Camming with your baby in the room (sleeping!)
Hi, I've been the ultimate lurker here since November while deeply considering camming. I've read countless posts, and I've even written down notes in planning and preparation for this business venture (which I can't embark on until I purchase a new computer). Even so, I've come across this dilemma that I was hoping some of you girls can help me with.
I moved home in August, and I have a year-old baby. Him and I share a room. There is a guest bedroom downstairs, but my dad sleeps there sometimes, and at times it's empty but locked, so it's an unreliable "getaway" room. My son is a pretty heavy sleeper, but at times he stirs, makes sounds in his sleep, etc. He still occasionally wakes up in the middle of the night.
How would you handle this, or have you ever been in this situation? From previous posts I see that some of you are single moms, and some of you live at home, so I was wondering if you have any tips/tricks for this situation. TIA!
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There's really not much away around it except for finding another room to cam in. I really wouldn't cam in the same room as the baby because you may wake him just from the noise you may be making and it's probably not the best situation anyhow. But all you need in the guest room is a couch and some nice sheets and pillows :) just turn the baby monitor waaay down but to where you can still hear if he makes any noise.
It's hard to cam when you're living with someone else- especially parents and a child. I bought a camper but I know that is not doable for a lot of people (I live out in the country so it doesn't matter here). Could you possibly let the baby fall asleep in the living room or move him there after he nods off?
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You could get your child taken away from you if someone reported you doing that. You are exposing your child to sex. Just because your child can't talk yet doesn't mean the images and sounds won't scar him. And what if you're on MFC or SM doing a Gold Show and your baby starts screaming? You can't "pause" it to go take care of your baby. Especially during a Gold Show. You'd lose all of the money. And scare away customers. And god forbid someone you know records that and show it to CPS.
Unless you plan to cam with no sound, and your baby cannot sit up and look outside the crib (I doubt this is the case since he's over 1 yr old), there's no way to prevent anything potentially bad from happening. However, even if you do cam with no sound, that will really limit the amount of money you make. And if you turn the sounds off, you'd literally have to be staring at the screen the entire time in case you get a private show.
You need to cam in a different room.
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There's a difference between getting a little nooky from your man under the covers, quietly, while your baby is sleeping in their crib in your room and camming with your baby in the same room. I'm sure the state would make that distinction as well. You're going to have to find a way to put your baby to sleep in another room--a baby monitor is a great idea.
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I'd be very uncomfortable doing that. Even if they are a baby, they don't need to be in the same room with you performing sexual acts on yourself. I'm pretty sure that would be a form of child abuse. Even with the sound off and you not talking, please don't do it.
You could buy a baby monitor and cam with no sound. That way you could hear your baby if they wake up.
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By the way ALL sites will ban/suspend you for having a baby crying Plus yes they can and do take children away for having them in the same room....You wouldn't take a baby to a stripclub and say well she is only in the locker room not on stage....
I hope this isn't a troll....because we have had this discussion a bunch of times.
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MzStar
By the way ALL sites will ban/suspend you for having a baby crying Plus yes they can and do take children away for having them in the same room....You wouldn't take a baby to a stripclub and say well she is only in the locker room not on stage....
I hope this isn't a troll....because we have had this discussion a bunch of times.
Being that I have to hide this from my parents AND be in a different room from my child at odd hours, while in private, is going to prove a unique challenge for me. That also rules out hiring a sitter (no way my mom would allow a stranger in the house), among other options.
I'll have to mull this over for a few days. But thanks, and that includes everyone who replied, for your legit opinions.
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moonjade6
Being that I have to hide this from my parents AND be in a different room from my child at odd hours, while in private, is going to prove a unique challenge for me. That also rules out hiring a sitter (no way my mom would allow a stranger in the house), among other options.
I'll have to mull this over for a few days. But thanks, and that includes everyone who replied, for your legit opinions.
Aside from the fact that performing sexual acts in front of a baby/child regardless of age is illegal lets get to whether or not you could get in legal trouble with this scenerio.
If you had a child in the room, off cam, and the sound was on and they were simply "heard" crying, it'd be hard to prove the baby was in the same room, legally and it could be chalked up as being on tv. For example, over the holidays I had family at my house, I cammed in my basement. Everyone upstairs was loud and kids were running and screaming. One of my regulars was given the opportunity to refuse a private due to the fact that the kids, at times, were heard screaming from playing. They said it was ok and they didn't mind.
So, while the kids were heard, they weren't in the room and they had no idea that I was down there telling a guy to get down and cam lick my feet lol. And if they aren't recording you, nobody is going to know. Most guys who hear any other people talking will just stop the private.
Another option is non nude fetish modeling if you feel you could hack it. Often women don't use sound at all and only type and make that part of their domination role. It would give you an excuse to have no sound, a slave won't mind because you make the rules, and you wouldn't have to get naked if you didn't want.
And, you could just end up on Tosh.0 like this lady did. http://tosh.comedycentral.com/video-...trips-for-kids
Not sure if CPS paid her a visit.
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At this time you should find another job that doesn't included "Sex Acts" because your child comes first and you don't want this to mess up you life. CPS never goes away...
Save up and move into your own APT and then start camming.
or rent a room and put your child in daycare.
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Well aside from the obvious legal issues of CPS, also you have to consider that your child is coming to an age when he will start to speak and copy the words you say. You wouldn't want his first words to be slut, fuck or bitch. That would definitely raise eyebrows. Yes he may be sleeping when you say those words, but trust me things imprint on to the mind even as he sleeps.
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Lol, WTF at this video.
I agree that camming in the same room is a no-no. Maybe you should find another job for the time being and wait until you get your own place with separate bedrooms, or take your child to a day care while you cam.
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Not meaning to belabor the point, but Section 2257 aka the 'Tracy Lords Law' requires that all persons appearing in 'adult content' be 18 years old plus registered in the website's Section 2257 compliance file. Allowing a baby to appear in 'adult content', on webcam or otherwise, can arguably result in a US federal Felony sex crime charge for the webmaster / webcam host who allowed the 'illegal' content to be posted / transmitted !!!
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And if nothing anybody else has said has made you rethink this decision, think about this....not the nice, respectful customers...but some sick freak will probably end up in your room, and if noone ever knew and you got away with DFACS and everything this sick freak might hear your baby sigh too loudly in thier sleep...and watch the convo turn to....imagine the baby's leg in your stuff, the baby sucking your clit...just anything to mind fuck the shit outta you. And if you are a good mama, it will sicken you...because believe me, they do...when I mention I have kids, when they find out I have a dog, hell when I pick up a two liter cola bottle, they come up with the most stupid ways to get at you.
And besides that, as a single mother.....NEVER put yourself in the position to give any of your haters motivation to have your kids removed, not your family, not your "friends", not the daddy....keep the babies safe at all costs!!
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Ms.Lacey
At this time you should find another job that doesn't included "Sex Acts" because your child comes first and you don't want this to mess up you life. CPS never goes away...
Save up and move into your own APT and then start camming.
or rent a room and put your child in daycare.
I was convinced by like the third or fourth poster that this obviously wasn't a good idea. I have a full-time job in retail now, so I think I'm erring on the side of renting a small, cheap room in town. Thank you!
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Did SW go into the twighlight zone overnight? Wow...