best way to get a private on mfc is not to beg for one and sound desperate. But to write in your topic "sexy shows in private" or something. And then dance around sexily until someone can't take it no more.
Also I know what u mean by regulars that dont tip much. I have these too. They will tip me every now and then and always buy new videos/photos, but they don't give me 1000's of tokens a day. But they do chat to me and show up everyday. TBH Without those guys I think I would have died of boredom long ago. So even though they're not spoiling me rotton with cash it's always nice to appreciate them by saying hello and answering their random questions. Because if these guys stop coming in my room I know I would get sick of chatting to 'ass bb' people all day and I'd leave.
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I do the privates thing and, seriously, SuperByoch's advice is all you need. Read it ten times.
Understand that MFC has conditioned users to expect a good time in public, so it's not going to be as easy as working a site where everyone is goal-driven to go private and get off. It's much more social. You get a lot of beggars, though they're easy enough to mute, and you get a lot of guys who just want to hang out. Some of those guys might pay, some will never pay. They put in their $20 for premium status and will never add another dime.
SuperByoch is absolutely right that real regulars pay - the ones who don't are just hanging out. They're fanboys. They can be fine, even fun if they're cool, but if they're monopolizing your attention, you'll scare paying members away. Don't underestimate how valuable your attention is.
They're right about the expense, too. Privates are either $6/min or $8/min. That's expensive. Remind yourself of that. Not everyone can afford that rate or is willing to spend that much, so it means you'll either need to attract members who are willing to spend that much or excite the current members enough to force them to spend.
Also, remember that group is only $1/min. If you're having trouble drumming up interest in a paid session, push group and follow SyperByoch's advice. If they can't afford group, then... you need new fanboys.
^^^Rebecca: MFC was brutal last night. For me it crashed during three different privates. I could be having the best night in the world, but once it starts crashing, it's so demoralizing.
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When I did MFC for a month only (and then basically left, cause I cant really cam easily till I get another apartment and MFC isnt really my thing) I got unexpected privates, and all with non-regulars guys! (about 2 regulars were always voyeurs thou).
In free I only showed stuff for tips, but only 2 times I did full nude (one after a small countdown of stripping off a super tight dress without underwear and a guy took me private right after it).
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@Noa...good to know it wasn't just me. Last night was even worse so I turned it into a game in my room..we had countdowns to the next cam freeze or total crash!
Re non-payers in rooms, I find that if a room looks full, people room hopping are more likely to stay. But I think maybe we do have to accept we need to do more in public than we'd like...I'm still trying to get the right balance but don't want to go too far as it's hard to go backwards.
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I don't really understand people who have trouble getting privates...are you giving it all away in free chat (/ group)? or not interacting with customers enough for them to be interested? I usually have back to back privates when I'm on.
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I had a great night last night.
Ladies are right. If they won't do prvt then suggest group. Sometimes I spend an hour and half to 2 hours straight in group. Plus they tip when in group. Love it! Then some of those will turn into privates the next time I am on because they enjoyed group so much. But I do take me time and don't rush at all in group.
Have fun & make money Ladies,
Sam
Re: How do you all get guys to take you private on MFC
Yesterday, I did and "outside broadcast" which, because of its nature could only involve teasing. albeit pretty heavy. I had guys desperate to take me private but of course they couldn't. However, last night, those guys were in my room falling over backwards for me..and last night I had dreadful technical problems (now thankfully being sorted) and they were all still in my room waiting for me when I logged back in again and again.
Yesterday was only my third day and I already have a great fanbase. But I do put a lot of work into it all,which I do enjoy. I look at the offline prepping, blogging, emailing etc as work...being online and performing is what is what I do for fun.
You don't get something for nothing!