Finding information on domination
Recently, I got a guy who is into domination and humiliation. Since my persona is very much the girl next door type, I have no idea what to do with him. The first time we went private, I made fun of him for an hour but now I've run dry on what to do. I don't want it to get boring for him yet internet searches are only bringing up porn sites, and the couple I've watched didn't really help. So, does anyone know any good how-to or explanation type websites for dominating and humiliating a man?
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There's another thread here, and there is a link to a collection of nice .pdf articles therein. I don't really have time to search for it right now, but should you, it will be exactly what you're asking for. Or maybe someone else will know what I'm talking about and know right where to go, or feel like, and have the time, to search it for you.
I highly recommend reading Macho Sluts by Pat Califia, it's all lesbian BDSM stories, but the principles are the same, and the dialogue in that book is just delightful.
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I was really suprised to find wikipedia being so detailed on ALOT of fetishes, and it was pretty accurate. The site I work with *FULL DISCLOSURE* FetishModels.com also has a few blog posts that address some details for specific fetishes. It's mainly for SEO but we built them so they'd actually be useful. Also look at some other doms and what they do on stuff povhumiliation.com has alot of interesting stuff that you could emulate or take notes from.
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When I try to watch porn for inspiration and ideas I find I just get confused because I have no idea how I would act something out while by myself (and not end up looking like a complete idiot) I find it helpful to try to find clips of solo girls doing their thing but sometimes that's difficult find.
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BlakeDahlia- I know EXACTLY what you mean v.v I don't offer dom at all in my shows because I just don't understand how when I can't inflict anything physically. Also, and this is just personal, I just FEEL bad humiliating someone even if they want me to haha.
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On a related note, can anyone recommend a good pay site for solo camgirl dom style stuff? I'd be willing to pay for a month of something for the sake of research.