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First "You're Fat" Comment Made My Day!
Haha, well I've been camming since May, usually on Streamate, sometimes on MFC. I've never had custies who've call me fat, ugly, anything -- today was the first time! I was bored in guest chat on sm, until some guy came in and called me fat! He kept going on about how I'm a slut. Surprisingly though, I didn't care.
I was about to just ignore and ban him, but I didn't. I'm just too sick of hearing the same shit on cam. So I started talking shit back, made a scene to entertain everyone there. I even stood up to show off my "fat" body. It was actually fun.. ;D
He ended up taking me private! I was an asshole throughout it too. He probably just wanted make himself look bigger. But I'm happy that I didn't take it personally. If it did, it would totally fuck up my cam time.
How does everyone else deal with these asshole remarks? I'm curious..
And I just looked at my placement, and I'm finally on the first page! Happy and surprised, since I probably cam for like 15 hours/week. I've got my hustle down though. Glad that decent traffic is coming in consistently with this. Sorry to ramble on.. I just can't talk about camming to friends/family. :(
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"Hahahahaha I'm fat! I get it now! I am fat!" *pinches fat and giggles*
I'm actually smack in the middle of the healthy weight for my height, so I mean, really. Am I supposed to cry? I'm kind of meek and non-confrontational, but I can honestly say that I'm not ashamed of my body.
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I've actually not had a fat comment yet....and I'm not that small, so I keep waiting for it...
Its fantastic that you managed to stay positive and make some money off of it though! Nice work!
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Honestly i laugh when i read a stupid comment towards me I just can't help it i burst out laughing. Sometimes I'll go along with it till people in my room just all want me to ban the specific person. It's somewhat entertaining to me xD
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ManyRoses
I've actually not had a fat comment yet....and I'm not that small, so I keep waiting for it...
Ehh... I don't think it matters how small you are. I'm 5'3 115, not skinny but petite. I've been waiting for the fat remark though; I'm usually very self conscious. But assholes will be assholes, they'll use anything to get a reaction. ::)
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I haven't gotten the fat comment yet, but I have seen over the last couple of days that as my placement rises so does the number of losers or assholes. I had a guy come in and ask me to stand, told him there are pics below or tip for it, he told me I'm not user friendly, I said yah my 5 star rating proves that, my regs all jumped him and he left. Then I had a guy come in and say hi ho, I said I sure hope you're making a Snow White reference cause you don't know me and started laughing, he left without another word.
I think I'm starting to come into my own on cam cause of the confidence all of the wonderful ladies here have instilled in me. My guys love me and that's all that matters the assholes can just move on. As I've read you haven't made it til there are haters.
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The name callers will call you every dirty word in the book and thensome, but the joke is truly on them. They are in an environment where, for once in their life, their fetishes (even bullying fetishes) are accepted. They are in an environment where a majority of us: pretend to like them, their company, their stupid jokes, compliments, and cocks. They should relax a bit and enjoy the company of the beautiful women they would never have a chance with in real life.
I am 95 lbs and I have had these type come into my room and call me fat. They simply want a rise out of you and will do anything and say anything to get it. Seriously, all you can do is laugh, because there is no logic to this.
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Same thing happened to me today on a different site. This guest comes in and first thing it says is called me a whore. i had a couple of others in the room, so I said "really?" Then it says "you got your hair up, think your pretty, pppfff." So I continued to talk to my others cust. Then it says "your a fat cow." I replied you can always go somewhere else. Then my internet kicked me off site. Damn.
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I got the fat comment recently too...
Im not fat but Im not skinny either
So after the comment I started to pout and ask the other guys if Im fat...
"hey guys,,, do u think im getting fat"?
Then the compliments rolled in, I started to smile and everything went back to normal:)
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Oh I've had fat comments. My response "If you don't like me, just go visit another girl" I don't care if someone doesn't like me - I'm not for everyone - but why waste time insulting me? Just go talk to someone else !
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Never got a 'fat' comment yet, but at any other pointless rude comment I genuinely laughed in their face as a reply : D
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I share your pain...lol...I keep getting them too!! From being too small to be a BBW to "You must be from Tennessee cause you are fat?" ikr, wtf? To I must be a magician to cover up all the fat in my profile pic...the one that only shows my face not my body...it is crazy...guess we can't please everyone.
I REALLY AM ENJOYING THIS CRAZY NEW WORLD!!! ::)
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I've only gotten the 'you're fat' thing once...if a guy insults me it's usually after I've turned down his pleas for paypal, so it's pretty hard to take them seriously when they say I'm ugly or a bitch, etc
Funnily enough, the one time I got the 'fat' thing was almost two years ago (I can remember cuz I was only on that particular site briefly) and my BMI at the time was in the 17% range (now it's in the 18-19% cuz I put on some muscle). HIS insecurity was written all over that typed message, mine response was to block and move on.
All those dickwads are trying to do is hit us where it 'hurts', and it's common knowledge that alot of women are insecure about their size and appearance. It makes sense that comments of this type seem like an appropriate jump-off, if you're thinking like a misogynist loser, at least:)
OP, I love that you made $$$ off the guy, well done:)
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I actually am fat, and I don't get those comments alot. When I do my response depends on my mood. Sometimes I harrass back, sometimes I compliment their observation skills. "wow, really??? Thank you SO MUCH for letting me know, I had NO idea that I was fat!?!?!?" LMAO...back to my regular custies lol
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If your getting rude comments your doing something right... Usually the insulting comment the girls who are doing well to get them off their game, and they are usually females.
I NEVER got rude comments untill i got on the top row of streamate, now i get 6 a day , and that numbers sadly increasing.
So whenever you get a insult, take it as a compliment, Your drawing enough attention to bring a crowd, Even the ones who arnt paying, are paying attention to you!!!
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Haven't ever gotten "fat" I have a strange mark on my stomach that looks like a scar so I get a lot of comments about that. Apparently it looks like a c-section. I don't think it does but I've started telling people it's a scar from an accident I was in as a child and "I don't want to talk about it" In reality I have no idea what it is, I've had it as long as I can remember. People got strangely belligerent about it when I said that tho, so...
I don't generally get any shit from anyone, but the stuff I do get is about my "scar" or my name and sometimes a true asshole will come in and tell me I have an ugly face. I just laugh and say something sophomoric like, "that's not what your mom said."
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Originally Posted by
southerndesires
Same thing happened to me today on a different site. This guest comes in and first thing it says is called me a whore. i had a couple of others in the room, so I said "really?" Then it says "you got your hair up, think your pretty, pppfff." So I continued to talk to my others cust. Then it says "your a fat cow." I replied you can always go somewhere else. Then my internet kicked me off site. Damn.
Lol at the 'It'. I love when people refer to rude/cruel/subhuman jerks as 'It". I'm totally going to start doing this in my head if I get insulted, so it'll be easier to laugh it off.
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it depends on my mood how i handle the rude comments...
sometimes its an immediate block
sometimes i laugh and tell them they must be bored
or sometimes i tell them to shut up cuz i make more money than them lol
today i had a guy come in my room and say "don't buy a show guys shes fat"
and right after he said that 2 guys came pvt i was laughing so hard...his plan failed lol
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I had a guy the other day say, "are you pregnant or fat? u don't look pregnant, i think you're just a fattie aren't you?"
That's the only fat comment I've got so far, I thought it was pretty funny considering I'm slim everywhere except for my belly.
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I'm in the BBW category. I don't have big boobs (38B) but I'm 280lbs and 5'9 with a big old booty. I was so scared I'd be called fat when I first started since I have jiggily bits and rolls but no one has so far. In fact I get lots of guys who tell me I'm NOT a BBW until I show them my booty lol
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I'm surprised you girls are so strong!! I haven't had "fat" comments and I'm not skinny at all (I think I'm a little fat for what I want) so I'm waiting for someone who call me that.
I've got just 2 rude comments saying I'm ugly and not hot at all. After reading all your posts I'm ashamed that the first time I cried and just log off, i'm very sensitive.
But, well, the second rude comment was the same (he called me ugly), but this guy just wanted to play tough and now he visit me everyday.
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I've had people call me that int he past and I just laughed it off. When it finally happens on cam, and I'm sure it will, I can see me doing something like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b248cANtWBo ;D
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HollyStJohn
"Look at my Jiggily butt!" If I could make my butt do the jiggily butt dance like that I'd make soooo much more money on cam. *runs off to practice in the mirror* lol
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LOL I got called fat the other day. Usually when rude comments come toward me, the other men in my chat room start making fun of them for saying something. LOL there is hardly a dull moment in my chat room. Anyway I never take anything like that personal....they can insult me all day for all care :-)