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What do you think about this "sugar daddy?"
47 yo married white male, executive, decent looking, well off, and in good shape.
searching for a new young DISCRETE lady to spoil.
I am willing to pay some rent or some bills or some school costs.
In return you must be willing to accompany me to dinners or events or just be available for sex when I feel the want.
Lets be clear. You be there for me and ill be there for you
You could eventually be trusted with keys to me apartment and cars.
NOT AN ESCORT, BUT A GOOD FRIEND with benefits that go both ways.
The last lady was 25 and was my "friend" for 3 years.
She finished school and moved back home to CT.
The part about being available for sex stood out as a red flag, but him saying he had a past sugar baby (which all could be a lie) makes me wonder if he is indeed a real one.
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1. doubt he is 47
2. so much grammar sadness
3. Discrete vs Discreet fail
4. decent looking = troll under the bridge?
5. "some" rent? OR (notice OR) "some" bills OR (uh oh) "some" school costs?
6. just be available for sex whenever I want. just be available for sex whenever I want. just be available for sex whenever I want. just be available for sex whenever I want. just be available for sex whenever I want. just be available for sex whenever I want. just be available for sex whenever I want. just be available for sex whenever I want. just be available for sex whenever I want. just be available for sex whenever I want.
7. lol emphasis on NOT AN ESCORT (aka see #6)
8. married guy wants a sugar baby to accompany him to events? what happened to discreet? is he even married? has he even done this before? oh wait, he wants you to be discrete, not discreet. so just remain discontinuous and youre gold.
9. this is just a list of his wants with no real description of who the SB needs to be (young and hot.... lol, great friendship descriptor) and not a thing about him except he's older, married, not ugly, and rich....... fascinating. Like every other SD on the face of the earth.
Seriously though - no. He is a timewaster, highly probable liar, and haggler. This reads like most pseudo-e-SD ads. He hits every red flag.
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Thanks! I'm not officially looking for an SD at the moment, but I sometimes look at ads to look at the "potential" out there, and to see how easy I can spot a fake SD. This one just gave me a creepy, fake, cheap feel. Especially with the "some" parts and then saying he doesn't want an escort, but does want sex (too cheap to pay for an escort!)
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Yeah, the "some" parts jumped out at me too. So open ended on that ("some" could be a mere $100 ffs), but very positive that he wants laid on tap.
Are most of these guys from CL?
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it sounds like a scam. Can't really tell you exactly why though. Also, wtf is he thinking? If anything, he'll likely be one of these cheapos. Some rent, lol.
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I'm currently on the SeekingArrangement site, and sadly, more of them than not sound like this guy. I think the ones that mention sex right off the bat you can just hit delete.
I try to keep an open mind, but from what I understand it takes patience to find someone legit, who's not a total jerk.
There's a guy who travels to my city regularly who I've talked to the on the phone, (he called when he was here last week). I wasn't crazy that he seemed to only care about when it was convenient to meet according to *his* schedule. Plus, he put his salary as 200,000-300,000. But he said he could offer $300 here and there, the two or three times he is in town.
Big whoop. Dude, if you want a cheap SB to fall for your garbage, don't put that you make three hundred thousand a year!
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Oh - I wanted to add - I met another potential SD, through a posting I put up on another site. He was the real deal, wanted to have an arrangement, slipped me $400 after our drinks date, (no kissing, no touching). We went out again, and I really tried to convince myself that I could get past the complete lack of physical attraction, (he wasn't hideous, just really geeky, and I didn't want to touch him at all).
He realized on our second date that I wasn't feeling him, and very gracefully let me off the hook, w/out pushing for anything for anything further, although he said he would have been very happy, if I had been into it. No matter how much I need the money, I realized there *has* to be some chemistry there, or I just can't do it.
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Originally Posted by
littlemissbliss
I'm currently on the SeekingArrangement site, and sadly, more of them than not sound like this guy. I think the ones that mention sex right off the bat you can just hit delete.
I try to keep an open mind, but from what I understand it takes patience to find someone legit, who's not a total jerk.
There's a guy who travels to my city regularly who I've talked to the on the phone, (he called when he was here last week). I wasn't crazy that he seemed to only care about when it was convenient to meet according to *his* schedule. Plus, he put his salary as 200,000-300,000. But he said he could offer $300 here and there, the two or three times he is in town.
Big whoop. Dude, if you want a cheap SB to fall for your garbage, don't put that you make three hundred thousand a year!
This guy makes maybe $30,000 a year and he's been paying for the $300 escorts. He wants the same without the girl being smart enough to tell him to hit the road when the hour is up. So yeah he's looking for more time for cheap.
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Originally Posted by
HighHeelHottie
47 yo married white male, executive, decent looking, well off, and in good shape.
searching for a new young DISCRETE lady to spoil.
I am willing to pay some rent or some bills or some school costs.
In return you must be willing to accompany me to dinners or events or just be available for sex when I feel the want.
Lets be clear. You be there for me and ill be there for you
You could eventually be trusted with keys to me apartment and cars.
NOT AN ESCORT, BUT A GOOD FRIEND with benefits that go both ways.
The last lady was 25 and was my "friend" for 3 years.
She finished school and moved back home to CT.
The part about being available for sex stood out as a red flag, but him saying he had a past sugar baby (which all could be a lie) makes me wonder if he is indeed a real one.
This guy is the biggest bullshitter out there.
Roast has it all on point above.
He's not 47 he's most likely about 55.
He's not attractive at all. So think fat and ugly.
He want sex but he doesn't want a smart escort to show him the door. In other words he has no money at all he just wants sex with someone that he can manipulate into giving it up.
The last lady? bullshit she never existed. He's be either on CL , SA, SDFME etc running that same line into the ground. I think I may have spoken to this guy before because his stats are the same. They always say ooh my sb moved away. Bullshit. They never had one to begin with.
He will also not be taking you to dinners. He will take you for coffee first and see if you are foolish enough to believe the bullshit. He will probably offer to pick you up for dinner yet he'll most likely drive you to his house. Can we say "trapped"?
Trusted with keys to my apartment? Wait he can't afford A house but he has CAR(S)?
You be there for me? No this means . Bend over for me and I will NOT give you a damn thing because I just got over.
Some bills some rent some BULLSHIT!
All I see is . Cheap Old Fat Ugly Douche!
put a search in google to find fake sugar daddy blog and you'll find about 95% of the men that contact you on it.
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Yeah as soon as I read the "some" "or", my instant radar of chock full o' shit went on. Fkn amatur.
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Fake!!! His fist question will be to take you for a test drive
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Do you guys have the patience to wade through the BS for the few good ones out there? I know freestyling really is the best option - but we know that has its challenges too.
I think it's similar to a "normal" online dating site - there are only a handful of men you're going to click with, and who are worth anything.
In some ways, it's better. The few guys that passed my screening enough to actually meet always at least provided a very nice dinner, if nothing else. I only bother to meet one or two, here and there, because I burn out quickly and get frustrated.
There are two from SA right now who've asked to meet via email, who I would accept. So now I'm waiting to see if they follow through. I know these guys on these sites are working about five or six different girls in my city at the same time, so the speed with which they set up the date tells you something about where you are in ranking, in their dirty little minds....;)
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99.5% of (self-proclaimed) supposed "Sugar Daddies" are completely full of shit.
Let me say that again in case it didn't sink in the first time: 99.5% completely full of shit.
Real sugar daddies don't generally refer to themselves as "sugar daddies".
Of that .5%, only 1 in 100 will "click" with you enough to actually spend any real cash.
It's shitty odds ladies and it's a fucking black hole of time wasting. Just buy a scratch-off lottery ticket instead. You might actually get some money lol.
Real sugar daddies are rare and lots of ladies think, "If I'm just patient and keep looking, maybe I'll find the right one..."
Your bills won't "be patient" will they?
Yes, sugar daddies can be found, but you're more likely to find them in real life than online.
In the mean time, hustle your ass and make your own money so your desperation won't make you so vulnerable to all the manipulative fake SD games.
A competent, confident woman who is on the rise is more attractive to an actual SD than a desperate, broke chick. If you're on an SD website, that means you are "looking/seeking". That makes you ripe for being taken advantage of. Be the one who is sought -after instead.
I hope this post helps someone who is wasting time dreaming about an SD when she can use that time to get out there and make her own luck (and cash) instead.
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Obenta you always have the best posts on this subject. Roast, too. :)
I know a woman who's been searching for a SD for five, count 'em, FIVE YEARS. I don't think there's enough of them to go 'round. lol
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The comments on SA say the contrary. But then, I worked as a staff writer and part of my job was to impersonate an average civilian enjoying the service my company sold. Lol.
I like dating and I like money, but I suppose they'll have to stay separated. D:
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If you're a decent looking female and you have a halfway decent personality, it's not going to be that hard to find *some* guy who will be happy to spend some money on you - but not necessarily the one you *want*.
I'm relieved that in this crappy economy I finally got a decent job again, (after THREE freaking years of searching), but I still would love to meet someone to have an "arrangement" with, whose company I actually enjoy. When I looked at my stack of bills the other day, I second guessed my decision to let the nerdy SD go, but I had to really ask myself - could I live with sleeping with someone I find repulsive physically? (No matter how nice he is?)
And it's not like being an escort where you just have to pretend to enjoy their company for a few hours, a SD is a relationship of sorts, (even if NSA), so I don't think most people can convincingly act like they enjoy someone they're repulsed by for too long.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature...QVqJGIw#t=164s
Look at this Seeking Arrangement current development!!
This guy has had 11 sugar babies
He's 47 and these two girls he's took to court are 19 & 20 years old. Check out this video. BTW this is on the SA blog.
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^^ LOL at that guy!! If he was really rich enough to be a legit sugar daddy, he wouldn't be on a court tv show trying to get back $2k for car damages. Dumbass
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Yeah and bitching about IHOP for an extra $3?? Pushing drugs on these girls. What a sick ugly bastard! I mean guy has meat hanging off his chin wtf!!! He's just gross! The funny thing about this is that he wanted to get back at these girls for not fucking him. So he was going to lure them back for sex and drop the charges. Can you believe he sent letters to their parents? He's lucky the parents didn't come find his ass and blow him away!
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nikkidarling
Obenta you always have the best posts on this subject. Roast, too. :)
I know a woman who's been searching for a SD for five, count 'em, FIVE YEARS. I don't think there's enough of them to go 'round. lol
Thank you. I have a LOT of experience with the entire spectrum of this sort of thing - boyfriends, fake SD's, real SD's, clients...
I spent a lot of time playing on "Sugar Daddy" websites before becoming an escort, which is how I learned the ins & outs of the "website fake SD game" sooo well! I wasted a lot of time on these idiots, BUT - I did learn a lot!
Now I make more $ than most of the fake SD's who contacted me. L...O...L.
In my life, I've found way more civillian boyfriends who were willing to pay all of my bills, than I've found actual SD's on these websites. :P
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A common misconception is that an escort cannot have a similar arrangement with a client/SD, when in fact stripping, prodomming and escorting are the best ways to meet sugar daddies. They come into it knowing the deal.
I have a couple of clients who have put me on monthly retainers. Obviously this only works if you vibe with your guy on all levels.
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LMAO at this guy that got in touch with me tonight. His profile says he's worth $50 million (which is a "lol" on it's own)
"no real SD makes a financial committment before having some playdates or going to St Barrts for the weekend. Suggest we speak by phone and since I am the married one, will await your phone number. You can be assured that I am a discreet gentleman and expect no possessive attitudes."
I'm glad he cleared that up for me, because I was feeling extremely possessive over a guy who may or may not make a financial commitment after a weekend of free sex. And also he can't spell commitment... *facepalm*
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He must spend a lot of time on "St. Barrts", since he can't spell that either! LOL.
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Originally Posted by
Obenta
99.5% of (self-proclaimed) supposed "Sugar Daddies" are completely full of shit.
Let me say that again in case it didn't sink in the first time: 99.5% completely full of shit.
Real sugar daddies don't generally refer to themselves as "sugar daddies".
Of that .5%, only 1 in 100 will "click" with you enough to actually spend any real cash.
It's shitty odds ladies and it's a fucking black hole of time wasting. Just buy a scratch-off lottery ticket instead. You might actually get some money lol.
Real sugar daddies are rare and lots of ladies think, "If I'm just patient and keep looking, maybe I'll find the right one..."
Your bills won't "be patient" will they?
Yes, sugar daddies can be found, but you're more likely to find them in real life than online.
In the mean time, hustle your ass and make your own money so your desperation won't make you so vulnerable to all the manipulative fake SD games.
A competent, confident woman who is on the rise is more attractive to an actual SD than a desperate, broke chick. If you're on an SD website, that means you are "looking/seeking". That makes you ripe for being taken advantage of. Be the one who is sought -after instead.
I hope this post helps someone who is wasting time dreaming about an SD when she can use that time to get out there and make her own luck (and cash) instead.
Good info!