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I think I just COMPLETELY flipped my niche.
For those of you who haven't seen me say it, I cam for SM primarily. I'm approved at MFC but the last time I attempted it a model logged in my room and goes "Do you even know what you're doing?" and I was like *die inside a little* and went back to SM... lol
ANYWAYYYSSSS I always ramble. I have long blonde hair, fair skin.. well I look like my avi because thats me. I've always had piercings and I have a giant tattoo on my hip all my custies have seen so I think they knew there was a more "alternative" side to me. But now my dimples are healed and I dyed part of my hair super duper hot pink.
https://p.twimg.com/AhYJ04ZCQAAmbVc.jpg:large
Is it as huge as a difference as I am thinking the guys will take it? All of you talking about playing up your niches and whatnot are freaking me out now that I did that. I stumbled on something like "...you worry about a haircut because it might change your niche." in "You Know You're a Camgirl When..." and people agreed and now I'm freaking out.
lol is it a huge of a deal as I am making it? I mean I've had gauged ears and tattoos and my nose and tongue. but cheeks and pink hair are extreme!!!
and juuuust out of curiosity do yall like it? lol :)
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you are adorable! and I don't think that the hair color change with affect your niche in the slightest.
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I like it, you're young so you can do pretty much anything..Cute!
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Gorgeous!
I love the pink in your hair:)
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awww thank you girls!!!! but can someone elaborate for me then a little more on niches and the importance of remaining a certain way and whatnot??? I know its to KEEP a steady fanbase but I mean... idk I'm kinda confused. Not on WHAT a niche is, just on do yall really worry about changing their appearance a lot? Like dying your hair or cutting it?
I just wanna know how aware I really need to be.
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I think you look really amazing! I love piercings, have a bunch myself :P and I used to have hot pink hair, haha. I'm sure they'll love it!
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I think before, you were girl next door (the tattoo could be hidden under clothes) and now you're alternative. I do think you've flipped it a bit. Cheek piercings are still considered an extreme mod in some circles. The color by itself wouldn't have done it. It's the piercings. Just my POV. It's part of the reason I flip my septum up and wear a retainer in my medusa. I'm still clearly alt, but I understand that these men are shallow and I'd rather not alienate the more discerning gents so I "soften it up".
I think it's cute though and you shouldn't freak out about it too much. For every guy who decides no me gusta, there is another that just went "hell yeah!". :) Also, don't pay attention to model criticism. It's always from a envious place (she should have been working, not watching you) and you're not on cam to appeal to HER. You're on cam to appeal to your customers.
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I honestly don't think that guys notice everything we think they do. I usually have a mohawk and every once in awhile I'll wear a cute black bob wig and some guy will say, "hey, you look different...new cut?"
It looks super cute! You might lose a few customers, but you'll earn a few more along the way! And in my experience, regulars like YOU, not what you're wearing or what your hair looks like.
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Thanks Spinerette! I had them done in my pre-camming days but since I started camming like I said all I had was nose and tongue which are both pretty subtle. Do you EVER do shows with your medusa and septum jewelry in just to show guys whats up? lol Or is it just not part of your cam persona and thats that?
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Aww you look so cute, just like a little doll!
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LilyLaineXXX
Thanks Spinerette! I had them done in my pre-camming days but since I started camming like I said all I had was nose and tongue which are both pretty subtle. Do you EVER do shows with your medusa and septum jewelry in just to show guys whats up? lol Or is it just not part of your cam persona and thats that?
Rarely. :( In the end, it actually has little to do with not wanting the guys to know I have them (the ones who comment on my mods ask about how many others I have anyway). It's more because I'm too lazy to keep switching my jewelry around. :D BUT I also know that my septum and philthrum in combination with the fact that I also have both of my nostrils pierced can be "too much" for some people so I tone it down.
...and I feel a rant about why that is coming on and I don't have the words to explain it properly so :-X.
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^I continue to think Spinnerette you and I are the same person haha, I wear clear retainers as well for similar reasons. It is both to 'get into character' and Id just rather not bother customers know I have them.
Ive tried them with them in for about a month - I attracted better conversationalists and attractive younger guys with mods also, but I felt too... not my cam persona, so I stopped. No solid rationale except I like to 'be in character' and looking more like my off-cam self threw me off... but you still have a super cute teenybop feminine look, so you will still attract guys into the round face adorableness but you just have more of an alt edge. If you were supa-glam or something beforehand then that would be a total 180 but this is... certainly a change but not extreme. Like Avril Lavigne or Ashlee Simpson... instead of, idk, Girl With the Dragon Tattoo.
(which would be hot haha but that is a 180)
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Your hair is epic and you are still you after all!
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Roast I was hoping you would reply to this. I saw it in an "Ashlee Simpson/Avril" cutesy-mod on my little round face and chubby cheeks lol so thats why I did it. Then I start scrolling through SW and like I said that one comment on "You know you're a cam girl when.." just made me start worrying!!! But I just did all my make up and I'm picking out my panties right now and about to get to WORK! :D So excited! Its been like 2 weeks I'm craving the cam! lol!
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With cam lashes and cam make-up:
EDIT: AGH it was HUGE! here's the link https://p.twimg.com/AhYs9ijCAAAuW-E.jpg:large
Sorry if that is HUGE I'm a noob and don't know how to resize. Is the make-up too dark? I'm just confused what I'm considered now. If I'm alternative, guys are going to be disappointed when I'm not some hardcore punk chick that listens to indie bands.
I really think I'm way overthinking this... I think my mentality should be "This shows I'm WILD and FUN but still cute/teenybopper" because I do still look 12 pretty much lol.
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You look very MFC. . sure you could def do that again
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Ah, roast nailed it. My type of alt isn't "feminine" off cam. XD I couldn't quite put my finger on it, but that's pretty much the gist of the rant I deleted, haha. Sucky compromise though, innit? I love good conversation with tattooed hotties, but it's an uncomfortable sort of clashing of the two worlds and I don't want that. I need the disconnect for sanity purposes.
(although I am very slowly transforming into my cam persona since it's "who I am" for exceedingly long stints daily. talk about an identity crisis)
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Spinerette and Roast yall are gonna get my hopes up. Yall got me thinking I'm going to log in SM and start getting C2C requests with tattooed yummy men like crazy. lol
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LilyLaineXXX
Spinerette and Roast yall are gonna get my hopes up. Yall got me thinking I'm going to log in SM and start getting C2C requests with tattooed yummy men like crazy. lol
No hopes...just relish it when it happens. :biggrin:
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logging on now lets see!!!!! :D wish my new alt look LUCK! lol!
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Originally Posted by
LilyLaineXXX
But now my dimples are healed and I dyed part of my hair super duper hot pink.
I have to ask if you know that any pics you post in here like this will end up on google, where they can be checked for other similar related images, so people can find you very, very easily! If you're ok with people knowing what you do then fine, but otherwise i'd delete that pic of your face and make sure not to post ones like that in forums or as your avatar:O
To answer your question, you look cute :) I don't think guys mind at all when we change stuff up like this. Unless you go from hardcore, leather wearing, whip weilding domme, to this more cute, bouncy look, it won't be any great problem ;D
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Awww you look so cute! I like it! :3 Your face is quite round and feminine :P I bet you get a lot of privates hehe
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I agree there are a lot of alternative girls on MFC. Shouldn't let some model talk you out of anything, screw her, and next time use the ban button, or better yet set your preferences so models can't come in!
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SweetPinkCupcake
You look very MFC. . sure you could def do that again
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I despise when camgirls try to put other camgirls down...You were obviously doing something right for her to be in ur room lol....But I love the hot pink! :10: U look super cute...IMO, I find that regulars stay regulars because of ur personality. They love interacting with YOU! lol so as long as that stays the same, I doubt they're going anywhere...best of luck ;)