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How to spot a time waster
I'm not talking about the 'maybe later' guys or the 'I'm just here to watch' guys, I'm talking about the guys who deliberately lead you on and make you think they'll get a dance when no, they know full well they won't. Here are my red flags:
When you ask for a dance he doesn't say yes or no but instead ignores it and asks you a question that's completely unrelated.
Talks about how much money he makes then tries to haggle dances then talks about how much money he makes
When asked for a dance says "don't worry, I'll look after you". He won't.
Says "do you want to work or have fun?"
Says he'll get a dance in a few minutes/after this drink so you sit and chat for 5-10 mins and ask again and again he says in a few minutes or still thinking about it (these are the most annoying as they say they WILL get a dance then don't)
You've seen them checking out every girl there in a very obvious way but hasn't gone for a dance with any of the girls that approach him.
He tries to put his arm around you/grab you before you've even said hello.
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When they say they're also in sales and "get" it.
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I can't remember who said it but recently I read in a thread :
when they give you lots of compliments and try to make you stay longer for free
also basically any guy that says he's not quite ready in my experience won't be ready later and you're wasting your time if you stay another second
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"Will you marry me/hang out with me/come to my hotel room later?" Might buy a few dances, usually a time waster.
Any guy who gets handsy/breaks all kinds of rules, then acts like a whiny two year old when you lay down the law. Not gonna willingly part with his money, and even if he DOES, it's gonna be a nightmare.
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'I know how it works, I used to date a stripper'
Guys that try to 'help' you by giving you tips on how to hustle. I.e 'no that's not how you ask for a dance, you should...' often 'you need to spend some time and talk to a guy first'
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Lol, these make me laugh but it's all true!
Also, oftentimes they'll go above and beyond trying to dress up. They want to try to trick you into thinking he's got money or is famous or whatever.
And, they claim they make a living as a musician, artist, producer, promoter, event planner, some obscure business owner etc. Want you to think they have more money and prestige than the regular joe next to him with a packed wallet. May even try to get you to go to one of his events or insist on giving you a business card right away.
Best fast hustle approach to these is to go along with it and act impressed, and *immediately* respond with a closing line since ya know they have so much money and all he obviously doesn't wanna wait for service. If they can actually afford it he will get a dance just because he doesn't want his ego bruised and you catch him off guard by playing into his game (bc his friends and family have long given up lol). Something to the extend of, "wow someone as powerful/rich/important/talented as you must be ready for the Very Important Person treatment with *me*" Even if you only do one regular dance and you know that's all he's got in him, act a little starstruck and assume he's gonna spoil you rotten, and see how far he'll deliver. ;) Afterall, that's the fantasy he's coming in here for.
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Agreed with all of the above. I have found that generally speaking the biggest spenders are NEVER the guys who are dressed the best. The guys in suits generally are timewasters unless it's during lunch times or early evening. The biggest one though is the guys who will try right away to learn a lot about you and want to know your "real" name then mention they are there to find a girlfriend. While a few will spend money thinking they can get a girlfriend, for the most part they don't.
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Guys who ask you "How much money have you made tonight?" or "How much money do you make here?" are a huge waste of time.
Don't worry about how much money I make, not your business.
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Some things I've noticed about time wasters:
- "Thug" types, of any race. If they look like they are straight out of the hood then they are usually time wasters. They have that "cum drink wit me lil mama and ill make you mah gurl" attitude.
- Extremely drunk customers, or ones clearly high on drugs
- Rowdy groups of guys, the ones hooting and hollering are usually rude and their antics make it difficult to divide and conquer in the way of sales.
- A group of guys eating expensive food with drinks in a private booth. They never seem to be an easy sale and always want to have you hang out for an hour for drinks. Sometimes they will tip you, but you should always negotiate a price for your time at their table upfront.
- Bachelor parties. Honestly, most of the time there is no 'leader' of the pack and they all say "oh yeah lets get him a dance, we'll all talk about it". They act as if $5 toward the bachelor's dance from each person should be discussed in great detail.
- Women who are 40+ and with their husband. I can't quite figure out why they even bother to come in. They never get dances and the women usually look appalled when you go on stage because you get naked.
- Guys with $50+ in singles on their table who are hanging out $1-2 per dancer when there are 4-5 guys at the table. They usually take 2 hours to get rid of the money and don't get dances, they are "just there to watch and catch up".
- Groups of guys with someone from out of town who is just visiting. They always seem to want to catch up with each other and never want to get dances. They always make excuses.
- Guys smoking cigars. They sit there ALL NIGHT puffing on a cigar on and off and bullshit like they are Al Pacino.
- Guys who want to know your whole life story.
**Red flag questions, I usually excuse myself if they ask two or more of these at the table**
- Do you go to school?
- What do you do for a living? Or Do you do anything else?
- What city do you live in?
- What kind of car do you drive?
- What clubs have you stripped at?
- Why did you get into stripping?
- How much do you make?
- Is it usually this busy/slow?
- What do you do during dances?
- Do you offer extras?
- What time do you get off work?
- Do you do private parties?
- Did your piercings hurt?
Blah blah blah. They are all time wasters until proven otherwise by spending money on me.
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"Have you gone on stage yet? When do you go on stage? I want to see you on stage!"
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"I want to see everyone on stage before I choose". Which could take hours depending on the number of dancers working.
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ME: Come and have a dance?
REPLY:
"oh but i can't dance"
OR
"Can I give you a dance?" as he starts imitating a stripper dancing, in front of his friends while they laugh....
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Originally Posted by
Laurisa
Some things I've noticed about time wasters:
- "Thug" types, of any race. If they look like they are straight out of the hood then they are usually time wasters. They have that "cum drink wit me lil mama and ill make you mah gurl" attitude.
- Extremely drunk customers, or ones clearly high on drugs
- Rowdy groups of guys, the ones hooting and hollering are usually rude and their antics make it difficult to divide and conquer in the way of sales.
- A group of guys eating expensive food with drinks in a private booth. They never seem to be an easy sale and always want to have you hang out for an hour for drinks. Sometimes they will tip you, but you should always negotiate a price for your time at their table upfront.
- Bachelor parties. Honestly, most of the time there is no 'leader' of the pack and they all say "oh yeah lets get him a dance, we'll all talk about it". They act as if $5 toward the bachelor's dance from each person should be discussed in great detail.
- Women who are 40+ and with their husband. I can't quite figure out why they even bother to come in. They never get dances and the women usually look appalled when you go on stage because you get naked.
- Guys with $50+ in singles on their table who are hanging out $1-2 per dancer when there are 4-5 guys at the table. They usually take 2 hours to get rid of the money and don't get dances, they are "just there to watch and catch up".
- Groups of guys with someone from out of town who is just visiting. They always seem to want to catch up with each other and never want to get dances. They always make excuses.
- Guys smoking cigars. They sit there ALL NIGHT puffing on a cigar on and off and bullshit like they are Al Pacino.
- Guys who want to know your whole life story.
**Red flag questions, I usually excuse myself if they ask two or more of these at the table**
- Do you go to school?
- What do you do for a living? Or Do you do anything else?
- What city do you live in?
- What kind of car do you drive?
- What clubs have you stripped at?
- Why did you get into stripping?
- How much do you make?
- Is it usually this busy/slow?
- What do you do during dances?
- Do you offer extras?
- What time do you get off work?
- Do you do private parties?
- Did your piercings hurt?
Blah blah blah. They are all time wasters until proven otherwise by spending money on me.
not true down here (or for me)
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If their hustle sounds too good to be true.
Never rely on the promise of money.
Show me the money actually means something.
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Guys who ask you your real name before they even buy you a drink.
Guys who "get it". They never, ever do. Ever.
Guys who drink Pabst. That may just be me, but I've never had a Pabst drinker yet get a dance from me. I don't know if they're broke, or I'm just not their style.
Any guy who wants to show you pictures on his cel phone of his dog, cat, kid, or penis. Le sigh.
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Indian guys who ask you to show them your pussy while you're on stage. I showed him my middle finger poking out of my crotch and told him he could suck it later, very effective.
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guys who come to the tip rail with money in their teeth, and act all butthurt when you don't take money out of their teeth.
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Originally Posted by
pink_bunny
guys who come to the tip rail with money in their teeth, and act all butthurt when you don't take money out of their teeth.
I always grab the money with my hand very obviously and loudly declare "paper money is dirty, I don't put it in my mouth".
They usually are embarrassed and sulk back at their table.
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ugh, up here when guys do that they expect us to take it with our pussy. I'm not even joking. I almost puke everytime a girl does it.
would you rub your vagina on a doorknob? Would you put a whole bunch of change in your hand and rub that on your pussy? Grooosssssss
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luscious sadie
ugh, up here when guys do that they expect us to take it with our pussy. I'm not even joking. I almost puke everytime a girl does it.
would you rub your vagina on a doorknob? Would you put a whole bunch of change in your hand and rub that on your pussy? Grooosssssss
Ugh, SO gross. My friend was onstage and a guy put a dollar down and said, "Grab it with your butt cheeks!" She was like, "I wanna see YOU grab it with your butt! We're not acrobats!!"
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Any guy whose first question are "where are you from"? "what is your nationality"? are ALWAYS time wasters!!
I once remember another dancer being upset with me because I "insulted" her customer by turning him down when the first thing he asked was the nationality question.
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Originally Posted by
Jay12
Any guy whose first question are "where are you from"? "what is your nationality"? are ALWAYS time wasters!!
I once remember another dancer being upset with me because I "insulted" her customer by turning him down when the first thing he asked was the nationality question.
I HATED that question.
The mark of a time waster: "I'm friends with the owner. He wont mind if we..."
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How to spot a time waster.....
A brash display of these techniques: http://strippershark.com/stripclub/video/
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Sophia_Starina
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