Do you ladies ever envy other girls or hate being compared to others?
There's a girl who a couple members told me was cool. I was like wtf at them for mentioning her in my chat. So I looked and it turns out we have a lot of the same customers. We aren't really similar in my opinion. We have different things going for us. I just find it super annoying bc I'm my own person I don't want to be categorized with anyone else. I envy her success though. Those guys just pissed me off so much. Am I taking it too personal?
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U should block them. simple :)...As for her success, that really shouldn't matter to you...YOUR success is what's important...
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I would PM them asking them not to mention other models in your chat room. But other than that, i don't think it's a big deal. If she's successful and you are being compared to her, take it as a compliment.
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Don't even let it come into your head. The fact that you're dwelling on it says it's gonna effect your hustle. You are you, no matter what. Earn that money and don't worry about other chicks, especially if it gets you frustrated.
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I am in somewhat of a niche market, and I often get compared to several other girls. As far as I can see they are beautiful, wonderful girls, and I am happy to be at their level.
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thanks to everyone who answered I guess I was just having a super bad day and work was slow so I was extra pissed. I just need to grow up a little.
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funismymiddlename
thanks to everyone who answered I guess I was just having a super bad day and work was slow so I was extra pissed. I just need to grow up a little.
If you can admit that, you are FAR more mature than most!
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No envy or jealousy here, and I've posted a response to this in that other thread (the thread GlamourRouge posted a link to).
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Yeah I guess I get a little envious. I may want that level of success but I still want her to maintain it. I want that for all my cam sisthren lol. It's only natural to hate being compared though. I used to go off on them! I mean really get ghetto and unattractive lol. One day, it changed though because for some reason Kanye popped in my head "Imma let you finish but...Beyonce had the best music video of all time! Of all time!" Now every time someone brings up another model, it brings to mind that infamous moment in douchebag history and it cracks me up. I'm not sure what my point is anymore but yeah never let these idiots distract you from your money. Speaking of that, I need to get my ass off SW...
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Kalypso
Yeah I guess I get a little envious. I may want that level of success but I still want her to maintain it. I want that for all my cam sisthren lol. It's only natural to hate being compared though. I used to go off on them! I mean really get ghetto and unattractive lol. One day, it changed though because for some reason Kanye popped in my head "Imma let you finish but...Beyonce had the best music video of all time! Of all time!" Now every time someone brings up another model, it brings to mind that infamous moment in douchebag history and it cracks me up. I'm not sure what my point is anymore but yeah never let these idiots distract you from your money. Speaking of that, I need to get my ass off SW...
LOL. Kanye deserved a good kick in the balls for doing that to poor Taylor Swift. That was her FIRST award ever, I believe, and she's never gonna forget that.
I like to think of myself as a sweet girl, but I'm not afraid to give a douchebag a good cussout when it's deserved. :P
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I dont hate it. Actually Im glad Im told who I'm being compared to...
Next time shes on I might go and check her out.. and see how can I do what she does but better....