I think new web cam models should be required to take a "Stupid Test", where in that way, if she passes for Stupidity, cam sites wont approve her application. Let's clean up this biz already! Quality over quantity!
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I think new web cam models should be required to take a "Stupid Test", where in that way, if she passes for Stupidity, cam sites wont approve her application. Let's clean up this biz already! Quality over quantity!
Wow, she isn't a very good friend. In fact, I wouldn't trust her. She's probably one of those selfish, greedy bitches who would go around pm-ing guys who are tipping you, trying to send them over to her room.
She should be grateful to you for telling her about camming, and this is the thanks she shows you? Telling you to get off cam? FUCK her. If she's so worried about her earnings, maybe she needs to step her game up. She's probably another one of those lazy cam girls who literally just sits there, expecting men to drop dollar bills on her just for being cute. SMH.
Tell her "Don't be mad...UPS is hiring!" *B.I.G. fan for life* :D
The only thing wrong in this situation is that you are a good person, LeaLovesyou and she is taking advantage of how awesome you are. I know it is a really hard pill to swallow but she isn't your friend and not only do you need to not listen to her crazy logic, you are also going to have to slowly disengage yourself from the friendship. You need to do this because your sanity is more important than her insecurities.
In my personal experience, one of the hardest lessons in life is that there are some people who are hell-bent on playing the martyr and nothing you can do will stop them. You could literally take a bullet for them to save their lives and instead of saying thank you their response to you would be "Oh, you just did it to get attention."
It is easier for them to blame others like a child would, than to actually enter the world of grown-up responsibility. It would be as foolish to expect an equal and functional friendship from this person as it would be to expect the same from a two year old toddler.
I promise you, it isn't you. It is her. Start walking away and never look back.
Yeah, she sounds incredibly immature. Show her this thread, in fact, tell her to get an account and try to defend why she would actually think that.
I was just going to say the same thing. It sounds like such a childish and immature response. I would dump this friend immediately, sounds like too much drama, and whining going on. You do NOT affect her earnings, that's about the stupidest thing I think I have ever heard. Common sense would tell you that when you see not hundreds but THOUSANDS of models on at any given time. You did what you thought was the right thing in trying to help, but now you need to move on and just do your own thing, don't worry about her. A real friend would say THANK YOU. End of story.
The next time she tries to text you to get offline so she can make money, send a simple text back saying "Sorry, I can't argue about this now. I'm working. Maybe if you did too, you'd start making money." Then shut your phone off and don't worry about her. She's already fucking up her own money by texting you while she's on cam instead of working - don't let her fuck up yours too.
I think you should sugest to her that as you were there first she should log off everytime you want to log on, see how she takes that!!
Block her area so she can't see when you are online and don't let her bring you down or lose out on your money. If she was a friend she would encourage you just like you helped her get started. Brush it off and make your $$ girl!
I disagree on blocking her area. Why mess with your traffic for her? Who cares if she can see that you're online, she's clearly unstable and would probably find you anyway. Don't block potential customers just so she can't see you