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"Nah, Its Cool...I Actually Already Have A Pussy"
Lol...it came with its own special shrink-wrap, too.
But seriously, is it just me or today's young men (18-25 range) really...feminine? And I sort of feel bad for suggesting it, as a modern feminist myself, but seriously, I'm sick of seeing guys in MY favorite pair of skinny jeans!
I just got out of a really long relationship with a guy because he cried ... a lot. He slumped his shoulders when he walked and avoided confrontation at all costs. Now, this guy was 6ft, broad-shouldered, and *ahem* was very well-endowed. As nice as he was I just couldn't get over his attitude. The lack of confidence was a barrier that seem to affect what he majored in, how hard he tried at something before he just gave up, and his entire outlook on what he believed he could reasonably accomplish in life.
Now, don't get me wrong, if he were equal to me in aggressiveness, confidence, and drive, that would be fine, but I felt like we were light years apart, and in the past few years of dating and seeing others date, it doesn't seem to be a rarity.
I also feel this constant sense of "mothering", too many guys in my life have used me, not as a companion, but as a mom to remind them to study, help them manage money, restore confidence, ...ugh!
I suppose this has become a rant, but I desperately needed to vent. Myself, my friends, and my colleagues are inspired, driven. ambitious, long-term focused, competitive women....with men who seem to scared to ever seriously attempt any goal, and too plain stupid to know where to start.
Oh...and the last time I was with a mature, ambitious man...he left me for "vintage" woman who wouldn't be as "competitive"...also a story I've heard too often. Do "real men" prefer "vintage ladies".
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If by "feminine," you mean acting like little lazy whiny bitches, then yes, I'd agree that many men nowadays are more "feminine." But I don't really surround myself with women who act that way, so I tend to view the whiny bitchiness as more of a masculine quality, because as much as men complain that women act that way, my experience has been quite the opposite.
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A smart aggressive woman is what I'm looking for. Life is to difficult to be holding hands all the time....lets kick some ass;)
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Yep. Whenever I use the word bitch I'm usually talking about a man.
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I like many aspects of feminine men. No I don't like whiny men but despise that in women friends too. However, I prefer feminine men in the examples of not being a chauvinist. I really despise those men who think being male means they are the head of the family and my boss. Not happening. As a dominant person I tend to prefer somewhat submissive men (no not in the sexual way).
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Yes, there are a lot of guys in that age range these days that are like this.
And it's being studied, actually. There is a burgeoning area of research around theories that boys, growing up, don't get as much attention as girls do....that the "female" way of doing things in schools is favored, and boys are growing up with this....plus the proliferation of households headed by women only....thus, boys are growing up with very little positive male role models...so they don't know how to act like "men."
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If I wanted to date a women I'd be a lesbian. So sick of guys that PMS worse than I do, I've had a few exes that were whiny little bitches, so over it.
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Part of the reason why i haven't gotten laid in over a year
http://i1108.photobucket.com/albums/...nthavetime.jpg
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Originally Posted by
MargaritaVillain
Who is the candy ass next to Clint?
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safado
Who is the candy ass next to Clint?
I dont know, but he just needs someone to hold him......rub his shoulder and tell him that everything is going to be OK.
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I wish I didn't know.
Drag Queens glitter in the sunlight - not vampires. If there was a fight between the two, my money would be on the drag queen.
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^ you just proved drag queens are vampires.
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MargaritaVillain
This picture makes the point eloquently. Now we know why they say, a picture is worth a thousand-word.
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That would be a great cover! Drag Queen Vampires, sounds like perfect B-grade movie material.
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Amareth
That would be a great cover! Drag Queen Vampires, sounds like perfect B-grade movie material.
http://i.imgur.com/9GrfF.jpg
Tim Curry is too old :D
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I freakin LOVE Rocky Horror Picture Show so I feel kinda bad for doing this but
http://img849.imageshack.us/img849/6478/images1nfq.jpg
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I have way too much time on my hands these days.
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I dated a guy for 5 years, and for the life of him, he would NOT have sex with me.
When we fought, he would cry and beg me not to leave him.
I swear, I believe we entirely overlook spousal abuse when a man is the victim and it's a shame, but sometimes I wanted to backhand this fool and tell him to stop being a whiny little bitch. He was more fucking emotional than a prepubescent girl.
.....Surprise, surprise. Our relationship ended when he came out of the closet.
Now, don't get me wrong. I DON'T want to be the Betty Crocker house wife....in fact, I love being the bread winner. It's just that, as much as I adore being a dominatrix, I like to leave it in the bedroom.....and I like it when they fight back a little bit.
My husband and I have a very healthy competition for dominance. We fight, scream, bitch and yes, sometimes cry. But neither of us are making the other feel weak and powerless. I probably have an overflow of testosterone, so I really need a man who can handle me. NOT dominate me....just at least get up to my level.