She wanted me to give her my money!!
So okaay I am nearly ready to quit my club, or bitch to the manager.
So the other night, gave a dance to this handsy, drunk old man. HE pre-paid for two dances, and tipped me 40 dollars
Mr. old man tried to grab my crotch, Then I ended the last dance abruptly, collected my money and went to go in the dressing room
to take a breath and freshen up. Well out of nowhere, a busted looking redhead pops up from around the corner, her face is exactly foot away from my face and screams, "give that man back his money!" I was taken aback, first in shock, then scared that she was going to put her hands on me, and wondering who in the hell is she talking about? It dawned on me-
Then I said, "I am NOT giving him back his money, he tried to grab me; no refunds. "
She screams "Well he won't give me a dance because he says he has no money left and wants his refund from you!!"..
AND proceeds to follow me around the club. In the dressing room, she harased me ; " I KNOW YOU ARE DOING DIRTY DANCES ANYWAY so pay me his money! " I am not a a dirty dancer - I am great at selling the champange room and have been at this cllub for three years. She is not only bullying me, but ruining my good name with the other girls.
I was just so confused and scared so I peaced out.
:O omg I didnt know what to do. I left early that night! I work in a large club, but not that many dancers or customers work on a wednesday night. I have barely worked since then, Im ashamed to admit, but she scares me.
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Why did not tell to your manager? Siriously?
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missplayful
Why did not tell to your manager? Seriously?
+1.
How new are you? You don't let this shit just happen and then leave without a word. Wtf?
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Idk, it's a fucked up sitiuation. Who wants to be a tattle tale, ya know? And if she does tell and Red gets in trouble, what are pink's consequences going to be? Is Red going to kick her ass? That bitch seems a bit off kilter.
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kaiarose
Idk, it's a fucked up sitiuation. Who wants to be a tattle tale, ya know? And if she does tell and Red gets in trouble, what are pink's consequences going to be? Is Red going to kick her ass? That bitch seems a bit off kilter.
It happened to me once girl, i was giving a lapdance and that bitch walked in CR and started whispering to my "customer' s ear while i give a dance. I got mad and told her the Get the fuck out. She told me i am jelious bitch she owned my customer some money blah blah... No she tried to steal my customer and ruined my dances purposely. I immediatly told the manager he talked with girl otherwise i would ended up fighting with her i was extremly mad. Mangers handle those type of sitrutations. I guess she should talk immediatly.Thats why we are tipping managers every night.If they wont help us and solve problems why r they here for? Red head getting trouble?? Who cares she should better be! Mostly girls say they beat your ass but they wont they just bark never bite. She can carry a pepper spray just in case if anybody attacks after work not pink_bunny's fault lol:D
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I talked it over with my favorite manager. He told me quietly keep your money and don't listen to her. IF it were reversed, she would not do the same. Basically keep a low profile tonight and just get your job done, go home at the end of the night and she probably won't remember. " Now, thing is, this girl is a heavy coke user. scares the crap out of me, and has done a personality 180, from being sugary sweet.
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Tell the manager. It's never too late either. Just explain to him the situation & they'll have an eye on her. If she scares you that much, have bouncers walk you out. Don't let her intimidate you either, she ain't shit. That's YOUR money, NOT hers!! Unbelievable.
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pink_bunny
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I talked it over with my favorite manager. He told me quietly keep your money and don't listen to her. IF it were reversed, she would not do the same. Basically keep a low profile tonight and just get your job done, go home at the end of the night and she probably won't remember. " Now, thing is, this girl is a heavy coke user. scares the crap out of me, and has done a personality 180, from being sugary sweet.
they dont really fire girls here and I am not a snitch... I just try to use my head and stay out of shit u know.
Its not snitch to tell your manager ... Especially she is chasing u on the floor harrasing u and askin a refund? Thats insane shit... U can never deal with coke heads anyways thats what i have learnt from my experiences. Hopefully it gets better.
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pink_bunny
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I talked it over with my favorite manager. He told me quietly keep your money and don't listen to her. IF it were reversed, she would not do the same. Basically keep a low profile tonight and just get your job done, go home at the end of the night and she probably won't remember. " Now, thing is, this girl is a heavy coke user. scares the crap out of me, and has done a personality 180, from being sugary sweet.
I responded late. Good, glad you said something. They should fire girls like that.
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kaiarose
Idk, it's a fucked up sitiuation. Who wants to be a tattle tale, ya know? And if she does tell and Red gets in trouble, what are pink's consequences going to be? Is Red going to kick her ass? That bitch seems a bit off kilter.
I agree and disagree. If this chick is going to say shit like "I know you're giving dirty dances" when she's not, it seems to me there's a lot more consequenses to that statement then to Red getting in trouble.
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talked to a dancer friend from an old job and got some decent insights. Thank u guys for your insight and shedding light on this f-d up situation for me.
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I would make sure that security/management knows you're scared of her. Ask the bouncers to keep an eye on the floor for both you so they can be near by if SHTF.
If you're more worried about her pepper spray might be an idea. I have a Tazer C2, fits in my purse and i know i'm that much safer with it. Most likely she's a little barking dog, loud but harmless.
plan c is always bring up that junkies have one major soft spot, The Police. I know that can cause major drama in the club but it's an option.
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JayATee
+1.
How new are you? You don't let this shit just happen and then leave without a word. Wtf?
You've been there for three years and your gonna let some new chick run you out?! Fuck that. You should have gone to the manager. If you've been there longer, chances are any lie she tries to spin on you will go ovet heir heads. Not to be rude, but even the most EVIL bitches know who to fuck with. People sense weakness, and if you told her off and held your head high, then she would stay in her lane. Don't let some dramatic bitch fuck up your $.
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she followed you around just because she couldnt get a dance from a guy? wow talk about being desperate for cash....besides that whole time she was following you bitching, she could of been working. this bitch is a joke.
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Im glad you said something and she deserves to be fired for sure!
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JoJoX
she followed you around just because she couldnt get a dance from a guy? wow talk about being desperate for cash....besides that whole time she was following you bitching, she could of been working. this bitch is a joke.
Exactly!!! Her hu$tle game is off.