I had this image of a trio of dancers, two of which holding the rude custies arms while the other stapled a "BANNED" button to his mouth. But yoda cleared things up for me quickly :)
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I had this image of a trio of dancers, two of which holding the rude custies arms while the other stapled a "BANNED" button to his mouth. But yoda cleared things up for me quickly :)
I think it's perfectly fine. If a customer is rude to me, I'll be rude back. This is one of the luxuries of my job that I didn't have back when I was waitressing at sports bars and nice restaurants. I don't have to kiss ass to people who are being outwardly rude to me. However, the extent of my rudeness would be a witty comment and then probably walking away. No need to waste time on someone who has a bad attitude towards me.
I don't think it's always bad. Calling a guy a fag if he turns down a dance is always really bad, but no matter how long I dance I still hear girls say it from time to time.
Recently I had a guy tell me that he was a more valuable person because he makes money with his brain and I make money with my pussy, and he makes a lot more than I do. I said "you'd better because you're in here 4 nights a week after work paying people to pretend they like you, and when I leave work my marginally lucrative pussy and I go home to the many, many people who actually do care about me."
It would have been more professional of me to just laugh it off or walk away, but I felt good about giving him a little dose of reality and letting him know that our job description does not include being an emotional punching bag for frustrated old men.
Most of the time the insults I get are backhanded compliments that are an attempt to make me feel insecure, like "your haircut is really nice, it almost makes you look like you aren't a stripper; don't let people tell you you're fat, I think you're perfect; I love that you aren't skinny like all the other girls; it's nice that you aren't sexy like the other girls because I can really talk to you like a real person...." Whenever I get that nonsense I just pretend to hear only the compliment and gush thank you's.
Some guys are there for business, and they are just normal guys entertaining clients, 90% of the guys are just losers who don't know how to relate to women, so they have to pay for attention from us. It's safe to assume that just by being in a strip club they are announcing their diminished social skills and lack of game. Expect them to say at least one stupid thing to you, but probably several, and don't get upset when it happens. It's so not you, it's them.
sometimes just sometimes being a bitch is good, appearing to be elusive and a bitch helps a lot at times.