Re: no limits private party
I have strict limits. I do not allow touching or do anything sexual with myself or anyone else. I do not stick anything in me or allow others to. Has it cost me jobs? Sure but I don't care, I'd rather walk about with just the money they paid me then walk out with thousands having done what I consider immoral, like sex with customers.
Re: no limits private party
It is extremely important to discuss boundaries with customers and other girls before the party, in detail (Is kissing okay? Touching? What are their interactions with customers?). I work parties and private shows (no sex just lap dances and maybe a toy if they tip enough), and I do toy shows with other girls, but there are some girls I do not like to work with because they are either too rough or too stand-offish. Hopefully you can find girls who you work well with. You will need to set your own price limit so you feel comfortable with how much you're getting paid with how much you did.
If you were waitressing and not engaging in this, it sounds like it may be more contact than you're comfortable with. Are you just going to be waitressing or will you be eventually dancing? I've known certain things to be off limits from the start, and a couple times I've had something happen that I wasn't quite comfortable with so now I know when to stop or what to do to prevent it from happening.
That said, regarding toy shows, much of the "sex" is faking it. At least when we're eating each other out. However, even though I am okay with toy shows, I have limits in how far I go or what toys I use. If I don't like the guys I will either refuse to do the show or charge more for it. I also set out a blanket and tell them if anyone steps on it I will immediately stop the show and leave. Same goes with inappropriate comments, "advice" on what I should be doing, or if I see any cell phones or cameras.
I'm sorry to hear this show was so crazy. Hopefully you can discuss with other girls what their limits are in detail and how much they charge so you can find out what feels right for you. Good luck!
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i have just started dancing at a club, which is just stripping and lap dances, was asked if i was interested in waitressing at a party and i don't plan on doing what i seen at the private party
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I have 2 rates for my parties.. if they want me to get wild and naughty then I charge 400/hour and pretty much it ends up being pretty much anything goes.. the lessor rate just gets alapdance for the bachelor and a floor show...
The more they pay the more Ill do...
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what you mean anything goes, you have sex with them?
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SkylerSixx
I have 2 rates for my parties.. if they want me to get wild and naughty then I charge 400/hour and pretty much it ends up being pretty much anything goes.. the lessor rate just gets alapdance for the bachelor and a floor show...
The more they pay the more Ill do...
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I think $400/hour would be pretty cheap for an "anything goes" party. Most men would interpret that as unlimited sex for anyone there.
My friend and I were paid like $175/hour each plus tips and gas for a bachelor party. We did a few dances for $20 and of course the bachelor's dances were included in the fee. Most of the time we were in our street clothes acting like "hosts" and these guys were pretty intoxicated. It was a bunch of doctors from out of state staying in a suite in a well known hotel owned by a casino in downtown Detroit.
With that said, there was obviously no extras provided at this party. So if you figure there will be at least ten guys attending this "anything goes" party you could very well be asked to have sex with all of them and/or participate in a gang bang/be photographed. I'd be pretty careful wording it as "anything goes". Frankly, most bachelor parties don't last more than 2-4 hours for the dancers unless it's a big event so you're probably looking at $800-1600 tops for having sex with 10+ men. When you configure gas and security costs (I hope you'd bring security) take about $100 off that.
You could quite easily make $800-$1600 for an appointment with one client for 2-4 hours providing "anything goes". The notion of giving "anything" at a bachelor party for $400/hour is ludicrous to me. Also, what if these guys only want you to stay for an hour? They give you $400, everyone pounces on you in the first half hour, and you leave with $400. Do you really want to have a gang bang for $400? I doubt it.
I'd outline your parameters of "what goes" for $400/hour from the get-go and get your money upfront, come with security too. $400/hour is a steep rate for a bachelor party without sex, no doubt, but you need to set some boundaries and preferably a time minimum if you are going to stick to your original "anything goes". I'd say 5 hour minimum and limit the activities for this "anything goes" deal.
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I have security,and its really just toys, more contact etc... I generally book at 90 minutes so say 600..
Re: no limits private party
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Laurisa
I think $400/hour would be pretty cheap for an "anything goes" party. Most men would interpret that as unlimited sex for anyone there.
My friend and I were paid like $175/hour each plus tips and gas for a bachelor party. We did a few dances for $20 and of course the bachelor's dances were included in the fee. Most of the time we were in our street clothes acting like "hosts" and these guys were pretty intoxicated. It was a bunch of doctors from out of state staying in a suite in a well known hotel owned by a casino in downtown Detroit.
With that said, there was obviously no extras provided at this party. So if you figure there will be at least ten guys attending this "anything goes" party you could very well be asked to have sex with all of them and/or participate in a gang bang/be photographed. I'd be pretty careful wording it as "anything goes". Frankly, most bachelor parties don't last more than 2-4 hours for the dancers unless it's a big event so you're probably looking at $800-1600 tops for having sex with 10+ men. When you configure gas and security costs (I hope you'd bring security) take about $100 off that.
You could quite easily make $800-$1600 for an appointment with one client for 2-4 hours providing "anything goes". The notion of giving "anything" at a bachelor party for $400/hour is ludicrous to me. Also, what if these guys only want you to stay for an hour? They give you $400, everyone pounces on you in the first half hour, and you leave with $400. Do you really want to have a gang bang for $400? I doubt it.
I'd outline your parameters of "what goes" for $400/hour from the get-go and get your money upfront, come with security too. $400/hour is a steep rate for a bachelor party without sex, no doubt, but you need to set some boundaries and preferably a time minimum if you are going to stick to your original "anything goes". I'd say 5 hour minimum and limit the activities for this "anything goes" deal.
so you have had sex with customers at show before?
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Where did I say that? In fact, I said "with that said, there was obviously no extras provided at this party".
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I couldn't imagine walking out with $400 after an hour of having sex with many men. I've walked out with over $600 with no contact pretty hard to imagine having sex for less. I'm not an escort but if I was I'd rather make that amount or more doing one on one instead of a gang bang which sounds dangerous.
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Well, one of my customers who is my regular (domination/sub guy) is an attorney and he said that if he doesn't work for 1/3 of the winnings from a lawsuit he charges $400/hour.
If I'm fucking someone I better make more than a doctor or lawyer hourly...so I'd imagine $500/hour would be a start.
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