From now on I will tell people I work from home as a Sale Consultant for BlueChew #bluechewnow
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From now on I will tell people I work from home as a Sale Consultant for BlueChew #bluechewnow
Love reading your replies; some of them are really upsetting though. I am so sorry for those of you who've opened up to your parents and had bad reactions.
I just know I am especially fortunate with my parents and for that reason, I'd like not to have to lie about my job (or a big chunk of my earnings at least). Having said that I think if I did go ahead an tell them it wouldn't be like I would go into details is it - it'd be weird and awkward to discuss details - so I'm not sure I would feel as relieved as I've been imagining. There people have been supportive in every life choice I've made though. It's a tough one but if I do speak to them, can of course update here if anyone's interested!
For years I told my family I worked online for a medical research company. I finally told a everyone except for one in particular because I was tired of endless questions. Someone ended up telling the one who didn't know and she went totally volistic. She said she was only upset because I lied but I know that's not true. I apologized and told her I lied because I was afraid of being judged but she never has forgiven me. She says she is a Christian. Aren't Christians supposed to be loving and forgiving? Would it have been okay if I had told her upfront? I somehow doubt it.
My mom doesnt care. I danced before I started camming and she says as long as Im happy & making money from the safety of my house shes fine with it. Shes even watched how the site I use works & has been supportive. My dad (may he rest in peace) didnt care either, said one of his friends does it as well & does good money wise. So I was lucky. However, my in laws dont know & I will never tell them as they are extremely judgemental about stuff like that. They came over one day unannounced while my husband & I were watching a tv show, & the show said the word climax in a therapy session & they asked if we were watching porn 😐.
Coming from a Christian upbringing, she's just using that as an excuse to be judgmental...one thing that bible thumpers are the best at. Ironically, my grandma is a "super" Christian and she was the one person who didn't judge me about it at all and the 1st person I told (I think), she even allows me to do it in her home. My mom on the other hand who isn't that hard of a Christian... I told her and while she tolerated it I could never hear the end of it. She also and I mean literally forced me to go to church because she thought I had lost my way when she saw how much I loved the career.
My dad is under the assumption that I sold bra and panty photos and nothing nude and that I wont be able to do it anymore with so many kids, bigger and older, I aint got time for their dumbshit so I haven't brought it back up. And my mom assumed I made all this money with little effort or time, and would always ask why I couldn't buy this this and this but didn't want me to spend time online, no when I made good money it was a lot of time and effort but worth it, but its not like either of them think/thought, pretty sure they think I haven't done it in years, they found out by accident years ago and I have never brought it back up. I don't give a fuck what my parents think in general, I normally avoid them and their opinions. My life is my own.
My mom knows I have account on an adult site. She is a very judgy and negative person. And she imagined the worst, like I meet people in person, and that kind of stuff.
I explained her carefully it s not about that. I told her I m an adult, I decided to do this, its like any other job, and it s safe. I had, and still have my reasons why to do this. Period.
What else to say about it?
Btw, I lied to her for years. Slowly I got close to 30, and I revealed the truth.
1: I dont like to lie.
2: I m 30 yo. I have bigger problems than what people think about me.
She asked shit like " are u proud of urself" (on a very negative, kill urself now tone) - I said no. Why would I be proud of myself? Ask an electrician, or a maid, or a gardener, or anyone who does their daily job if they are proud of themselves. I dont see how that make sense.
I felt bad for her when she figured the truth. I can understand its not a parent s dream to learn, her child is a cam performer. But it is how it is. I can t be the "dream child" who exist only in her fantasy.
She didnt spread the "news" in family. And she never brings it up.
I said I'd update here if I went through with it and told them. Finally did so today, somewhat suddenly with a little bit of dutch courage. :P They took it better than I could have expected - they found it interesting and amusing and are delighted I can do so well off it. I wish I'd told them sooner, to be honest. But better late than never I suppose. :)
Somehow I missed this thread. Well, I grew up vastly differently than most of the people in this thread as my family considers sex work to be noble profession and it was used to grow a large number of our wealth back in the day. Sex workers had always held an high position in my family because some of the most powerful women in my family's history has been sex workers. My mother's parents always invited their sex worker friends to the house for tea and they told great stories. My family always approved of my hustling and there was always talk about me going into the adult industry.In fact, my mother suggested that I do sex work as she felt that was an better career path than being butcher. My mother has always supported my career choices as she consider sex work an noble career path. Meanwhile, my father's family approve of my career path but overall do not concern themselves with my lifestyle choices. Overall, I would say that my parents are happy that I am just like their ancestors and they approved. :)
I don't hide what I do at all. However my only sibling first was accepting saying, "You used to do that a while back. As long as you are safe and happy, do what is best for you." Then as the years went on, somehow she got jealous/envious/just straight up cynical. Then the tone changed to, "I don't approve of what you do whatsoever and your money is no longer good." It's been a good majority of year now we haven't spoke.
My money sure was good when I paid for excessive baby shower gifts/birthday gifts/Christmas gifts/flew back across the country several times all on my dime to visit. Oh and the extra curricular activities I paid for since your broke ass husband hasn't had a job for over 5 years.
Now I got married and have a baby on the way -- no gifts whatsoever. I really wish I could get my money back. *eye roll*
My family knows and idc. At the end of the day, they do nothing for me and I alone take the money I earn and care for myself. I’m damn proud of what I do and I wouldn’t hesitate to do it again. There are worse tings going on in the world.
yep so true I feel the same way. My parent's knew when I was a stripper. My mom would help me count my tips and with those tips I helped them finish their house!!!!!! Now I'm a camgirl and just last month my old boss (from a restaurant I worked at) found me and my porn. Haha I don't hide, geo block or anything. And dame I've got content everywhere!! Only a matter of time...tick tock
My Mom somehow found my Twitter account last year.. It was so embarassing.. She took a screenshot of my C4S that said something like rubbing my feet and playing with my pussy and it was a spread eagle and she sent to a few family members. I hated her forever now I just don't bring it up and we talk again but t hurt so much. Was so fucking embarassing. Kind of why I dont give a shit any more if people find me.. My own family alredy knows so whatever.. She could have done without sending the screenshot to my best friend and cousin though. I just remembered this now Im mad. i dont have a twitter any more and i still dont know how she found it