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Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
I'm sorry I know there are 5060660 BILLIONS thread on sd/sb relationships, & I really didn't have time to look through every single one looking for my answer.
I'm gonna make this real short & simple...I have recently signed up on all the sd/sb meeting sites...I have been getting responses & ALL of them include their cell number so i can call/ text them right away to start chatting.
Is this normal for me just to call them right away & chat? I'm going to have like 10 sd numbers in my cell & just calling them to randomly talk (kinda awkward).
Shouldnt there be some online chatting first to break the ice, aka yahoo messenger or exchanging emails for a week or two just to get a feel for each other???
I recommended that to a cpl of them & they said thats a waste of time, and to just call them.
What do you girls do? Just call & talk, OR do you keep it online for a cpl weeks?
I don't know which way to go with this AND IF they are legit decent sd's, then i def don't want them to move on to the next girl just cuz they feel i'm wasting time with emails, etc (maybe they won't feel im that serious about it).
Again, I know there are trillions upon trillions of this all over this site, but I had a specific question that i thought would be WAY easier to just ask.
Thank all you sugarbabys for giving me your input on this:) xoxoxoxo
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
Don't worry it's a vaild question.
Ok ask yourself this. If I was a fake sugar daddy and I wanted a hot girl to call me and provide me with her phone number , what would I do?
Give her mine! That way I have hers whenever she calls me.
Unless of course you're using a google voice number.
However if she's new to the 95% fake sd but 5% real sd game then she will not know any better. I will be able to call her and I might even be able to google her number and find out where she actually is.
If a guy is on a SD site and responds with giving you his number right away, the he's a fake!
He's just checking to see how easy it is to play you.
Real SD's are cautious and take their time trying to get to to know the lady online. If he can't at least send a few messages back and forth longer than 3-4 lines then he's looking for either a cheap escort under $100 for 5 hours. or free sex. So dinner , drinks and suck me off in my moving vehicle. Ohh look at my hot car, yeah I have no money for you because I'm actually renting this.
So get a google voice number
Dont text or call from your cell
Again look at his profile. What is he looking for . Does he have " negotiable"? Because he's offering below the normal $1000-$10,000? So in other words? $100 for 5 hours? Hell you could make that doing phone sex.
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
I agree. Any guy who says its a waste of time to get to know you before exchanging personal information is himself a waste of time.
If a guy is SD material, it means he has money, and he has a career and lifestyle that he values, and would not so easily just give up his phone number/personal information to a random stranger.
I wouldnt say you should take weeks to email someone, an idiot will reveal themselves within 3 emails... besides anyone who prefers to keep it to email and just talk talk talk without moving it towards a phone call/meeting would also me a waste of time.
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
OK, so I have my first promising local SD (i think), we have exchanged a few emails, he didnt just give me his cell number off the bat like all the rest did. We chatted about what arrangement he'd like and he said meet two times a month for $1000 cash allowance. And if we end up meeting more, then he will adjust the amount upwards to match how many meetings, but for now, 2 meetings per month for 1,000$.
Sounds good to me & I want to go ahead & meet him & see if we connect at all. As far the 1,000 monthly allowance, do you girls collect it ONE time per month say on the 1st? or just split it up between the meetings, for example, in my case, he pay $500 each meeting cash at that time? I'm not sure how to collect the money, or if most girls collect the lump sum upfront, then go ahead with the meetings...
What do you girls do??? This is my first SD experience & so far he emails me back fairly quickly, and he is upfront about what he's paying and how many times he wants to meet. Every single other interested response I got was just throwing their cell number at me.
Id apprec any help or advice so I know how to handle this. I don't wanna blow it. I need the money really bad right now, and i think 1000 bucks for twice a month is fine by me.
Suggestions??? Advice??? Thanks so much!!!
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
It sounds to me like he is negotiating escort services.
Just another escort client pretending to be an SD.
Why not just straight escort?
You'll know who you're meeting, for how long, what's expected and how much you'll make per hour spent - without these B.S. games where you let the client hold all the cards.
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
Obenta is right. Anytime you start negotiating money per hourly or daily visits, you're heading into escort territory. An ideal arrangement is one where your SD will give you a monthly allowance in one lump sum and you spend time when you're available - some months more, some less. If your SD wants to pay you a specific amount every time he sees you that is not a relationship, it's a business transaction.
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
If you have a SD you are an escort. Pay to play.
Q: Are you going to hang with him if he doesnt give you cash or gifts?
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So if you say no, then you are an escort regardless if there is any sex. Beacuse remember we pay escorts for their time, not for sex.
At least thats what her ad said
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
Agree with the above..how much your allowance is, shouldnt depend on how many times you see each other "to be adjusted accordingly". It should be your allowance, period. You may end up seeing him more, or you may end up seeing him once or not at all....but Id assume you are still keeping in contact some how regardless, the relationship doesnt only exist when you are together, then cease to exist when your time together is over.
Also, a guy who offers a $1k/mth allowance is not a SD, even if you had 2 guys paying $1k/month each it would not add up to one SD....
ETA: Okay, maybe Im being harsh, cause I live in Miami, if the cost of living is less where you are, then I can see $2k as a possibility, but $1k still doesnt fly to me.
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
@BlkSharpie.....yeah i totally agree with you, after I thought about it, I was like wtf only 1k/month. It is really low, and he is Diamond Status on one of the SD sites & he can only offer me 1,000/mth, thats lamo!!
I guess i got excited for nothing, as i am NOT aN escort and i'm not looking for a cash for sex business meetings. I want a true SD/SB relationship with a cash monthly allowance plus all my living expenses paid. I made that very clear in my ads on the SD sites. When i first joined, I had a ton of interest, and now I get one email every so often. :*(
Why is it so dam hard to find a legit SD who wants a legit SB? and doesn't wanna just offer the girl 1k for 2 meetings? *sigh*
blah, im feeling very discouraged of finding one. ill post back if i get any more emails of interest...
ty girls on all your input:) xoxo
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
^ Agreed. I actually read one of the SD blog where a girl agreed on $1000 a month. The guy met her , slept with her 6-8 times in the same night then gave her $500 and never contacted her again. I was in shock reading how cruel this guy was trying to get " his money's worth". So that's about $62.50 per pump? wow what a winner.
The creator of one of the biggest SD sites out there was smart. B. Wade told guys that if they have any disposable income, they could now consider themselves Sugar Daddies. So if you have $300 a month , you too can be a sugar daddy. With these guys wanting to be apart of the new way of coolness they joined, getting gorgeous women from all over the world wanting a chance to date them. Hell that probably wasn't happening for most of these guys over the last 40 years and now they get the chance to pick and choose who NOT to give money to.
Also clist closed down so where would these guys end up?
Reading some of the scam sd forums was an eye opener in itself.
Oh and check out escort rates. Most wouldn't overnight unless it was $1,500-$4,000 up front. That's on client for one night. But some guy wants to do unprotected anal for $500 in a dingy hotel yet calls himself a Sugar Daddy?
For that amount of money , I can sit right at home and do a few long privates and make that without someone knowing where I live, my real phone number, texting me things I don't want to hear, worrying about the guy lying about being single , etc etc. All of it spell danger with minimal rewards if any at best.
The site owner even kicked off one of his long standing Diamond Members because the guy was just playing women. So he spends $1200 on his membership per year only to end up abusing women through lies, deceit and trickery?
Also when you're new on the site, you'll get bombarded with the game players and time wasters. Perhaps after a year or two, time , patience etc you'll meet someone worth your while. However, from what I've read, freestyling or finding a sugar daddy on clist seemed to provide better results.
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
Now also make sure that your status has a clear amount. I would suggest staying around the $3,000-$5,000 range. You may get less hits but you'll notice that guys will ask " HOW MANY MEETS IS THAT. LOL As if he need to feel he'll get sex 5 days a week for a month at that rate. That's how you'll know the guy isn't a sugar daddy but a john trying to maximize his cash. So he may say " well how about we start at $300" just to get to know each other. Right because I'm going to start at 10% of what I'm asking and sleep with you too? lol.
Ohh I even laughed at a guy on his profile saying " NO PROS". So I was like perfect! I never escorted so I'd be a match. He sends me a message asking " Do you host". WTF?
Another girl even decided to do the deed with a guy for $200 meanwhile he's saying the whole time " Don't rush me".lol
As you may have noticed the majority of the guys on this site are used to dealing with escorts. They just want someone new and fresh that will not know how to spot the game.
The all time worst story I read on that blog was probably when two girls paid for plane tickets to meet some fake SD, flew to another country and did a threesome with the guy. The guy promised to reimburse their tickets,lavish them with gifts and a $10-20,000 allowance. He tells them he'll be right back and said he left the money in his car. He got to his car and took off. Those girls were not only out of the plane money but they had to fight to max out cc cards just to get back home. At that point they were just begging for their plane tickets to be reimbursed but no luck.
I'm not trying to scare you but most of these guys are foul because they aren't real 100% SDs
. Even some of the real ones feel like well why should I pay so much when these douchebags are sleeping with the same girls for free?
I believe there are over 600-800 thousand profiles on that site. Now how many are real SD's that are not already seeing an Sb are probably more in the 1.5% range.
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
What site are you all talking about? Im so out of the loop lol
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
Seeking-------Arrangement. has the best blog. Women are free and if in college you get free premium membership if you use your college edu email. For guys it seems to be basic, featured and Diamond.
However the majority of guys on the site will be basic.
I also heard about Suga rDaddie for me also but they make women pay to join or you can't really talk to most guys on there. I think Sugar Daddie for me may be better because they have an instant chat feature with cam, so you can know for certain who the person really is. At worst you may be forced to view some ugly nude guy but I've never had that happen. I didn't really stay on there long because their emails to pay for a membership got annoying. What I also think is smart about the site is that if a guy can't pay for the top membership so you can talk to him for free, then he's not worth it anyways. Smart way to weed out losers but that still may not work.
On Dr. Phil SA got bad press, on the Maury Povich show it was quick and to the point which appeared much better.
Some of these guys profiles are ridiculous. One guy even has a profile that he doesn't want a lazy sb. He wants her to cook, clean , be his personal chef, personal assistant ohh and you have to fuck him too. All for the glowing sum of $1,000 a month. loool
SB will soon be changed from SugarBaby to SlaveBitch.
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
LoL Cherryblossom, yeah, seems that guy has it twisted....
Ahhh I remember SA, I think I have an acct there... I stopped using SD4M because of the payment thing, makes no sense... And Sugardaddy.com was a bust and a half for me..nothing but weirdos. So on SA, the guys must pay to be a member? I didnt realize that...maybe Ill give it another try, cause I havnt been on any of those sites in a couple of years now... Maybe my luck will change :)
As a matter of fact, I was at a dinner party a couple weeks ago, and one of the girls brought up sugar daddy sites, and she said one of the guys at her firm met his sugar baby there...she said he was all happy and talking about this girl he met as he was heading to join her for lunch one day. I so need to try again..!
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
I am currenlty on Seek---Arrange & I'm also on Seek----Millionaire. those are the only 2 sites i'm using. SO far on SA, ive got a bunch of offers of x amt of cash per meeting, or x amt of cash per x meeting per month. Didn't sound like a TRUE SD/SB relationship to me!!! I got one that I was real interested in, he said he just wanted to meet for a couple dinners, etc to get to know each other, he'd pay 500 for each dinner date, then he'd pay 4K-5K for the monthly allowance once we knew we got along and had some kinda of conncetions. So i thought that was a fair deal.
On S--Millionaire(SM), I'm not too sure if those guys are really seeking a gf/wife/soulmate etc. I've read thru many profiles and it seems like those guys want long-term relationships, etc. Although, they make it clear they'd spoil the one they were with. And i have gotten a couple real nice guy (so far) thru there that seem like they genuinely want to get to know me & see what it does... (guess that site is more of a dating site). Which i certainly wouldnt say no to go on dates with them and maybe sparks with fly, I would love to find the "love of my life" one day, especially if hes a millionaire and we could have a wonderful life together.
So im assuming SM is a way diff site then Seek Arrange. I am about fed up with SA site, I emailed the one i thought was a gentlemen and had the 4k-5k monthly allowance down days ago and was excited to start to talking to him, i havent heard back :( I'm honestly ready to cancel my account on that site altogether. And keep my SM profile active.
I REALLY would LOVE to find a true SD/SB arrangement right now, my money is gone and I've been trying for a couple months on those sites, but nothing seems to be working out. And i don't have the time to wait a year or so, until one good one shows up.
Is there anywhere else I can meet SD's? OR I have even thought about escorting, where i meet with them for X meetings for X agreed upon cash. Maybe that'd be the easiest way. I really only want ONE special SD to be with, and with escorting, im not looking forward to multiple random men. YUCK!
Any advice from you girls? Sorry if this was longer...I haven't had time to post lately.
What makes matters worse is that camming (im a webcam model) has been realllly slow lately, so i havent even been making enough to cover my bills. so I've been 100% actively trying to get the SD/SB thing going ASAP.
Thanks for taking time to read this...xoxoxoxo
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
I would like to offer an alternative view from a guy's perspective. This is based on talking to friends, lurking on various boards, and my own experiences.
Obviously most guys are looking for sex. As some posters have asked, why don't they find a prostitute. Some other posters assume many SD wannabes are looking for cheaper alternatives to prostitutes. Some probably are, but not always. Take the guy cited by the OP. $1,000 for 2 meetings a month comes out to $500 per meeting. That is not cheaper than most escorts. If he really wanted to save money he could get a better deal from many escorts and be assured he will get sex and even know what acts she will perform if he peruses the review boards. If it were just sex why indeed wouldn't he get an escort?
Some men find sex preferable if they can imagine the lady likes them or at least is not repulsed by them. Obviously money is the main factor, but many of the women on the SD sites will not sleep with the men if there is not some attraction. So a SB is preferable to a escort because it is easier for the guy to believe the woman is at least minimally attracted to them.
Some men also don't like the idea of having sex with someone who has had sex with large numbers of other men. Of course, a SB could have a large number of other partners, but what we don't know doesn't hurt us. On the other hand it's kind of hard to pretend an escort is only sleeping with you.
Based on my own experience and indeed the OP says this herself, there are women who don't mind having sex for money if they find the guy reasonably attractive and it is one guy at a time. One might laugh at these distinctions but these feelings do exist.
Given the motives of some men that I described above, and the the feelings of some women, that I described in the previous paragraph, there does appear to be a market for semi-exclusive escorting, or whatever you want to call it. The guys offering $xx per meeting and the women accepting these offers may not fit your definition of SD/SB relationship but this does seem to work for some people.
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
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Originally Posted by
luke
As some posters have asked, why don't they find a prostitute. Some other posters assume many SD wannabes are looking for cheaper alternatives to prostitutes. Some probably are, but not always. Take the guy cited by the OP. $1,000 for 2 meetings a month comes out to $500 per meeting. That is not cheaper than most escorts. If he really wanted to save money he could get a better deal from many escorts and be assured he will get sex and even know what acts she will perform if he peruses the review boards. If it were just sex why indeed wouldn't he get an escort?
You're wrong on this point and it's obvious that you haven't spent much time (if any?) in the "Online Fake Sugar Daddy World".
The reality is that these meetings often include a meal, and are "clock-free", which means it's a minimum of 2h - 3h (or maybe even 4h+ each). These "fake SD's" also generally expect emails, texting, talking on the phone, etc etc etc etc....
Do the math on that and you'll see they are, indeed looking for cheap escort.
Two - 2h meetings per month (4hrs total) + 6hrs of emails, texting, talking on the phone = 10hrs/month spent feeding fake SD's ego, plus sucking & fucking for only $100 per hour.
A much more likely scenario is:
Two - 3h meetings per month (6hrs total) + 10hrs of emails, texting, talking on the phone = 16hrs/month spent feeding fake SD's ego, plus sucking & fucking for only $62.50 per hour.
The rest of your post is just you explaining why such an arrangement is desireable to these men. Yea, we already know all the reasons it's good for HIM. Durrr..
WE WOMEN are discussing why it's NOT a good arrangement for THE WOMEN.
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
I tried SA and got a billion emails with stupid offers and phone numbers. I looked at some of their profiles, which were ridiculously insulting, so I signed up the more annoying guys for phone calls/texts about penis enhancement drugs. Har har.
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
Just b/c he gives you number doesn't necessarily mean he's a fake. Call him with your fake number to see if you connect. MAKE SURE you don't call him from your real number in case he is a fake.
I've called back many from these sites and a few turned out to be real good temp SD's. Get your fake number girl! Happy Daddy Hunting! :)
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
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Originally Posted by
Obenta
Do the math on that and you'll see they are, indeed looking for cheap escort.
Two - 2h meetings per month (4hrs total) + 6hrs of emails, texting, talking on the phone = 10hrs/month spent feeding fake SD's ego, plus sucking & fucking for only $100 per hour.
A much more likely scenario is:
Two - 3h meetings per month (6hrs total) + 10hrs of emails, texting, talking on the phone = 16hrs/month spent feeding fake SD's ego, plus sucking & fucking for only $62.50 per hour.
WE WOMEN are discussing why it's NOT a good arrangement for THE WOMEN.
My thoughts exactly... And I reckon it to be even less than that even.
I keep records of my time and earnings. Right now my per hour rate works out to about $80/hr even though my actual rate is $250/hr.
Monthly, I take my earnings, deduct incall expenses, gas, tools like condoms and lube, and testing. I divide that between the hours I worked... I'm not a clock watcher so a one hour date can easily end up being an hour +15. That all adds up. So yeah, in the end it works out to less than 100/hr. And that doesn't even include travel time, or time spent on calls and emails. If I worked that out, I'd be depressed with my actual bring home per hour rate.
So anyway.... A sugar daddy isn't going to be on a clock. Take that $1000 for two meetings a month, figure in that each meeting is going to be at least a couple of hours... Let's say three if he wants to have dinner and/ or any conversation though that's being conservative, already you're at $500 meeting or baseline $166 hr compared to my baseline $250 hr.
Without even taking any expenses into consideration, the sugarbabe is much cheaper than an escort. When you add in additional time spent on calls, emails, travel time and expenses like makeup, car fuel, clothes, etc her per hour rate can easily end up being around $50. Forget it if he wants to meet three times in a month...
I'd rather be an escort.
An actual sugardaddy can afford to make all that worthwhile. $1000 wouldn't even secure my rent... NOW there's nothing wrong with a guy helping a girl out and giving her some money... That would make him a cool guy to hang with and get some money from, but that doesn't make him a sugardaddy.
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
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Originally Posted by
Obenta
You're wrong on this point and it's obvious that you haven't spent much time (if any?) in the "Online Fake Sugar Daddy World".
The reality is that these meetings often include a meal, and are "clock-free", which means it's a minimum of 2h - 3h (or maybe even 4h+ each). These "fake SD's" also generally expect emails, texting, talking on the phone, etc etc etc etc....
Do the math on that and you'll see they are, indeed looking for cheap escort.
Two - 2h meetings per month (4hrs total) + 6hrs of emails, texting, talking on the phone = 10hrs/month spent feeding fake SD's ego, plus sucking & fucking for only $100 per hour.
A much more likely scenario is:
Two - 3h meetings per month (6hrs total) + 10hrs of emails, texting, talking on the phone = 16hrs/month spent feeding fake SD's ego, plus sucking & fucking for only $62.50 per hour.
The rest of your post is just you explaining why such an arrangement is desireable to these men. Yea, we already know all the reasons it's good for HIM. Durrr..
WE WOMEN are discussing why it's NOT a good arrangement for THE WOMEN.
Hi Obenta:
The scenario you describe includes 10hrs of e-mails, texting talking etc. Men that are looking for this are looking for much more than sex. That would explain why they don't use escorts, as most escorts don't provide these additional services (i.e. hours of texting and phone calls). The guys you are describing sound like they want real relationships, why else would they want to spend so much time talking to the SB? If they just wanted sex they should be happy to skip the meals and texting.
I'm sure there are men who want to spend hours taking/texting to random women on the internet. But many just want to get intimate with a hot young lady. They have their wives, friends, girlfriends, relatives for chatting and the like.
The rest of the e-mail also describes why some women, including the original OP, are ok/prefer an arrangement where the women receive $xx for each meeting rather than a conventional escort who sees a wider variety of men.
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Originally Posted by
luke
Hi Obenta:
The scenario you describe includes 10hrs of e-mails, texting talking etc. Men that are looking for this are looking for much more than sex. That would explain why they don't use escorts, as most escorts don't provide these additional services (i.e. hours of texting and phone calls). ...The rest of the e-mail also describes why some women, including the original OP, are ok/prefer an arrangement where the women receive $xx for each meeting rather than a conventional escort who sees a wider variety of men.
So what you're saying is that the potential "SD" is sort of in a grey area between sugar and escorting. He wants a real connection with someone he views to be somewhat safe in that "what he doesn't know won't hurt him" and as a "non-pro" he believes she's not seeing other clients.
He doesn't want to see an escort because the idea of an escort is too transactional, too volume-oriented for him (whether or not that's actually true). He believes she'd watch the clock and give him an STD.
He doesn't want sugar because he just wants sex, with a small sexual connection and perhaps some low maintenance texting or talking in between. Perhaps he's cheating on his wife and doesn't want a "paper trail" to catch him but does want someone to have sex with him and at least pretend to like him.
Is that right? So you're saying that this guy thinks he wants a sugar baby when what he really wants is an escort who isn't a pro so this would be a good thing for someone who doesn't have the time or the desire to be a SB but isn't ready to throw herself into full time escorting?
Oh, and not but so germane to the topic, but grammar nazi me had to point it out: Just so you know, "OP" stands for "original poster" so you don't have to say "original op"
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
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IsobelWren
So what you're saying is that the potential "SD" is sort of in a grey area between sugar and escorting. He wants a real connection with someone he views to be somewhat safe in that "what he doesn't know won't hurt him" and as a "non-pro" he believes she's not seeing other clients.
He doesn't want to see an escort because the idea of an escort is too transactional, too volume-oriented for him (whether or not that's actually true). He believes she'd watch the clock and give him an STD.
He doesn't want sugar because he just wants sex, with a small sexual connection and perhaps some low maintenance texting or talking in between. Perhaps he's cheating on his wife and doesn't want a "paper trail" to catch him but does want someone to have sex with him and at least pretend to like him.
Is that right? So you're saying that this guy thinks he wants a sugar baby when what he really wants is an escort who isn't a pro so this would be a good thing for someone who doesn't have the time or the desire to be a SB but isn't ready to throw herself into full time escorting?
Oh, and not but so germane to the topic, but grammar nazi me had to point it out: Just so you know, "OP" stands for "original poster" so you don't have to say "original op"
For the most your summary is correct although I didn't mention STDs or mean to imply that I thought this was a good arrangement for the lady. I'm not sure guys think STDs are more prevalent among escorts than SBs, I just don't know.
I don't know if this is a good deal for a lady. That would be up to her. I do know there are some women who are looking for this type of deal, or at least that's what they told me and those were the reasons (they don't like to idea of sleeping with more than one man and/or someone they are not attracted to) they gave me. But maybe they thought that's what I wanted to hear and were lying and just looking for more customers. One thing I have noticed on the SB sites is the women almost always want to see a picture right away. This leads me to think some of the women on these sites are looking for a guy they find somewhat attractive. I don't think many conventional escorts ask for pics or really care what the guy looks like.
Whether or not "sugar" is the right term for these types of arrangements is debatable. Many on this board don't think these would qualify as sugar relationships.
Maybe we need a new term for these types of relationships? Any suggestions? Maybe saccharine Daddy? Kind of sweet but not quite sugar:)
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Originally Posted by
luke
I don't know if this is a good deal for a lady. That would be up to her. I do know there are some women who are looking for this type of deal, or at least that's what they told me and those were the reasons (they don't like to idea of sleeping with more than one man and/or someone they are not attracted to) they gave me. But maybe they thought that's what I wanted to hear and were lying and just looking for more customers. One thing I have noticed on the SB sites is the women almost always want to see a picture right away. This leads me to think some of the women on these sites are looking for a guy they find somewhat attractive. I don't think many conventional escorts ask for pics or really care what the guy looks like.
Whether or not "sugar" is the right term for these types of arrangements is debatable. Many on this board don't think these would qualify as sugar relationships.
Maybe we need a new term for these types of relationships? Any suggestions? Maybe saccharine Daddy? Kind of sweet but not quite sugar:)
All I was doing is attempting to rephrase what it was you were saying, since it seems like a lot of the girls didn't understand what you were trying to get across.
I think that escorts would appreciate it if receiving only clients who were attractive the them was possible. It's just not generally in the job description. You hire an escort and you can expect that, as long as you're polite, respectful and clean, you'll be seen and she will treat you well. Escorts are allowed to be picky if they'd like to be, but a true professional knows how to find attractiveness in any man and performs her job accordingly. ;) There's more than one reason they're called pros.
My "who this would be good for" was in the vein of rephrasing so that people could see the upsides of what you said. I do think that the half sugar/half escort niche is a valuable one that is under served and overlooked. Lots of guys who don't think they want an escort think they want sugar but really want just the sex and companionship (that an escort would be more than happy and able to provide) would love this grey area. Lots of women who have tried being sugar babies and didn't like the time investment but aren't ready to jump directly into escorting or women who have a partner and can't devote the time to sugar or full time escorting would also find fulfillment in this.
LOL at saccharine daddy. Perhaps, now we have to make it catch on. It's apt. You're looking for sugar lite and escorting lite, so why not.
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Re: Another quick SUGARDADDY question..call him right away?
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IsobelWren
LOL at saccharine daddy. Perhaps, now we have to make it catch on. It's apt. You're looking for sugar lite and escorting lite, so why not.
One of my escort friends refer to this type of situation as having a Saccharine Uncle
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