Re: Jealous of other cam girls
I only really get jealous of some of the traffic other girls are getting. But not overly jealous as most of the time I just focus on me and what I am doing to make money. Sometimes I peek into others rooms while I am working, sometimes I see like 150 people in their room and only 5 in mine. Meh....I don't let it phase me too much as I know traffic varies from room to room on the site. Sometimes I see girls in the top row with like 5 people in their room, yet some chic 5 rows down has 100+. Usually I sit somewhere between row 1-6 on the main page so my traffic varies. The most I have ever seen in my room though is 91, but on average I see 10-30 in my room at any given point in time. But fuck when I only have 2 people in my room yet some girl on the bottom of page 1 has 50+...I start to think something is wrong.
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OJenni!
I only really get jealous of some of the traffic other girls are getting.
This!
I can get jealous only over perceived "luck," i.e., "they were born in a big city and had opportunities from the get-go" or "they were at the right place at the right time" that kind of stuff but never over physical characteristics. Of course if you approach it more critically you realize that absolutely everyone has their "cross to bear" - you see their advantages over you but you don't see how they might have been disadvantaged compared to you maybe because they didn't feel the need to talk about their disadvantages which leads to the conclusion why would you want to dwell on your disadvantages...?
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I sometimes get rage towards girls when I am quiet and I see that they have been constantly in private during that time. But then I remember, maybe if I worked harder and didn't pay attention to what others are up to, I'd do a lot better and have no reason to be jealous. It's nothing personal! ;-)
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Re: Jealous of other cam girls
I get jealous when I watch a girl and she is making a TON of tips by sitting there topless and all she does/says is, "thank you *kiss*" a million times over. But it's motivation for me! It's not something that holds me back, but instead, makes me work harder.
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I've stopped looking to see who's online at the same time, as well as not checking to see how much I've made, and it's been amazing for my attitude and earnings.
There is no competition, it's just me and the custies.
It's my little exhibitionist ass and their wallets, and that's it.
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Well I look up to top cam girls ... look how amazing they are! But as long as you don't let it get to you, it's okay :)
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I think it's really important to be have your own groove. When you're on, it's just you and your customers. I won't lie, I enjoy lurking other girls cams sometimes because there's a few I genuinely like watching, not for their sexual stuff but their personality and it's nice backround noise for when I'm doing something. But when I first started camming, I'd compare myself to the top girls because it seemed they just SAT there and did NOTHING and got crazy tips!! But being a camgirl now, I know it's soooo much more then that! We all have good days and bad days, but jealousy does nothing but affect us! And face it... jealousy makes nobody happy and cheery or great to talk to! All you can do is appreciate your crowd, rock your room, and be the best you :) corny, yes, but definately true. Besides in the cam industry, theres already so much negativity, ever since I've stopped watching the other girls so much (and thus stopped envying the other girls) I find myself a lot happier in general. I make my cheque at the end of the month, and I'm a happy camper, and so are my regs. and that's all that matters :)
If it really starts beind an issue and you find yourself depressed, STOP WATCHING CAMS. hey, we all get a bit jealous sometimes. being able to control it is what will make you the bigger, better person.
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I'm not jealous of anyone. In fact I'm happy to see fellow cam girls doing well, and it should make the rest of us models feel like there's hope (as bad as January has been for a lot of us). If you see other girls completing their room topic countdowns, that tells you that there ARE guys with money on the site, and not everyone is "having money issues."
It just annoys me when guys in my chat realize that there's a second female (cam girl buddy) in my chat and then start making tired, lame statements about naughty things they wanna do with her. Ain't nothing wrong with harmless flirtation, but it should NEVER take the spotlight off the current model whose room you are in.