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I'm not that flexible!!!!! *RANT Alert*
Ugh just needed to rant about how DEMANDING some guys are! I was in free chat and a viewer I've never seen before told me he wanted me to try a new position. I tried getting into the position in free chat with clothes on but it was REALLY uncomfortable on my knees and I told him so. He was like, "Just forget the pain and focus on pleasing me." Then he took me exclusive, and trying to make that dollar I tried my best to accomodate him. But guess what- I'm not a freaking contortionist! I should have just blocked him when he kept demanding. Now I'm afraid he'll leave me a bad rating because writhing in pain is Not Sexy. Or maybe that was what he was after this whole time? Ugh!
/End rant.
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LOL! What was the position? Maybe you could post a naked pic of you doing it, bb!! Hehe.
I can get both legs behind my head and if I could actually get a fist in I could reach to do that. What saddens me is that I can't do the splits! :-(
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does this really warrant a new thread? shit like this happens everyday. im sick of these lame threads. there should be a thread called "lame things newbies start threads about" where all you girls can post this nonsense.
seriously. enough with the "rants".
maybe today i will take detailed notes about every position every guy wants me to be in, how far he wants me to put my dildo in my mouth, how many ass to mouth requests i get, how many guys call me "mommy", etc and start a whole new thread about it.
or maybe i won't bc i'm camming to make money. so everytime some guy annoys me or is rude to me i will brush it off and never think about it again.
toughen up and enough with the lame threads.
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Originally Posted by
LAChloe
does this really warrant a new thread? shit like this happens everyday. im sick of these lame threads. there should be a thread called "lame things newbies start threads about" where all you girls can post this nonsense.
seriously. enough with the "rants".
maybe today i will take detailed notes about every position every guy wants me to be in, how far he wants me to put my dildo in my mouth, how many ass to mouth requests i get, how many guys call me "mommy", etc and start a whole new thread about it.
or maybe i won't bc i'm camming to make money. so everytime some guy annoys me or is rude to me i will brush it off and never think about it again.
toughen up and enough with the lame threads.
honestly im tired of all the threads being so serious, its a forum. we're supposed to be able to talk about the industry (likes and dislikes) with girls who knows what its like.
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msmochaxx
honestly im tired of all the threads being so serious, its a forum. we're supposed to be able to talk about the industry (likes and dislikes) with girls who knows what its like.
somethings do not require a thread. when there are a million threads than the actual important stuff gets lost because of nonsense. if you have nonsense stuff to talk about- cool. write it in the diary section. i read that section everyday. it's great. check it out.
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Chloe, I'm sorry that you feel this is a lame thread. Perhaps I should have found another rant to post a reply to rather than starting a new thread. That being said, I've been camming for over a year (only seriously for the past 3 months) and in that time I've never had anyone in my "real life" that I can talk about with it with. Even though my friends and family know what I do they don't really understand how mentally and emotionally draining this line of work can be sometimes. It's very isolating to not be able to discuss my day with my loved ones like most people in vanilla jobs are able to. I thought this would be an appropriate place to express myself and even to post a work related rant every now and then, since you ladies actually "get it."
If I'm overstepping my bounds then I apologize, but sometimes a girl just needs to be able to get things off her chest. I know I've read quite a few posts by other girls who experience some of the BS that I do on cam and it reassures me to know that I'm not the only one that deals with so much crap at work. I did not start this thread to be told that I'm a lame newbie, but because I know that some people will read it and realize that we all encounter crappy shows sometimes and it's perfectly normal no matter what level of performer you are.
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Vlodina
LOL! What was the position? Maybe you could post a naked pic of you doing it, bb!! Hehe.
LMAO thank you for making me smile :)
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Thank you, Courtney. It's nothing personal. It's just frustrating to me when I have to go through so many threads (many on the same topic that has just been answered over and over again) to get to stuff that will actually help me on cam.
I will say I am PMSing and easily annoyed. I am sorry I took it out on you.
(hugs)
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Why did you cater to him in free and then let him boss you around on something you obviously didn't want to really do in private? Block him and anyone else with that demanding pattern. Otherwise you will get used up and burned out on this job. So toughen up and have some back bone.
And I agree with Chloe, these types of posts need to be posted in the Diary thread.
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Originally Posted by
LAChloe
somethings do not require a thread. when there are a million threads than the actual important stuff gets lost because of nonsense. if you have nonsense stuff to talk about- cool. write it in the diary section. i read that section everyday. it's great. check it out.
but you cant get replies in that thread
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CourtneyRaine
LMAO thank you for making me smile :)
Seriously, where's my pic??? Lol. You can email it to me at [email protected]
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I do not wanna be rude, but... If you are thinking so much about some asshole who was not happy (or maybe was, as you not even sure about it yourself), what are you gonna do if some guy comes in to your room and calls you the ugliest or fattest thing he has ever seen on earth... Who fucking cares, lol... I find it funny how this is "emotionally draining"... So what if he wasn't happy, if he haven't rated the show he will never come back and do it... just get over it already and move on. You need tough skin for camming, not the one what can be scratched easily by a guy who may have not been happy with your show...
And I think we should just dedicate one treat to "rants about camming", so we do not have one new tread every day with "rant" in a topic, just saying...
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msmochaxx
but you cant get replies in that thread
why can't you? just quote it and reply like we are doing here.
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Originally Posted by
msmochaxx
but you cant get replies in that thread
You don't need it for a rant. A rant is just a rant.
Someone could make an official rant thread. And then someone could make an Offical New girl thread and if those cut down on the amount of posts here in CC my dreams might just come true.
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LAChloe
why can't you? just quote it and reply like we are doing here.
its in the rules. but i Hayden is right you shouldnt need replies to a rant lol i like people to rant with me though when i rant...but yeah the OP of the diary thread says not to quote other peoples entries because she wants it to read like a book
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Don't even take requests in free chat. NeveR. I don't show my ass or stand up, ever. I still get privates and make money.
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I'm just as tired as everyone else is of the same kinds of things being posted over and over but this is a unique story and it's a funny rant. I'm right there w/MsMocha that things have gotten awfully serious around here lately.
Perhaps if we post replies to redundant threads or threads that would be better off as additions to other threads saying so, giving the links to the relevant similar threads or the thread it should be attached to new visitors would learn what's appropriate and people would still have fun.
Courtney, the "stupid annoying bullshit I've heard on cam" thread would be a good one to put this story in and it's a hilarious read, too
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...d.php?t=146917
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The rudeness needs to stop. If you don't like a thread then don't reply. I'm sick of seeing all the cattiness. I feel like a broken record. I was nice and just gave out warnings this time but next time will be infractions. Many of you already have previous infractions so the next one will result in a 3 day ban... just sayin'.
Why doesn't someone make a Rants and Vents thread for Camming??? I will even make it a sticky. Or if someone wants to take the time to find a bunch of threads for newbs and put them into one whole thread for easy access, then I will gladly make that a sticky as well. Just please stop with the bitchiness!!
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Thank you ladies for hearing me out, even if I should have posted in a more appropriate pre-existing thread *bows head in shame*
And Chloe, no offense at all taken at all my dear. You're one of the girls whose comments on other posts I always read because I often find you have insight that is very clear and helpful, as all of you wonderful ladies do. In the future I promise to post rants in the rant section :)
I have found myself developing a thick skin on cam, although sometimes it wears a little thin. I've had guys call me fat, ugly, a whore, and all types of nastiness that used to crush me and literally make me cry a year ago. Now it's like, meh, whatever. I think what bothered me most about that show I did today wasn't really the fact that the guy was asking for something I'm not 100% comfortable with, but that I gave in to it. Usually I am very firm with my boundaries and I've had no problems with getting great regulars and awesome shows without having to push things too far. I just have some short term financial goals that are very important to me, and today I decided to do something I didn't want to just to make a few bucks. I did this during 3 hows today, actually. It made me feel cheap, but I know no one is to blame but me because I could have put an end to it before it got too uncomfortable. I guess it's true what they say: sometimes money is too expensive.
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HaydenBlue
Why did you cater to him in free and then let him boss you around on something you obviously didn't want to really do in private? Block him and anyone else with that demanding pattern. Otherwise you will get used up and burned out on this job. So toughen up and have some back bone.
And I agree with Chloe, these types of posts need to be posted in the Diary thread.
Exactly what I was thinking.
I never cater to men in free chat. All they get in free chat is light banter and proof I am who my pictures say I am. If they tip I will get up and show a little off, ie some ass and some tits depending on the tip, but all the beggers can fuck off. Heck I even limit the amount of "sex chat" I do in free chat. They are allowed to ask a few sexual questions, but if it gets to be excessive (ie a conversation) they are told to go private and if they don't I kick them out! You ain't getting off for free in my room!
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I hate the flexy stuff lol...I can hold my split for about 2 seconds then it hurts like hell....Had one custie who was getting on my nerves....In prv,..."oil up bb"...."split bb"..."shake ur ass while u split"...."fuck the dildo while u split"..."put more oil on bb" LMAO....I wanted to punch the damn screen in ughhhhh lol
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OJenni!
Exactly what I was thinking.
I never cater to men in free chat. All they get in free chat is light banter and proof I am who my pictures say I am. If they tip I will get up and show a little off, ie some ass and some tits depending on the tip, but all the beggers can fuck off. Heck I even limit the amount of "sex chat" I do in free chat. They are allowed to ask a few sexual questions, but if it gets to be excessive (ie a conversation) they are told to go private and if they don't I kick them out! You ain't getting off for free in my room!
I don't discuss anything sexual in free chat i.e...."how many guys l fucked"...."what's ur fave position"...Ask me in private bb lol
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THIS is why I'm afraid to make posts on this forum anymore! I'm tired of all the cattiness. You make women - especially women in this industry - look bad! You make it look as if you're all out for yourselves and you're not willing to help people or talk to people.
From the outside, it looks like you're all in competition. If you're truly willing to help people out on this website, then be polite and guide them! I'm really sick of everyone's attitude problems on here. I think those are the most annoying threads to read through. Not the redundant or similar threads.
I have never seen a forum in all my life where people have been so picky about which questions people should ask or which threads are acceptable to open. Use the thread as you should, imo! I have never had these strict rules on other forums, and I've been to various forums for over 10 years! It really doesn't make sense why you need to be so catty over such a trivial thing...
Old threads die. People HATE bumping old threads from what I've known and seen. After all, information changes over the years. Threads need to be updated or changed. They need new stuff, new flavor.
This is why I lurk so much. I only read to get more information. However, I read enough to know all that I need to know about camming. If there's new information, then have a post for it. No problemo. If you really need to have all these old threads, bookmark them, sticky them, do SOMETHING with them. It's not like they're easy to find anyway!
There are *certain* people that just should not post if they're having an off day or if they're simply PMSing. It just ruins this forum for the rest of us!
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Yes! let's please stop these mean posts....We are supposed to be helping and supporting others...the main reasons why camgirls (esp myself) turn to this forum is because it's nice to know that we aren't alone...A lot of us are secretly doing this, I know I am...So it's very nice and refreshing when u can unwind and talk to other camgirls and maybe share a laugh together...What's so wrong with that?...I used to love CC but now I feel like it's going downhill because everyone wants to be mean...everyone wants to call people out...If I don't like something, I simply don't post
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I'm just going to throw this one out there, there is a thread in the Ladies Section called "The Bitch, Whine, and Complain Thread" if you have rants go there or do it in the camming diary. There doesn't need to be a ton of "rant" threads it's completely unnecessary when you can post things like these in those threads.