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calicokitten
I think it works fine as long as you keep escorting on the down low. It's not about your safety or the misplaced wrath of other camgirls ... it's about your sanity as a camgirl! Save the offer for good regulars you like, preferably offsite. Don't discuss escorting in a public or group room.
So if camming is like opening yourself up to anyone with a credit card (but in a small, safe, virtual way), escorting is like the exact opposite: huge intimate amounts of access, but only for a select few people YOU choose. If everyone on cam felt entitled and invited to purchase sex from me, in the same way I want them to feel invited and entitled to purchase a show from me, I'd feel so icky! It's weird but that's the best way I can think to say it.
I never got called out on cam for my Eros ad or website, and I used the same name! So unless you're like super famous, stealth should be easy. Should.
I will say it's brutal getting back into camming. Escort clients are, on the whole, awesome and kind. Free chat losers would probably tell Aria Giovanni that she would make more money if she lost a couple pounds and also why won't she pee, the other girls all do it for him? I didn't come back because the money or the sex was bad, or because I hated all the champagne and designer lingerie ... oh god I'm going to go cry now.
Calico I think my crush on you has gone too far. I always get all excited when I see you've posted anything at all. LOL
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More random thoughts on escorting. The guys who are going to be big spender regulars on cam are spending about 360$ on you an hour, if you've got the upper end cam rates of 5.99$min private. As far as I can understand from my browse of the OW that's about the amount a nice escort charges. Extrapolating on this, if you "screen" your cam clients through them being regular spenders, they're already used to spending an escort rate on you. Clearly they can afford an escort. Not only can they afford this, but they're spending it on no contact at all. You could likely easily double your cam rate for full, in person sex.
If I were a dude who could spend this much money on someone the thing that would be important to me would get to get to know her first. So you could get to know him through cam and he could get to know you. If I were going to hire an escort period, the thing I would be worried about is not getting along with her or her looking different than her pictures. To me, 360 (let alone double that) is a lot of money to spend on an experience that might not be good. If I were a client I'd be glad to use a cam session to vet an escort I might be interested in seeing. If you offered "see my on cam first" as a service for potential escort clients I'd imagine you'd get a few takers. Then you'd get a cam session and an escort session and you'd both get to sort of, test drive, the other first. Of course, you'd have to do it indy, I'm sure that's against the rules of most cam sites.
You'd also definitely have to make it clear that you wouldn't talk about escorting stuff in the cam show. As we all know, you never know who's recording you.
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^ Actually I thought of another point with that. What about someone recording you having sex with them for money and posting it? Would that not be a concern?
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I was a High-End escort and an idiot stalker decided to expose me and link my camming name to my escort name but mind you now I am getting idiots asking me to meet on MFC but they don't spend a dime on me on cam and are unaware that my rates were $2500 for a 4 dinner date which I actually have dinner during it These idiots do not have the money and .I think I was a $150 per hr backpage escort lol I missed being treated like a Princess and reconsidering returning to it since cam customers are the most dense and rude people I ever met in my life. Like CalicoKitten said: the designer lingerie, the expensive trips and the private jets... I think I miss the private jets the most:)
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Yeah, its true...the guys on cam are *not* the same guys that escorts are meeting.
Even though they are dropping hundreds on a show with no contact, that is the market they are in and want. If they wanted an escort, they would easily pick up the phone and call one, but they dont. They go on cam..why? Because it suits their needs. They may be married to a real ball and chain with zero time freedom, have a tough work schedule that only allows them a few moments to get off, then get off line, or look like quasimoto and have an intense fear of actually being in the same room with a beautiful woman. Whatever it is, they are cam custies because they want to be.
So the fears about the industry evolving to favor escorts, I really do not think that will happen, not on any type of scale to make a difference. All the talk about meeting is fantasy, just like all the other stuff they talk about. Every so often, yeah there is a guy who would be serious and truly want to meet, of those guys, 90% will be phycho stalkers youd want to file a restraining order against if you ever crossed paths, and of the remaining 10% who would actually be decent guys, might not even make it into your cam room anyway.
Add to it, most of us who are serious about our escorting business are way too cautious about what we do, to get up on cam and announce we escort, making it too easy for guys to ask questions and for details that we refuse to give over the phone/email/text/etc to the guys we are actually providing services to. Talk about incriminating!!!! No way...so I honestly really do not think escorting cam girls is something for non-escort cam girls to worry about.
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http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...-and-Escorting
This is an older thread but I felt some of the responses were pretty on point.
As what Bianca said about guys that are looking for cheap women , wouldn't the cheap women end up over saturating the market? Some what similar to what happened to strip clubs with really cheap extras extras girls? Didn't dancers and escorts going into camming because their customer base was expecting more for less due to women charging less and less for their services?
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1. When you cam they are from all over the web. So you have no idea where all these guys are from. Why discuss details about something that will never happen?
2. Escorting is illegal in the U.S. So you want to give the cops a recording of you willing to exchange sex for money. Go ahead, great idea. To discuss details of an illegal act on cam or in an email is just stupidity.
3. You can get into major trouble with the camming company & lose your job.
4. All the guys who ask if I will meet up or escort NEVER take me private or tip me any kind of money. Time wasters.
While I used to be an escort, some of them do find me on cam & are good clients on cam. But some just cant keep their fingers from posting all kinds of information all over the web that is private. This is why I stopped escorting, while I should never reveal their private information, name, address, phone number, emal address or conversations, they would feel free to do that to me.
Camming is legal & safe.
Escorting is illegal in the U.S. plain & simple.
I look at it this way. If they wanted an escort then they would be on an escort site booking a date. If they want to play on cam then they go to the camming sites to have fun. Why waste a cam girls time if he wants an escort & visaversa.
None of those fools are worth me losing my camming job over. No $300 to $500 of a one time deal is worth losing a job that I make $30,000 to $60,000 a year doing.
In all sincerity, you have to look after you 1st. None of them care if you were to lose your camming job because of them not being able to be discrete about the whole thing. Nope, they would go on & brag.
Good Luck,
Sam
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cherryblossomsinspring
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...-and-Escorting
This is an older thread but I felt some of the responses were pretty on point.
As what Bianca said about guys that are looking for cheap women , wouldn't the cheap women end up over saturating the market? Some what similar to what happened to strip clubs with really cheap extras extras girls? Didn't dancers and escorts going into camming because their customer base was expecting more for less due to women charging less and less for their services?
My previous post came out a mess since I did on my Iphone. Ugh! Webcam customers they seem to think that they will get a girl to meet in real life for very little so I don't think mixing escorting and camming would be very profitable. For me, personally I wouldn't mix them. I went into camming for personal reasons not because I wasn't banking as an escort and a lot of times I question my sanity over making the transition.
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I know that I have said something similar before, but its easier to re-type it than to go searching for my old post...lol
There are a couple things that I would be concerned about:
1. Being kicked off the camming site. On a site like AW, escorting would be no problem, and I feel like MFC is much more lax about sharing contact info. But on SM and sites like it, you would never be able to discuss it in free chat, via e-mail, etc etc. You would have to be SO discreet about it that I'm not sure that it would be worth it!
2. Having camming set up a false expectation of what you are willing to do. I will happily role play lots of stuff on cam that I would not do as an escort - rough play, choking, S&M, etc. Even anal is something that I will do on cam because I control it, whereas escorting I would have to have much more trust that I wouldn't be hurt. I would hate to have an escort client be upset becuase they expected me to do the same stuff irl as on cam.
I'm also not sure that the client bases are really a crossover for these two....The one area where I think it would be a great idea is for "meeting" guys who may be flying in to see you or flying you out to see them. It would be something to put on an escorting website - "if you want to come have a little taster before flying me out to see you, come see me here. However, we cannot discuss details of me escorting for site rules.". Could be interesting. I would think that camming would be a good option to tell escort clients about, but not vice-versa (as calico said).
As for the legality - well, even where prostitution is illegal, "escorting" in the legal sense, is not. You simply ensure that all info on your sites state that you are being paid for "company" and not acts of a sexual nature, and anything that happens during a date is "by mutual consent of two adults" and is NOT included in the price of the date. This way, from a legal standpoint, even if you are "caught" you were simply a paid companion for dinner, and then chose to have sex with the guy as a seperate act. Its how all the escort sites in the UK get away with being so blatant.
Good luck!
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Wow, cherryblossomsinspring ... that's a whole lotta words, but that's not why my eyes are burning.
Rest easy knowing that for every man who wants an escort off a cam site, there is one who shares your contempt for the guys who ask and the girls who accept.
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Oops! The longwinded and meanspirited post to which I was responding seems to have disappeared. Mod, feel free to delete this and my previous comment for continuity.
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calicokitten
Oops! The longwinded and meanspirited post to which I was responding seems to have disappeared. Mod, feel free to delete this and my previous comment for continuity.
It's still there! Post #24, cant miss it..hehe! http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...=1#post2290886
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Wait my post was mean spirited? Yes I'm post #24 and I think #25. I don't get how it was mean, honest yes but mean? I was going off honestly since this topic has been brought up before. As I said in my post you may be "discrete" but he will most likely not be. In other words the guy that linked that girls escort profile to me could have easily gotten her kicked off the site if I was the type to report her. I'm not that way so I just said well sorry guy I'm not an escort. If you want those services then you may want to continue doing privates with her.
I'll remove it since it bothers some of you. You can now rest easy.
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All the power to you girl. I wish i had the balls to do it. I can't imagine having some stinky old chubby guy on me though. And I always imagine their breathe stinking. Basically I guess what keeps me from going for it is being molested as a teen I picture all my customers would look like the guy that did it. The money sounds amazing though.
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cherryblossomsinspring
Wait my post was mean spirited? Yes I'm post #24 and I think #25. I don't get how it was mean, honest yes but mean? I was going off honestly since this topic has been brought up before. As I said in my post you may be "discrete" but he will most likely not be. In other words the guy that linked that girls escort profile to me could have easily gotten her kicked off the site if I was the type to report her. I'm not that way so I just said well sorry guy I'm not an escort. If you want those services then you may want to continue doing privates with her.
I'll remove it since it bothers some of you. You can now rest easy.
Oh my gosh, I just pointed out your post since she thought it was gone... I said pretty much all the same things you did, so I dont know if I was included in the some of you? Im guessing though that you were getting pm's about it or something then?
I wish you hadnt deleted it, theres no reason to. Even if everyone doesnt agree with what you say, that doesnt make what you say any less valid. People have different viewpoints, many of them listed in this thread about this subject. I hope everyone doesnt delete their opinions...!!!
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MeganElise
All the power to you girl. I wish i had the balls to do it. I can't imagine having some stinky old chubby guy on me though. And I always imagine their breathe stinking. Basically I guess what keeps me from going for it is being molested as a teen I picture all my customers would look like the guy that did it. The money sounds amazing though.
The q wasnt about would one escort, but would one combine camming and escorting... But yeah, escorting is not for everyone.
Not every guy is chubby though (stinking is grounds for terminating a date...full stop)
I wish every guy looked like Wentworth Miller....then again, its a good thing they dont.
Id end up shagging em all for free :D
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Managing expectations is a part of any job involving sales, but in an adult career this is especially so, because we deal with so pretensions that we cannot break when we make our living fulfilling their fantasy. When guys solicit prostitution (let's call it what it is) from me their fantasy is that my "no" isn't legitimate. That's a difficult fantasy for me to deal with gracefully. Maybe it is just because I have aspergers syndrome, but managing the expectations of these guys is the most difficult part of my job for me.
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BlkSharpie
Oh my gosh, I just pointed out your post since she thought it was gone... I said pretty much all the same things you did, so I dont know if I was included in the some of you? Im guessing though that you were getting pm's about it or something then?
I wish you hadnt deleted it, theres no reason to. Even if everyone doesnt agree with what you say, that doesnt make what you say any less valid. People have different viewpoints, many of them listed in this thread about this subject. I hope everyone doesnt delete their opinions...!!!
No actually no one pm'd me at all so I can always add it back. I saved it so I can make it post number #44 if I so choose. It was long winded based on me pouring at all my thoughts in one place. When I saw that comment for calicokitten then I saw yours and also saw the " we need to stick together" I realized that possibly non escorts opinions were not welcomed here. As I'm pretty sure many have looked at the thread and decided to just pass over it in hopes of not creating issues on the board. I think because you escort even if you said the same exact thing many would accept your honesty on the topic but a cam model that doesn't escort makes some feel like we're looking down on them. If you notice above people have posted really horrible personal stories as to why they don't escort yet that wasn't the question. Posting in a manner that shows harmlessness so people don't attack them for their feelings on the subject. Since no one really had an issue besides maybe one person then I'll repost it.
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Wow. Well, this is awkward. I didn't get a chance to see the posts before they were edited. From what I'm reading above I think I need to clarify? What I said about sticking together was about ALL sex workers and those snarky comments I spoke of were not about anything posted in here. I appreciate everyone's posts because you could have easily just decided it wasn't worth your time. To me even showing some tough love is fine because at least you're concerned. What I didn't want was criticism that wasn't helpful or constructive. Just meaningless insults. So, sorry about that misunderstanding.
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Awe...see, that does kind of suck in a way, the way things can be misinterpreted.
This is why I always lean more on the side of benefit of a doubt. Especially on here more than any other forum, I guess because Ive been here so long and have more of a kinship here than any other online board. If someone says something I think is offensive or on a personal level, I always ask, Can you let me know what you mean by this?" and so far, in every single case, they clarified and I was relieved that I read it wrong ;D
But yeah, there are so many different ladies here, maybe in one, or several aspects of the industry. It really doesnt even matter if one person or two people or 10 people totally disagree and have a strong opinion against something that is said...I dont know what many people did or anyone else did really. Dont worry about that...there are many more who will gain insight and learn from what was said. So yeah, I really do hope that you saved your post and put it back up.
The whole thing about length and making jokes about that...hey now, youre the one who apologized for making anyones eyes burn! :D So when I said you cant miss it, I didnt mean it in a negative way. Just that...you cant miss it!!! lol
Anyways!!! Newsoma, I can tell you....its *very* easy to say no. What a guys expectations or presumptions are doesnt matter. We create and stick to our boundaries, and they must respect that or get on out. If a guy wants BB, Im not going to go along with it...if a guy wants me to CIF or CI---anything! I can easily say no. If a guy keeps pushing something Ive said no to...he only really gets one chance, I will without qualms get up and tell him our date is over. Yeah Im there to fulfill a fantasy, but I also have every right to maintain control over the situation and look out for myself. Stay strong, and dont ever feel bad or hesitate to do that.
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This is the way I see it ......If you Escort/Meet in Real life your cam persona would be flooded by guys that wanted to meet ....Think of it from the guys point of View....."Why would I pay her $1000 to see her on a cam when I could Pay $3-500/hr for it for real in Real life....... Also these guys online are more savy than some guy from an Escort date he(RL Date) could only Kill/Rape/Rob you that one time...the guy online could stalk and find you! track your movements with false names/profiles fo YEARS....
IMO No girl should be meeting from camming....And if you are, don't be shocked when something bad happens.
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Sam, escorting is legal, in my state at least. If I were to escort again, it'd be a process, not just something I'd jump back into. I'd want to first, form an LLC, then get my escort license. I won't mention sexual services what so ever not even those code words and acronyms people love. They'll have to look at my reviews if they want to know. If I'm going to do it, it has to be legit. I've already learned my lesson about that. I agree with most of what you said though. That is pretty scary. I didn't even think of escort clients bragging, giving away my location, phone number, could be troll/TW hell! With that in mind, if I escort I will probably quit cam sites altogether.
Cherryblossom, Yeah I'm actually really paranoid about being recorded even if I don't combine the two. I'd only take incall and make them put their electronics away for that reason. I don't see it hurting my business. It worked fine before being that most of my clients were older, had families and couldn't host anyway.
Isobel, I agree. I'd have some pretty high rates, for sure. It's good sex worker karma lol. I'm not trying to undercut other girls or cheat myself. Hmm..doing it the right way could have it's perks. Could get rid of all those "Let's have some drinks or coffee first" guys. God how that used to get annoying. On an unrelated note your avatar is the best thing ever. Bahaha sooo cuuute.
Newsoma, yes dealing with expectations is very hard. That's why I have to laugh at people who say sex work is the easy way out. Whaaat? It's the hardest if anything. Saying no is necessary sometimes. Boundaries make all the difference when it comes to keeping your sanity in this biz. I may not have as many limits as say the wife but, I'm still a human being not a toy. You can't use me how you want,break me,and then just buy another toy.
Megan, heeey some of my clients were hot. Like seriously hot and smelled quite nice. It's not always that they can't get a girl irl, it's that they're too lazy to court them, don't have the time, just like the taboo factor. Of course I'm not saying that to make you suddenly take up escorting. It could very well trigger some painful things for you. I'm not qualified to say it will or it won't. I'm sooo sorry that happened to you btw. It's not something anyone should have to experience :(
Star, blame it on my bad experiences but I don't really think either is more or less dangerous. The only real difference I find is that there are more "inquiries" from the um...socially inept on cam sites than escorting. Even then, it's not by a lot. I could go on all day about dumb ass emails and calls from guys trying to book me. Also, sure, guys may think why spend money to see her cam when I can meet irl. Well, by the same token I'm thinking why would I charge the normal escort rate when he could easily spend that on cam. For escorting to be worth it, I'd have to charge more, a lot more.
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I have no problem at all with escorts, but it's not for me. Not only would my boyfriend not go for the idea but I don't think I could do it. It would be all very well if I could just fuck guys that I would fuck for free anyway, but it's bad business to be refusing ugly/old/etc guys!
Being on Adultwork I am very used to guys asking (every 3rd bloody guy) but it still really annoys me. It is splashed all over my profile that I don't escort, in my FAQs and you also find out when you hover over my name before choosing me. Grr!
I think girls on Adultwork who offer both do well, and gives guys more reasons to go private (to veto, to discuss the meet, etc). Of course it's only any good for you if you're in the UK.
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Ok so I'll repost my original post. :
Well since I've never escorted I would worry about the vibe of camming changing. Currently I already get proposition by men looking for escorts or even asking me to escort. There are men on cam sites that already see the escort/cam model and start using the site as an escort pick up. The problem with this is that now the guy no longer enjoys cam. He's just shopping. Now of course there will always be men that do this however I don't want this to be a specific problem for those that are not open to meeting. One guy specifically came into my room one night and told me about another model on the same site that does it . He even linked her personal website showing me that I should follow in her footsteps since he had already purchased her services. As with all things in the sex industry people are actually raising the bar constantly. Before there were sites that didn't allow view of models, then came free chat with a screen, then came no screen free chat , then some breast nudity in free chat, then full nudity in free chat, then some touching in free chat, now full toy shows in free chat and sex in free chat. Some models met some customer , and now it's hidden escorting. Pretty soon there will be sites not unlike AW but other sites that will have escorting posted as an option on the site. Stripping sounds like it went down the same path. Yes there were probably always a few extras girls in the clubs but the clean dancers never got touched and made most of their money off the stage tips. Now you have two way contact dances, breast and nipple sucking, touching, hard grinding without panties and girls are doing bjs for $20.
Anal was something that was asked a handful of times now its several times a day that I'm being asked. Free shows were amazing when most guys pitched in something , now the majority are waiting around for someone else to foot the bill so they don't have to pay and you wait much longer to reach goals.
The guys that meet cam models for escort services will eventually only go to a cam site for that. Same as the guys that used to tip for stage dances but now tips either nothing or a dollar waiting to use his money on the two way heavy contact lap dance.
Also the question : Where are you? was only asked once in a while, now it fills up my room to crazy levels. Do we really want to change camming to the point where most models aren't making money because they aren't open to having sex with their cam customers?
Also discretion? How is it safe when the guy can just find you on cam any time you log in? How can this be tracked if it becomes a well known thing after awhile. Also will this eventually bring more attention to camming from LE?
I don't have an issue with women escorting. However I like camming the way it is yet I feel if these two were combined, camming would change drastically.
AW is a great example. Some models will always make money because of looks, location etc. However on AW there are more members there that are looking for escorts and will take you private just to ask again. Every time I've logged in and stayed there in free chat I've always gotten " it's a shame you don't escort"or a private will pop up , it's accepted and the guy will ask " do you escort"? Once I say "NO" the private ends. Now with AW it doesn't bother me because I signed up on a site that has escorts on it. So being there really was my choice. I actually felt it was great because you have everything you could ever want on that site. Why some guy still push for something that isn't being offered goes back to guys wanting something that feel they can't have. Guys love a challenge.
Obviously for an escort camming provides a whole new group of customers. I mean the opportunities to bank in escorting are limitless with camming. The amount of time you can spend with a cam customer and how easily he spends can now give you 100% cash in hand without splitting anything with a cam site. Plus because of it not being so open it can allow many escorts to ask for a higher rate than what a girl on backpage could ever hope to obtain.
We do see models raffle off dates all the time. Do we really think that the guy with 50 tokens got to meet her or the guy that tipped 50,000 tokens? It's a smart way to do business however this could change camming into a one stop shop. It may not happen now but give it about 5 years or so and camming may be seriously monitored for escort activity.
Maybe this is just normal in how boundaries change. That's also the reason why SM is usually rather strict but even they give favorites of the site allowances to do pretty much anything. I was looking around the other day and saw a girl fully naked in free chat. I mean fingering her vagina nude. **I'm not talking about the girl with the full body tat either***. In the past the model would have had her account shut down or suspended. Now?
Also it doesn't matter how discrete an escort is on a cam site. Guys are dumb enough to ask other cam models and disclose your personal information. He's now looking for variety and will try to find it even if he becomes an asshole about it.
Another problem is that even the cheap guy that thinks $100 for full service is great will be harassing models to escort just because he knows they do and he's used to cheaper services. MFC is really bad for guys asking for the $200 sex deal and then they get angry when you laugh at them. Now he knows you're an escort? That guy would never leave you alone. Banning is fine but that doesn't always work. A new screen name can be made over and over again so you don't really get away from the asshole. So yes it could be an amazing place for escorts to create new and high dollar customers but at the same time he's now no longer that interested in camming. He's now interested in turning a cam model that doesn't escort into a cam model that does. I've seen guys push already and it's happening with a high level of frequency.
There are sex workers that want to keep it in fantasy and others are ok with it going straight into reality. That's really the difference between the two. Generally women that get into sex work without actually having sex do it because they don't want to go that far to make money. It's their personal decision as everyone is entitled to have their own. This thread had just about 400 views yet there just about 19 different women that responded so far. This should really come to no surprise since many just really don't do it. I think escorting has probably crossed everyone's mind at least once and the thought of who's purchasing these services usually causes a knee jerk reaction to want to vomit. Now I'm pretty sure if the guy was hot , semi-hung, single and had thousands of dollars to spend, many would be on board. Hell if I could pick out the hot guys and charge a few grand a boink I would love it. The issue is that the majority are married and visually repulsive, bad breath , man boobs and the works of anything gross you can imagine. Now in camming with a hot guy you could actually control who you see so in this case, this would be one place you would actually have the upper hand. The issue is that it's rare for a hot single sexy guy to pay for sex because he can typically get laid with ease. It happens but it's rare. In camming perhaps you would have more opportunities to escort with really single attractive men. Again not sure if this would be the case but only an escort would know what client she actually sees. I haven't heard any escorts talk about how beautiful the men they see are. Perhaps if they spoke about this , women outside of this area would see escorting differently. So maybe in future threads of "Other Work" this could be discussed since my mind keeps envisioning that guy in the "warning dancers and escorts" section. Yes the one with the 1.5 inch cock that fell back into his body. The guy that had to step on his toes to cum on that escort's face. The one that was recording. Yes him.
So please tell us non escorts about the gorgeous single men. I think if I felt there were hot single guys seeing escorts then it would be viewed differently. Hell I would be all into escorting if the guy was really hot and threw three grand at me every time I saw him for an hour or two. Ugly chunky married fat guy with a tiny chubby for $200-$1000? Would never happen.
Honestly it's the mental picture above that puts most women off. Change the picture and you may be able to change someone's mind about it.
But I'm open to seeing the view from all sides so please continue sharing.
Plus with camming things change fast. I mean my shows were pretty basic in the beginning now I'm having to do close ups, angles. I mean it's much more involved now. Why? because everyone wants to push the envelope for more. Girls used to fake orgasms now guys want to see the juices being pushed out etc etc. This thread will have more views than you realize and it's only been up for less than 2 whole days.
The possible dangers of safety issues is also something to be concerned with.
^This post was within 48 hours of the topic being raised yet there are now almost 800 views. Goes to show how hot a topic this is. *
I also want to add that in camming you do get to see really hot guys. Actually the majority of the guys that spend on me are in the hot category . If they were paying for escorts , I'd be the first in line.
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Re: Camming and Escorting...Would You?
Bingo. Well said love.
I'm an escort and I would never meet a cam client. Anyone who do this is out of their minds.
You're just asking for trouble!!!!
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Originally Posted by
BlkSharpie
Yeah, its true...the guys on cam are *not* the same guys that escorts are meeting.
Even though they are dropping hundreds on a show with no contact, that is the market they are in and want. If they wanted an escort, they would easily pick up the phone and call one, but they dont. They go on cam..why? Because it suits their needs. They may be married to a real ball and chain with zero time freedom, have a tough work schedule that only allows them a few moments to get off, then get off line, or look like quasimoto and have an intense fear of actually being in the same room with a beautiful woman. Whatever it is, they are cam custies because they want to be.
So the fears about the industry evolving to favor escorts, I really do not think that will happen, not on any type of scale to make a difference. All the talk about meeting is fantasy, just like all the other stuff they talk about. Every so often, yeah there is a guy who would be serious and truly want to meet, of those guys, 90% will be phycho stalkers youd want to file a restraining order against if you ever crossed paths, and of the remaining 10% who would actually be decent guys, might not even make it into your cam room anyway.
Add to it, most of us who are serious about our escorting business are way too cautious about what we do, to get up on cam and announce we escort, making it too easy for guys to ask questions and for details that we refuse to give over the phone/email/text/etc to the guys we are actually providing services to. Talk about incriminating!!!! No way...so I honestly really do not think escorting cam girls is something for non-escort cam girls to worry about.