Can I get hired being a "curvy" girl?? NE Ohio clubs
Ok,
so for years i have been on camsites making enough to pay bills, and live on. I'm bored to death of my job! I dread logging into the sites & hiding behind a webcam for hours. So, i want to get back into dancing again as my full time income. Get away from webcamming altogether for awhile.
Anyways, I'm 5'8", around 145lbs, large natural boobs, fairly flat belly, nice legs, pretty face, blond, super tan. I am unfortunatly considered the "curvy" girl, etc.
I went to a club tonite and auditioned & as i walked in a noticed the dancers were petite, skinnies, no tits, no curves, and i knew i was in trouble. But not to be a shithead, but i think i was way prettier than any of them.
Long story short, I didn't get hired because I didnt' fit the body type of girl they hire.
Instead of wasting my time going to several clubs to scope out the girls working there, I just want to keep going to clubs and applying/auditioning i hope.
That club ONLY hired ONE specific type of body type girl. Are most clubs like this?? Cuz if so, I'm fucked. I mean I wouldnt' want to work in a club full of just curvy girls, but maybe a nice selection of diff types, NOT ALL guys like the skinny petite no tits girl, that club is just dumb as fuck for not broadening their spectrum.
I don't really have anymore weight to lose, i mean i could always do 5 or so, BUT nothing major, and once i start dancing, i'll tone right up.
I have attached a pic i just took 3 days ago, Am i going to have a problem getting hired over and over cuz i have big tits, girly curves? I think it's ridiculous!! I am not fat or a heavyset girl in any way shape or form, & i feel like i should have NO PROBLEM getting hired at many places.
I live in NE Ohio & I need to find some clubs to go to Monday & I'm not stopping on Monday until I leave with a job.
Any advice girls? I'm sure alot of you are curvy dancers as well, did you get turned down alot when you applied or what should I be doing?
I'm certainly not letting ONE turn-down bum me out, i am a very confident girl, i luv my body, i feel sexy and portray that to everyone around me, im very comfy chatting with men, and LOVE dancing.
Anyway, I'm going out Monday & ain't stopping until I officially have a club to work at. Anyone in the NE Ohio area or knows which clubs I might fit well into, I'd LOVE to hear from you!!
Or if you are a curvy dancer, I'd love to hear your story of how you found a club who hired you. Do the "skinny" dancers bash on you alot?
I'm MORE than ready to start dancing, very motivated to get going again with it. I miss it alot, and can't WAIT to QUIT webcamming for now!!!!
So Sorry this is long, but I guess its a partial rant too. LOL...throw in any comments/ questions/advice/ info....check out my pic & give me feedback if you want.
Thanks girls!!! xoxoxo!
Re: Can I get hired being a "curvy" girl?? NE Ohio clubs
I think you look great. My stats were similar to yours while I was dancing and I never had a problem getting hired. It is strange to be thought of as a "bigger girl" when all your friends outside of dancing tell you you are so thin. Some clubs only hire thin girls but they are in the minority, at least in the areas I have danced. Most clubs have different body types. I would say it's more likely that you didn't get hired because you psyched yourself out before hand but it might have been the tastes of the manager.
I have not danced in Ohio but I have very little doubt that you will have trouble getting hired somewhere else. Just keep your head up and good luck with your transition from camming.
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I think you would look better if you worked out and toned up. You'd have a well defined waistline and with your big breasts you'd be curvy in all the right places.
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Or if you are a curvy dancer, I'd love to hear your story of how you found a club who hired you. Do the "skinny" dancers bash on you alot?
You're right, don't let one rejection stop you from auditioning at other clubs - you just happened to hit the one club where management is stupid enough to think that men only find one body type attractive. That is such bullshit. Go try other clubs - make sure when you do go audition that you're dressed sexy, but classy. Don't overdo your make-up (but do make it look nice) and wear a nice dress and high heels (or similar).
I'm considered curvy (I'm not overweight - just tall with round hips and big fake boobs!)
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I didn't have any trouble getting hired, and the other dancers don't rag on you being a curvy dancer - that's just immature behavior - or jealousy when you start to make bank - but at that point if the girls are going to get bitchy it can be anything - not just your body type.
Good luck and let us know how it goes!
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As a " skinny petite no tits girl" I am offended. I understand what you're going through but there is no need to insult us. Skinny girls do have boobs too just as I seen curvy girls with no boobs.I understand your frustration but no need to insult people like me.
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I think it depends on the type of club you're going for. If it was super high end, then you're going to run into Spinner City. They're going to want them built like thoroughbred horses, maybe with a few pairs of fake tits thrown in the mix, but overall they're going to be slender and lean.
I hate to say it but the thinner you are in this industry the better your chances are. Not crackhead emaciated skinny, but being leaned and toned will open a LOT more doors for you. I gained a couple of llbs during my convalescence and I'm trying to work it off so I can get back to my "fighting weight".
I would try a couple of mid tier clubs or go out of state if you can travel. In the meantime working out will hellp you.
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From reading your post I assumed you'd be bigger, but as a "skinny no tits" girl myself, I actually think you look fine. I would just keep auditioning at other clubs. Ya sure in the mean time, work out but I'm sure not all clubs in your area would be so strict.
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kassie
As a " skinny petite no tits girl" I am offended. I understand what you're going through but there is no need to insult us. Skinny girls do have boobs too just as I seen curvy girls with no boobs.I understand your frustration but no need to insult people like me.
It wasn't meant to offend you, but every single girl in that club was the "skinny petite no tits girl". I was just being honest, wasn't meaning to offend the skinny girls out there.
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Welp, I went to another Middle of the line club tonite w/a girlfriend who is also around my body shape, only shorter than me. He told us to lift up our shirts to reveal our bellys & he'd tell us right then & there, without going any further, if he wanted to set up an audition or not.
We both lifted up our shirts, revealed sexy pierced belly buttoned bellys, neither of us have tight abs, or anything like that, just girly bellys. He immediately said "you both need to tighten up & then your welcome to come back to audition". Bing bang boom. He didn't bother to check out my amazing tits or her ass to die for....LOL!
So, another club down the tube. I'm debating on just going to a dive bar, as thats basically all I have left in the area. We already hit the 2 middle of the line clubs & got shot down. So time to downgrade our clubs, neither of us want to get involved with the nasty ghetto clubs that have the crackhead dancers and the $5 BJ's in vip, but it looks like until we tone up, we are stuck in shitholes.....I find it sorta hilarious. Strip clubs are sure a different world. In the "real" world, I could walk into a bar/club & have most any guys attention I want, when I walk into the strip club to audition, I'm thrown out on my ass....LOL! *shrug* I'm gonna get busting ass in the gym, while I work in a shithole club, if I can find one to hire me.
And PS. I found it shocking a couple of you were offended by me saying "skinny no tits petite girls", I wasn't specifically talking about anyone here on this site. I was describing the girls that were working in that specific club, and yes, EVERY girl there had the "skinny no tits" thing going on. I apologize if anyone here thought I was referring to them. Yes, i do speak what i see. Get some thicker skin girls, geeeeeeeesh. LOL!
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"girly bellys?" Seriously? So for those of us who are toned and fit because we like to work in upscale clubs, we don't have girly bellies?
Maybe you should be more tactful when describing people who you don't think look like you. I'm not surprised you got shot down, like I said, you should try to tone up. You're not fit and this job is mostly about looks so, no shocker there. I'm sure the dives will hire you though so don't stress too much, you can make money while you lose the pudge.
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ohiogirl26
Strip clubs are sure a different world. In the "real" world, I could walk into a bar/club & have most any guys attention I want, when I walk into the strip club to audition, I'm thrown out on my ass....LOL! *shrug* I'm gonna get busting ass in the gym, while I work in a shithole club, if I can find one to hire me.
You said it yourself girl. You're not in the "real world" the minute you cross that threshold. You're someone's fantasy ranging in price from $15-30 a song or up to $1000/hr. I'm glad you have a thick skin and you're doing something about it vs whining and "Whoa is me" pity party. It sucks but this is a looks based industry. Yes, personality and confidence do play a major part in it but maintaining yourself goes with it. You don't look bad.
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Looking at your picture I wouldn't consider you to be a big girl. Your body looks fine. I don't see why you wasn't hired. In the meantime just tone down the belly and that should be easy for you because you do not have much fat even to begin with. Some strip club owners have ridiculous expectations. On the bright side I've worked at dive clubs before and you can make money. Most likely you'll be one of the hottest girl there which will help your earnings and it will prepare you for the nicer clubs.