1st time cam tonite - observations + 1 or 2 questions
Hi ladies...
ok, so thanks again for even being here for me to reference and talk to. It is such a big help to my confidence and the slight isolation that is inevitable when I'm doing something I can't exactly chat about at the PTA meetings...(how great would THAT be though? I'm picturing their faces...)
Anyway, so I cammed tonight on SM for the first time and I have a couple of things I'm mulling over.
1. This is stupid fun! How on earth was I not doing it before??
2. I bought the Logitech 9000 -- and may actually write a thank you letter to them for how freakin good it makes my old ass look, lol. That said...I am now 10x as motivated to find a rowing maching and tone up my back and legs now that I will be staring at them all the time.
3. I am a natural exhibitionist, so please tell me how and when I ask a guy for $$ in private chat? Both of the guys I just went private with wanted to do cam2cam. I didn't ask them for $ even though I heard your voices firmly telling me I was supposed to. I just don't know how exactly to do it when they are already paying by the minute. I'm used to stripping, which was pretty much flat rate when I was doing it a few years back. I never had to ask for extra money on top of the dance fee, they just gave it to me.
4. If I am in private chat, do I just strip when they say so or is it still 'if you want my top off it will cost you'? I guess basically I'm trying to figure out how to maximize the private chat income in a sensible way.
I have a feeling I could make this work, and work well, which would be a good thing since it's a desperation move on my part due to the economy kicking my ass. I'm hoping you ladies can teach me how to maximize my earning potential without coming off like a complete harpie and having them leave my private chat. I plan on camming every spare minute that I can, but I'd like to work smart not just work hard.
Many thanks in advance to anyone who chooses to chime in on this one.
Re: 1st time cam tonite - observations + 1 or 2 questions
Use the search button hun! You will find all the answers you need. Pay attention to the sticky threads! :)
Re: 1st time cam tonite - observations + 1 or 2 questions
Hiya...I did use the search function, with 'tip' and 'tipping', but it didn't produce anything that I could really say answered my question about exactly when it's appropriate to tell a guy to cough up some more money. Sorry...didn't mean to come off as a lazy newbie looking for spoon feeding.
Re: 1st time cam tonite - observations + 1 or 2 questions
if a guy is in pvt or excl with you already and you ask for more money, he will most likely just leave, give you a bad rating a leave a bad feedback... thats my experience. so once a guy is already paying, he is paying already. thats on sm. at least for me. if you want him to pay more, just set your prices higher.
and no matter what kind of exhibitionist you are, if you show your goodies for free in free chat, you will be making less money.
damn, i wont even turn my big fat ass around if the person who asks it doest give me some gold!
Re: 1st time cam tonite - observations + 1 or 2 questions
Ok...that's the answer I was looking for, lol. Thank you all very much. The shows were exclusive so I'm glad I did the right thing by not asking for more. I just smile and chat and dance around in free chat so no worries there about giving it away. I guess my confusion was from a thread that talked about cam2cam and someone said make sure they are tipping you if you do that, so I was trying to figure out if that applied to exclusive chat and if so what was a reasonable tip.
Anyway, thanks again!
Re: 1st time cam tonite - observations + 1 or 2 questions
Sophia, when the topic is about tipping that's for MFC. For SM it'll be called gold. When you're doing a private on SM you're not paid for the first 30 seconds. There was a thread first 3 minutes of private with some good tips. A private is your show for the guy and since he's paying for it per minute there really isn't any need for him to give you gold on top of it although I have had a couple do it just cause, I certainly didn't ask for it. On SM many of the girls will ask for gold for requests like when they ask to see your tits, there was also a thread on this, I think it was gold for tits or something.
MFC is a whole different game although you can also get privates there, you are mostly working for token tips.
Hope that this at least will point you in the right direction.
Re: 1st time cam tonite - observations + 1 or 2 questions
I never ask for a pvt show. The only exception is when some guy has been hanging out in my room for 2 days chatting it up. I will then ask him if he wants to go pvt (bb) .. and if he hasn't gone pvt within 5-10 minutes after I start kicking him out of the room. Or depending on my mood he may even get banned.
As for stripping on cam. I act natural and chat. Within the first couple minutes they will ask to see something. If not, then just keep chatting. Not all like it when you strip down like a robot in the first minute.
Re: 1st time cam tonite - observations + 1 or 2 questions
i dont ask for more money in private. usually if theyre having a goodtime they'll tip anyway.
write on your profile that before opening pvt they must PM u what they want. then if they want cam2cam u can ask for the extra tip before hand and then he wnt waste money when the tokens r clocking up trying to decide if he wants 2 tip more for the pleasure.