All because he thinks of you as damaged goods & his 'friend' needs protecting from a Femme Fatale. Not that every man doesn't watch porn or cam shows & are just as 'Bad'. What a jerk that guy is.
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He said he was trying to look out for my husband. A person he had only just met the day before. Laughable. His loyalty should have been to me since he's dating my friend of 20 years. She's the one who told him in the first place to be honest. So most likely she co-signed on the fuckery because she's struggling. Meanwhile she's got ads on BP. :) The moral of the story is.. Step into the light and make money because then no one can touch you. They will try but it wont work.
I'd joke about it right to their faces over dinner. How he thought he was being a snake & trying to poison your marriage, as if you'd keep secrets from the man who is with you good or bad. My problem would be with her for bringing a snake like that into my life. And I've jumped in the middle of my friends shit for those kinds of guys too.
Now, they warn their men right off the bat. No one has done more for me & you can never say anything bad about Sam or it is over. In fact, I know their husbands, their husband's family. Go to lunches with their Grandmothers & everyone knows what I do.
Plus, like you, I know where all their skeletons are buried too. In fact, I have polaroids of their skeletons buried deep in my closet. :)
Nooo girl, he just accidentally stumbled upon PhatGirlDynomite and other cam girls. Just like that.
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I have no idea why you decided to be as rude as you did, especially considering you gave no hint that you so much as read the details in my post. ::)
First off, never said I wanted to be infamous. Second off, I explicitly said if this would hinder my career whatsoever, it's a no go. I'm not throwing away nothing, and even if I desired to throw it away it has nothing to do with wanting men.
I also explicitly said I had no interest in making $1000 a week, and that if it didn't pan out or I got burnt out that it would be no skin off my nose.
And yes, fun! I love camming for fun with my followers on various social media. No money involved. Fun. Because I actually enjoy it, which is what you're supposed to find in your job. Same reason for why I want to teach - nice try and attempting to insult my profession, though.
I did quite a lot of research actually, which is how I found this website. I wanted to get the opinions of those with experience in the business, not 80 different scare-quoting articles that toss shame at the industry instead of providing actual information.
Unfortunately, I see that posting here was a waste of time. Not because I got the answer I didn't want, but because of the poor attitudes of holier-than-thou workers who are more intent on pissing on new girls and other careers than to actually be helpful. :heartbeat Thanks for "helping" me out ma'am, maybe you should consider choosing a career that doesn't make you so bitter if you hate it so much.
Also, thank you to the women who gave me actual answers. I really appreciate you! Unfortunately, I'll have to put this idea in the back of my brain if I decide teaching isn't for me after a few years, or if/when I decide to be a stay at home mom. I have no shame with anything and honestly wouldn't care who knew - the only concern for myself was that they could pull my state license. Unfortunately, since that's the case, I'll have to just move on.
Are you serious? "Actual answers" Who the hell are you? You should be grateful for each and every response that you received. You dont get to pick and choose when you yourself have nothing to offer. You just got all kinds of boss advice on this industry for free. Meanwhile you're still deciding if you wanna get dirty or not? If you think Sam was rude...go ahead get started on cam. I suggest ImLive. Go for it! Wait till you see the crap they throw at you. You come here asking all these questions and then have the audacity to get offended when the feedback wasnt dipped in sugar first. Everyone was more than helpful how dare you? Yea please move along.
Oh my, you are young & naive. What men will say when they are getting exactly what they want for FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Come back to me when you can get ANY OF THEM to spend money on a regular basis.
You think I 'm rude. Wait till you deal with EVERY cam sites customer support & tech issues. The first few hours on a cam site & the predators will tear you apart.
The real world is rough. Men LIE! Men LIE all the time no matter what industry you are in too.
READ YOUR CAM CONTRACT! they will own all visual rights of pictures & video feed. They have the legal right to promote, decimate & use that content with your face forever.. Their affiliates & associates, their heirs will always have the right to use your image with whatever name they want.
So go ahead, trust that studio owner who is trying to recruit you & all those lie about Geo-blocking. How you can do this under the radar & no one will find out.
I'm not bitter, I am real. You are not the first new girl to come at me this way, nor the last. Many of the vets here once thought the very same thing. Then look as to how many times I've been thanked.
We all know to much to consider an newbie a threat to our incomes. I have customers longer than you have been alive who still spend money to see my tits.
If my words sting, it is because deep down you know it is the truth. I'd rather have you hate me for telling the truth then for what if you go through with this experience in real life. We all know what is in store for you. We have read plenty of regret stories right on this site.
Will they pull your state license to teach? YES, there is a moral clause for teachers. Did you not read that part?
I know teachers who made it their careers afterf 25 years call themselves just poorly paid baby sitters. Who spent a lifetime wiping snotty kids noses for very little money. Ick!
Being a teacher or mother is supposed to be noble, reality is most of the time it is living in poverty. Dealing with kids from abused homes & can't really do anything about it. Being a teacher is depressing & hard work.
I hate to take this out of the context(out of the post) and quote it but in the context and out of it, I really dont feel that it is accurate. I've heard lots of stories about teachers who love their work and kids or students who love them back. Lets not bash teachers now. And on the subject, yes, camming can affect lots of future " real world" jobs.
Camming for fun and with accounts already connected to social media, and for free? Yikes.
You've probably already been recorded and have your videos posted online by some of these men. A lot of them love to post recordings especially if they already know your real information, and if they didn't even have to pay for it the chances go up even more.
If you want to teach you really should delete your social media, all of it and do a search for videos with your handles and also real name in case you already got doxxed. It may be too late but if you start now you might be able to minimize the damages.
Majority of articles written about the camming industry are written by men IN the camming industry to recruit girls like this one. Most are bullshit. It is my favorite thing to do is tear those articles apart.
In my research most of those websites, pages all lead to one place....... internet modeling dot com & Live Jasmin. You don't know enough about this industry to tell the difference.
One single picture or video of your bare boobs is enough to end a career as a teacher. Is it fair? no, but that is the reality of it. We live in a very sexist world where the women are punished for men's lust. The very men who laugh & play with you on social media live stream will be the very same men who will judge you unworthy to teach their kids. They will do it without a second thought, too.
Teaching certificates & licenses have a moral clause. Which by now you should already have read & been aware that this violates it. Even if no one found out, you will have lied & broken that clause.
Go ask your professors their thoughts on it. See what they have to say on this matter.
Go ahead mention my name on that feed, see how many of those men know my name & my boobs.
Clearly you like the attention & now you want to make money for it. Welcome to the club.
Those same guys are hitting up all kinds of girls just like you for free boob, booty & pussy shots. They spend all day doing it. They will sit their & flatter you for hours in hopes of a titty flash. Seems like you are already doing what we do, only for free. Which makes you the sucker & those guys are playing you instead of the other way around.
LOL Next time you spend time to research, make sure to look up the woman who you called rude and suggested she go into another industry. She is a legend and a GIANT in the adult industry. You should feel honored that you got advice from her.
and also, it's not our responsibility to be helpful to new people coming into the industry. WE choose to give advice- you aren't entitled to it. In reality- you will be competition if you come in so the fact that you received answers at all should be a reason for you to be appreciative.
My bad, dealing with cam companies too.
This can be a great biz with great earning potential, but too many lies & misconceptions when there doesn't need to be.
We aren't being holier than thou. You are looking at this shit in an all positive light. You can't go about making life changing decisions like this without considering ALL OF THE NEGATIVES-- ESPECIALLY when you want to work in one of the most judgmental industries in America. If you already do all this for free you may have already fucked yourself- it depends how long you have been doing it. If it's not very long, you have a good chance of removing the evidence. If there is too much damage already done then I don't know what to tell ya, but you might not work in the teaching profession until retirement, and yeah you will need to develop your hustle skills either for the adult industry or starting your own business. Yeah you can adapt- that is part of being human, but I really wouldn't piss away what..4 or 6 years of schooling or whatever you need to be a teacher? Is this your passion or what? If it's your passion don't piss it away for nothing or very little in return. If teaching isn't your passion I will shut my mouth on this subject.
Politics and teaching are some of the worst jobs you can try for when you are in the adult industry. It isn't fair- it is completely biased. It isn't like we are violating children, but we sure get treated like it.
This job isn't criminal, but some of the consequences for doing adult work are similar. In some ways, if you get found out, you will be treated like a criminal. Think long and hard about it. There are a LOT of consequences if you get outed. I really don't feel like I should have to go into all that shit, a little searching online and you will learn all about it.
There are no secrets when it is on the web. Actually, there are no more secrets period. There is a camera everywhere, people put their whole lives on social media.
There is no being anonymous anymore on the web, it really is only a matter of time before being found out.
Look at Trump. "I don't know these Russians"......... CNN role tape..
"I don't watch porn." then in next document they put on the web is a screen cap with a porn site tab open on their computer.
There are no secrets. It really is the World Wide Web & we are all caught in it.
Sooooooooo I'm one click away from becoming an active camgirl for Streamate. I'm in my final year of graduate school and this is a great way for supplemental income while I finish up. I want to make sure that my personal information (photo I.D., real photo, address, etc.) is going to stay safe and never be used against me in some crazy vindictive way by some rogue douchebag who works for SM. I realize that they have been around for some time, and thousands upon thousands of cammers come and go. When I rationalize it, I'm pretty sure they have no interest in sabotaging someone's future occupational endeavors, but there is a very hesitant side of me that keeps me skeptical. Any help with this or words from experience would be appreciated.
It all depends on what field you are going to work in... from the sounds of it.... you might not want to hit that broadcast button. You've probably spent a fortune on school.... you just NEVER KNOW what will come and bite you in the ass. I would not start camming unless it meant you wouldn't have place to live, tuition money, or some type of life or death situation in your position. If you just really want to get your freak on, make fabulous money, and a camming history would not hurt you if you co workers ever tried to screw you over.... go for it.
You need to search the archives here...soo much info. You shouldn't be worried about a SM douchebag blackmailing you but moreso your info (camming past)being found in a background check
I really wouldn't worry about Streamate having your information. I'm sure it's not in their interest to hurt their talent like that, we make them a lot of money!
I really would not worry about a SM employee having your info. They are a legit company and their employees are exposed to new girls every day. Now if you are worried about being found out I will echo what many other cammers have said before, you need to realize that someone will find out, you will end up on other sites, etc. It isn't the end of the world, but like MissMoore stated if the career you are working towards is not ok with this type of work, don't risk it. Even part time you are a sex worker. This should be a ok in everyone's eyes, but it is not...