Re: Free chat desperation?
The less obvious your want for tips is, the more likely they are to tip you. Guys want to see something they like - and for every guy, that's going to be different. Being yourself is the way to go. That way they feel like what you're doing is genuine and deserves to be complimented. Sometimes guys will really want to spoil you and sometimes they'll feel like being spoiled, it's really just a toss up. I'd say stick with what works and be yourself! I personally have all my tipping info and prices in my profile, but I don't mention it in chat (or I say, read my profile and there's no mention of tips outright but I know they're getting the info).
Re: Free chat desperation?
Sometimes I yell at them, and make a sad face. Haha...
In a joking way of course. That seems to get them tipping again. It all depends on who is in my room, and if they know your personality or not.
My regulars KNOW me, and will know the joke. I do all kinds of crazy stuff, some of it works, some of it doesn't.
Call some of the silent ones out. I love to do that, and ask why they're quiet.
Sometimes they respond, sometimes they leave. It's no big deal if they leave since I don't like the silent types (these people never tip too). Almost every night I'm online my topic never works, and it's usually because of the traffic.
So I have to think fast, and try to work with them. I've been getting saved by privates lately! So try to negotiate with ones who are interested. Yeah... MFC is tough.
Re: Free chat desperation?
Games don't work for me either, but I think it's beacause it's not what people expect from I have seen some girls do very well at it, just not me!
Re: Free chat desperation?
Games seem to do better the more people there are in your room...catch 22, I know.
The most important thing, IMHO, is to be as high energy as possible. Make them want to tip you because you are just so much damn fun. Then games give them an amount to tip, rather than a reason.
Essentially, guys want to reward you for something, OR get something for the reward. Either way, you need to make them feel invested in you, or something you are doing...so either way, its a bit of a gamble. Look like you are having an INSANE amount of fun, and they'll get drawn in to having fun with you. Thats how some girls can play a hangman game, and have guys playing constantly, and other girls can be sitting looking bored in front of a hangman whiteboard an doing nothing.
But I definitely know how it feels to be sitting playing a game on your own...so frustrating!!!
Re: Free chat desperation?
few days ago I had a big white board saying this word by word
" Type Hi when you are done sucking cock"
And when one would type hi, I'd ask how was it...is he really done now? and maybe he wanna get a room with johnxx- hes sucking too.. maybe a 69 with john would be even better"
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but its only maybe 20% of them that understand this type of extreme humor.
Most will just say like they told me that I am bitter and rude and they're gonna go see someone else.